Williams, Genie
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- | Well Genie, it is a delight to see you. | 0:04 |
Just some background information. | 0:09 | |
Could you say your name? | 0:10 | |
- | Genie Williams. | 0:12 |
- | Good. | |
- | Eugenia. | 0:14 |
- | Eugenia, | |
you know I didn't even know that, that's interesting. | 0:15 | |
- | I'm just Genie and rub the lamp and there I am. | 0:17 |
(laughing) | 0:20 | |
- | Oh I love it. | 0:22 |
Are you lay or clergy? | 0:23 | |
- | I guess lay. | 0:27 |
UCC counts commission ministers as-- | 0:30 | |
- | Oh okay what does commission minister mean? | 0:33 |
- | It's about a field, like commission | 0:37 |
in Christian education. | 0:39 | |
- | Okay, what did you do for Christian education? | 0:41 |
- | Well the real truth is I sang in the choir one year | 0:44 |
and several people including the choir director | 0:48 | |
said why don't you teach Sunday School? | 0:51 | |
(laughing) | 0:53 | |
So I got into Christian education and at that point | 0:55 | |
that would've been in '60s, '70s. | 0:58 | |
At that point there was a lot | 1:03 | |
of lay Christian education. | 1:05 | |
By the time I'd taken oodles of courses, | 1:08 | |
it was like a college education. | 1:11 | |
So I was a certified Christian educator. | 1:14 | |
- | What did you do then at church? | 1:17 |
- | And then I worked for 24 years at Mizpah Church, | 1:20 |
United Church of Christ in Hopkins. | 1:25 | |
I said my job description was | 1:29 | |
Christian education and everything senior minister | 1:33 | |
didn't wanna do. | 1:36 | |
(laughing) | ||
And I worked for seven different ones. | 1:38 | |
- | Wow. (laughs) | 1:41 |
You were the constant it sounds like. | 1:43 | |
That's amazing. | 1:45 | |
Is that what you were doing at the time | 1:48 | |
of the Reimagining? | 1:50 | |
- | Yeah, mm-hm. | |
- | Good. | 1:52 |
- | I think I retired it in the '80s, in the late '80s. | 1:54 |
No, no, no, that's not true. | 1:59 | |
Yeah, no, but I was working at the time of, | 2:02 | |
the conferences. | 2:06 | |
- | Is that what you continued to do after Reimagining? | 2:07 |
- | Yeah. | 2:11 |
- | Yeah, yeah. | |
- | I retired from there and that was the end of. | 2:13 |
- | Are you okay if I mention how old you are? | 2:18 |
- | No, not a bit. | 2:21 |
- | You're gonna be 90 next month. | 2:22 |
- | Yes. | 2:24 |
- | Wow and I just have to add you look amazing. | 2:25 |
- | And I worked at the church until I was 69. | 2:28 |
- | Did you really? | 2:31 |
Is that your secret to staying young? | 2:34 | |
- | Maybe. | 2:36 |
(laughing) | 2:37 | |
Maybe. | ||
- | When and where were you born? | 2:41 |
- | I was born near Philadelphia, in Philadelphia. | 2:43 |
And I lived in the suburbs of Philadelphia until 1953. | 2:46 | |
- | Is that right? | 2:52 |
- | And then we moved here when my husband | 2:53 |
shared the ownership of the local newspapers. | 2:56 | |
- | Is that right, okay. | 2:59 |
So that's what brought you here. | 3:01 | |
- | Joined the Mizpah Church in '54 | 3:02 |
and I've been there ever since. | 3:05 | |
- | Wow that's impressive. | 3:07 |
How and when did you first become aware | 3:10 | |
of feminist theology? | 3:12 | |
- | I suppose through Reimagining. | 3:14 |
I never thought much about it before. | 3:17 | |
- | Really? | 3:19 |
- | And I didn't sign up originally when everybody | 3:20 |
was kind of talking about it because we did so much | 3:23 | |
in Christian Ed. in this area. | 3:26 | |
We would go places and talk about what a good time | 3:29 | |
we were having and everybody else from other parts | 3:31 | |
of the country would complain about they didn't like | 3:34 | |
the way they were treated as Christian educators | 3:37 | |
and so forth but we had really good relationships | 3:39 | |
around and ecumenical relationships. | 3:43 | |
So I knew many of the people on file | 3:45 | |
and finally I was hearing that the, | 3:48 | |
I guess it was 1993 and the first, | 3:52 | |
was it the woman of the year. | 3:57 | |
- | Ecumenical decade. | 3:59 |
- | Yeah. | |
- | And solidarity with woman. | 4:01 |
- | Yeah. | |
People all over the country were asked to do workshops | 4:04 | |
so that's what all this was gonna be. | 4:06 | |
And then I began to hear about it, | 4:09 | |
so I thought yeah I'd like to be a part of it. | 4:11 | |
So I guess my first job in the was | 4:14 | |
I was assigned to change the tablecloths, | 4:18 | |
the paper tablecloths in the morning | 4:21 | |
each morning of that first conference. | 4:24 | |
- | Really? | 4:26 |
- | Because we drew on them and then we changed | 4:28 |
the location of each table. | 4:31 | |
The tablecloths went with them. | 4:33 | |
I laughed because I figured it was the first time | 4:36 | |
I knew I was part of women's conference | 4:39 | |
rather than a men's because there was always | 4:43 | |
somebody in there having half of it done | 4:45 | |
before I ever got there. | 4:47 | |
- | Really, I love it, that is great. | 4:49 |
So what do you remember from that 1993 conference? | 4:52 | |
Although that's a great memory right there, | 4:55 | |
what other things? | 4:56 | |
- | Oh the worship was outstanding | 5:01 |
because it came from every corner. | 5:04 | |
It didn't come from some place up front. | 5:06 | |
It came from everywhere which I thought was fascinating | 5:10 | |
and the people you met were amazing. | 5:12 | |
It was just a really friendly thing too. | 5:19 | |
Well of course I remember some of the backlash | 5:31 | |
which was amazing. | 5:33 | |
- | It was, we'll need to talk about that in a minute. | 5:35 |
But I was wondering, you said that was your introduction | 5:38 | |
to feminist theology, do you remember how you-- | 5:40 | |
- | I never thought much about it before that. | 5:42 |
- | How did you react to it when you heard about it? | 5:45 |
- | I believed it. | 5:47 |
(laughing) | 5:49 | |
I believed it. | 5:51 | |
I remember, was it Dolores Williams, who was adamant about, | 5:54 | |
NAFTA, what was going on with that southern, | 6:00 | |
the trade agreement, NAFTA, is that right? | 6:04 | |
- | Yep, that sounds right, yes. | 6:07 |
- | It was not passed at that time and she was adamant | 6:10 |
about having it passed. | 6:13 | |
It already did all of the things | 6:15 | |
that she said it would do. | 6:16 | |
It took business down to Mexico. | 6:18 | |
I remember her talks, I remember, | 6:21 | |
I remember biting the apple. | 6:24 | |
- | You do, yes. | 6:27 |
- | We sort of kept that all the way through, | 6:31 |
that icon. | 6:34 | |
And just so many people from so many places | 6:40 | |
with so many ideas and it was a wonderful mix | 6:43 | |
of worship and learning and friendship | 6:47 | |
and it was just a beautiful mix of all of that together. | 6:54 | |
We ate together and we talked together. | 6:57 | |
- | That's exactly right, yeah. | 7:00 |
- | I remember during the later one, | 7:02 |
I would work at the bookstore for instance. | 7:04 | |
I can remember a woman coming in from | 7:06 | |
I think Virginia or some place. | 7:10 | |
She got there early so she could get books | 7:13 | |
because she couldn't get any of those books | 7:16 | |
near where she was. | 7:18 | |
- | Really? | |
Wow, that says a lot, doesn't it? | 7:20 | |
- | Mm-hm. | 7:22 |
- | Yeah. | |
I'm sorry I kind of interrupted you. | 7:24 | |
You were starting to talk about the backlash | 7:25 | |
and I do wanna hear, did that affect you at all? | 7:27 | |
- | Well you got kind of involved and you couldn't | 7:30 |
get away from it. | 7:33 | |
(laughing) | ||
I ended up with Sue Swanson | 7:35 | |
and I would do quarterly worships. | 7:37 | |
And we still go have pie | 7:40 | |
at Baker Square because that was what we did | 7:44 | |
for every planning. | 7:48 | |
We learned a lot through doing that planning | 7:53 | |
and then of course there was a big conference every year | 7:55 | |
for the next 10 years. | 8:02 | |
- | So tell me more, you were involved in quarterly worship. | 8:05 |
You were on the coordinating council. | 8:08 | |
- | Yeah, I was on the coordinating council | 8:09 |
before you were allowed to be on the coordinating council. | 8:11 | |
(laughing) | 8:14 | |
Kind of worked in the office worked. | 8:19 | |
We have a group that still meets and it was... | 8:23 | |
Who used to run that magazine? | 8:29 | |
- | PM Journ? | 8:32 |
- | No. | |
- | Nancy Burneket. | 8:34 |
- | Nancy Burneket was part of that group. | 8:35 |
- | Was she? | 8:37 |
- | That was really fun. | 8:37 |
Joe Ringingburd was part of that. | 8:42 | |
- | We've lost both of them. | 8:45 |
- | So that group is still going and I think your group | 8:48 |
is the only other small one I know of that's still going. | 8:50 | |
- | That's right, right. | 8:54 |
How many people are in your small group now? | 8:55 | |
- | About six I think | 8:57 |
and then somebody has joined in it too. | 9:00 | |
Some of them weren't, somebody just joined us | 9:02 | |
and she was no part of the original Reimagining. | 9:05 | |
- | Oh well that's good, so it's still going on | 9:09 |
and even adding members. | 9:11 | |
I'd love to hear, what does your small group do? | 9:13 | |
- | We are reading a book right now. | 9:17 |
We just never run out of things to talk about. | 9:23 | |
A lot of it's preservation of the world | 9:26 | |
or it's what's going on | 9:29 | |
in churches and it's not as feminist just general, | 9:30 | |
general conversation and political. | 9:35 | |
We've been trying to save the world now | 9:39 | |
for how many years and it hasn't worked yet. | 9:40 | |
- | I'm not giving up on you though. | 9:43 |
- | We'll work at it. | 9:45 |
- | Do you normally read books? | 9:47 |
- | We have read some, not a lot. | 9:49 |
We sometimes have a book in the background. | 9:52 | |
- | But a lot of times it's just getting | 9:55 |
together for conversation. | 9:56 | |
- | Yeah, and we generally get together | 9:58 |
about once a month. | 10:00 | |
- | Really, that's wonderful. | 10:01 |
- | And I think that most of the people at some point | 10:03 |
have been a part of one of the conferences. | 10:06 | |
- | That's neat. | 10:10 |
When you talked about the quarterly worship, | 10:12 | |
what was it like planning those? | 10:15 | |
Or go into those? | 10:17 | |
- | We did things like I can remember doing a, | 10:19 |
over here at the Methodist Church | 10:23 | |
because I had a labyrinth | 10:24 | |
so we planned one around that labyrinth. | 10:26 | |
The thing we basically learned from that | 10:29 | |
was never play hymns while you're, | 10:30 | |
we had a couple of kids who were playing violins | 10:34 | |
but they played hymns and you can't do the labyrinth | 10:36 | |
while you've got a hymn going on. | 10:39 | |
(laughing) | 10:40 | |
Just play like wild music. | 10:42 | |
That was a big learning point. | 10:45 | |
- | I didn't know that, that's good to know. | 10:46 |
- | There was just a sort of a theme and there | 10:52 |
were different places and I can't remember | 10:54 | |
a lot of them now. | 10:57 | |
I think we did some, | 10:59 | |
what's the solstice-- | 11:01 | |
- | Solstice, yes. | 11:03 |
- | Ones and, we had a different theme each time. | 11:05 |
It didn't have a big attendance but it had some. | 11:10 | |
- | Right yeah, and how about your memories | 11:13 |
of the coordinating council? | 11:16 | |
What was that like? | 11:18 | |
- | I know I was the co-chair | 11:19 |
of one and the one on power. | 11:24 | |
I think I was the co-chair of another | 11:29 | |
but I'm not sure and then I remember | 11:31 | |
the last one was interesting because | 11:33 | |
there was two younger people who were doing it. | 11:35 | |
Some of the council people were complaining | 11:41 | |
because they weren't making any money | 11:44 | |
and they were at a loss of where to turn, | 11:45 | |
so I said I'd help, well I couldn't. | 11:48 | |
I was a tri-chair, it was like three generations | 11:51 | |
doing that last one. | 11:53 | |
- | Really? | 11:55 |
- | 'Cause I knew the names of people, | 11:57 |
learned to get help, how to do it | 12:01 | |
and we used the worship team | 12:02 | |
from the (mumbles) Avenue Methodist Church. | 12:06 | |
Special service that they had | 12:09 | |
and they were the | 12:11 | |
worshiping team that led it. | 12:14 | |
And that was fun to work with. | 12:17 | |
Mary Bedmorowski was, sat with us in doing a lot. | 12:19 | |
On the red couch or something like that. | 12:26 | |
It was one of the books that was done | 12:29 | |
by one of the tri-chairs. | 12:32 | |
- | Rachel Gaffron. | 12:34 |
- | Yeah. | |
But that was fun to do because we just picked up | 12:43 | |
and then we announced it was going to be the last one. | 12:45 | |
And then the money came in like mad. | 12:48 | |
- | Really? | 12:51 |
- | And so they had the money to get to the seminary | 12:52 |
for scholarships and things. | 12:54 | |
But otherwise we were almost gonna go in debt. | 12:56 | |
As soon as we said it was the last, | 13:01 | |
people came and people gave money. | 13:03 | |
- | Interesting. | 13:07 |
- | And the other one I was the co-chair | 13:08 |
of was the one on power with Lenny Russel, is that right? | 13:10 | |
- | I think that's right. | 13:13 |
- | We used to, we did, | 13:15 |
I think people did anyway. | 13:17 | |
When were the conferences, they were in the fall? | 13:20 | |
- | Yes. | 13:23 |
- | I think in about April we had Lenny come in | 13:25 |
and we had the people who were working on the team | 13:28 | |
talk with her and she of course said | 13:32 | |
had a power kind of background in her Presbyterian stuff. | 13:35 | |
She came and we talked and... | 13:40 | |
Knew that there were always two people doing everything, | 13:44 | |
never one person. | 13:47 | |
After that whole weekend, after that whole day, | 13:50 | |
I was taking her back to the airport, | 13:54 | |
she said well I have a different idea of power | 13:56 | |
than I had when I came. | 13:58 | |
She was redoing some of the things that she was gonna do. | 14:00 | |
- | Really. | 14:04 |
- | But one of the fun power things was she brought | 14:05 |
her partner with her. | 14:07 | |
This partner had a part of Cooksbury | 14:11 | |
or was very friendly with I don't know, | 14:13 | |
but anyway, she called that Cooksbury Company | 14:16 | |
and said they're only giving ordained people discounts. | 14:19 | |
In this place, in this conference, | 14:23 | |
everybody should get a discount. | 14:25 | |
And I, well now there's power. | 14:28 | |
(laughing) | 14:30 | |
- | That's a great example. | 14:32 |
- | But it was an exciting place to be | 14:39 |
and there was always something to do. | 14:42 | |
For some of the conferences, | 14:45 | |
I gathered the workshops or | 14:46 | |
there was some job to do at each of the conferences. | 14:50 | |
- | So were you pretty much involved the whole 10 years? | 14:54 |
- | I guess so. | 14:56 |
- | It sounds like it. | |
Yes, yes, that's wonderful. | 14:58 | |
- | I think I was on the council a long time | 15:00 |
'cause I don't think they had kind of revolving terms | 15:03 | |
until the end and then they sort of | 15:06 | |
made revolving terms. | 15:08 | |
- | To get back to the backlash, | 15:12 |
how do you account, did you, how do you account | 15:16 | |
for it, do you think? | 15:19 | |
- | I think of the UCC as being pretty liberal | 15:20 |
and they weren't as much of that | 15:22 | |
but I just remember those Methodists | 15:25 | |
and Presbyterian churches with their. | 15:28 | |
One of the fun things and I think it was after the first | 15:35 | |
one I went out to see my daughter in Pennsylvania | 15:37 | |
and I drove, it was right after the conference. | 15:41 | |
I just played all the music and all the worship | 15:43 | |
and all the way driving out to Pennsylvania. | 15:46 | |
Then when I got there, we went to her ministerium | 15:50 | |
and they said introduce your mother, Karen, | 15:55 | |
which she did and I went to sit down. | 15:58 | |
And just a minute, we want to hear from someone | 16:00 | |
who was there. | 16:02 | |
(laughing) | 16:03 | |
- | Really. | 16:06 |
- | Then I went out to lunch with some of them | 16:09 |
and we talked about it. | 16:11 | |
- | And how did they respond? | 16:12 |
- | Well things, it wasn't communion. | 16:13 |
That's what people got so upset about. | 16:15 | |
We couldn't do communion because we'd have Catholics there | 16:18 | |
and so we did milk and honey, that was... | 16:21 | |
The love feast. | 16:25 | |
That had nothing to do | 16:27 | |
and then I remember one comment... | 16:29 | |
Patrick (mumbles) St. John's. | 16:37 | |
- | Yes. | 16:39 |
- | Yeah. | |
- | Yes. | 16:40 |
- | I think in his book 'til we brought it out, that, | 16:40 |
one of their things was never have a round table. | 16:44 | |
- | That's right. | 16:46 |
- | Have somebody at the head of the table | 16:47 |
but never have a round table. | 16:49 | |
And just so many things like that | 16:52 | |
and they were just out to look for things. | 16:56 | |
Poor Sally Hill just knocked herself out over all that. | 16:58 | |
And then the people who were fired or couldn't work. | 17:02 | |
The gal from the National Presbyterian-- | 17:07 | |
- | Mary Ann Lundy? | 17:11 |
- | Yeah Mary Ann Lundy. | |
And then she went for the World Council of Churches. | 17:14 | |
So she always said she was fired up. | 17:17 | |
(laughing) | 17:19 | |
- | That's right. | |
Do you recall, were you surprised at the backlash? | 17:23 | |
Did you anticipate that or did people-- | 17:25 | |
- | No, I think I come from a fairly liberal church. | 17:27 |
That was a surprise. | 17:31 | |
- | Yeah, yeah. | 17:34 |
Were you part of it when they were forming | 17:36 | |
the community, do you remember what that was like? | 17:38 | |
The decision to form the community? | 17:40 | |
- | In the very beginning? | 17:42 |
- | Yes. | |
- | No, I wasn't part of the beginning. | 17:44 |
I loved the idea that somebody, | 17:46 | |
whatever they were doing, they spelled it wrong | 17:48 | |
and they came out with Reimagine. | 17:50 | |
I love that story. | 17:52 | |
- | Yes, yes, me too. | |
Yeah, yeah. | 17:55 | |
You were very involved in a lot of it. | 17:56 | |
- | And then I remember the first one and they had the play | 17:59 |
about the shakers? | 18:02 | |
- | Yes. | 18:04 |
- | And the fact that someone got in | 18:05 |
and stole all the coats and money and all that stuff. | 18:07 | |
That whole group just got together. | 18:12 | |
And then the fact that people came from all kinds of places | 18:16 | |
and were cold and they had to bring in coats | 18:19 | |
and scarves and things to keep all the people warm. | 18:21 | |
- | Lots of hospitality. | 18:26 |
- | Mm-hm. | |
- | Yeah, definitely, yeah. | 18:28 |
Well Genie, after all your involvement in it, | 18:31 | |
how would you define Reimagining? | 18:33 | |
- | Look at new ways of seeing, | 18:40 |
of appreciating God, of worshiping God. | 18:46 | |
Of course the language matters and we had had | 18:50 | |
in terms of language for a long time in the UCC Church, | 18:53 | |
so that wasn't a shock but just the way of doing it | 18:57 | |
and then the idea of always having two. | 19:00 | |
Never doing it alone. | 19:04 | |
- | Just say some more about that. | 19:06 |
That was your experience, why did that matter so much? | 19:07 | |
- | There was always a co-chair. | 19:10 |
For some reason I think I co-chaired a third, | 19:15 | |
earlier one in the power one. | 19:18 | |
But I'm not sure when that was, that may have been. | 19:21 | |
What one of those chair people is good at, | 19:26 | |
the other one is good at something else. | 19:29 | |
So you can share the load. | 19:32 | |
Then there was always somebody to consult with | 19:35 | |
rather than just making decisions. | 19:37 | |
- | Yes, yeah. | 19:39 |
- | There's just so many wonderful memories | 19:45 |
of all the conferences. | 19:46 | |
Each one has something. | 19:49 | |
- | Are there any other memories you wanna talk about? | 19:51 |
- | I think women who had | 19:53 |
the necktie... | 19:57 | |
(mumbles) I guess, it was a big (mumbles) | 20:03 | |
and it was made out of neckties and I always loved that one. | 20:05 | |
- | Really? | 20:07 |
- | Can't remember her name. | 20:09 |
- | Yes. | 20:11 |
- | I get excused 'cause I'm 90. | 20:12 |
(laughing) | 20:14 | |
I can't remember names. | ||
- | Well you know what, it's been almost 25 years. | 20:15 |
A lot of us are forgetting names. | 20:18 | |
- | How about the... | 20:20 |
One who came in was really sick | 20:23 | |
and the gal from the labyrinth and they | 20:25 | |
prayed for her, she was leading it | 20:28 | |
and she had gotten really sick beforehand. | 20:29 | |
- | Oh. | 20:33 |
- | She came through enough to come lead | 20:37 |
the thing that she was gonna do. | 20:39 | |
- | Yes. | 20:41 |
- | I don't remember her name. | 20:45 |
She was one of the leaders of one of the conferences. | 20:47 | |
The gal who does labyrinths. | 20:51 | |
- | Jill Jeffrien? | 20:53 |
- | Jill Jeffrien | |
was a chair at that time and they really worked with her. | 20:55 | |
- | Did they, wow, that's impressive, yeah, yeah. | 20:59 |
As you think back on it, you were really involved in it | 21:06 | |
so much, how do you think feminist theology | 21:09 | |
affected the function, the way the community functioned? | 21:11 | |
The way it was structured, the way it functioned. | 21:14 | |
You talked about co-chairs for example | 21:16 | |
but are there other things that you can think of? | 21:17 | |
- | Well I loved the fact there were men there. | 21:21 |
It wasn't just women. | 21:24 | |
There was men who appreciated. | 21:26 | |
Who appreciated women. | 21:30 | |
There were different ways of looking at things. | 21:35 | |
Well I can't think of anything especially now, but... | 21:47 | |
And very often there wasn't just somebody in front, | 21:54 | |
there was always coming from all around places. | 21:56 | |
Everybody was a part of it. | 22:01 | |
Rather than just one leader at a time. | 22:05 | |
All opinions were accepted | 22:11 | |
and talked about and... | 22:14 | |
Included. | 22:19 | |
Even I think the coordinating council | 22:23 | |
had co-chairs of things. | 22:26 | |
- | Yes, that's right, yeah, yeah. | 22:30 |
What challenges were faced by the community | 22:34 | |
over those 10 years and how were they addressed? | 22:37 | |
- | Well the people that didn't want women in charge. | 22:40 |
- | Yes (laughs) yeah. | 22:44 |
- | The problem is that my church was liberal enough, | 22:51 |
I mean people didn't even have women as ushers. | 22:54 | |
One of my favorite at church was two women | 22:59 | |
were elected to the Board of Christian Stewardship. | 23:02 | |
For the first time women involved in that. | 23:08 | |
They made a pact that neither one | 23:12 | |
was gonna be secretary. | 23:13 | |
(laughing) | 23:15 | |
- | That's good. | 23:17 |
Yeah, yes, yes. | 23:19 | |
What do you think of the way that Reimagining addressed | 23:21 | |
the whole issue of the backlash? | 23:24 | |
- | Well I think they addressed it in a positive way. | 23:28 |
They didn't react to it, well they reacted | 23:34 | |
in they did more but they did it positively | 23:37 | |
not back lashing the back lash. | 23:40 | |
- | Right, right, yeah. | 23:43 |
You mentioned in the last conference | 23:45 | |
there was that issue of people, was it people | 23:47 | |
not getting paid or something, | 23:50 | |
so that kind of became an issue? | 23:51 | |
- | Well there was not gonna be enough money. | 23:53 |
They were gonna run out of money. | 23:55 | |
- | Oh I see, okay. | 23:57 |
- | For running the thing and we changed the location. | 23:59 |
But we ended by having enough | 24:06 | |
and we had a long talking where | 24:07 | |
people got up sort of reminiscing | 24:12 | |
about what Reimagining had been to them. | 24:14 | |
I remember two Catholic nuns who were always there. | 24:19 | |
They left and they said our bishops | 24:23 | |
didn't even know what was going on. (laughs) | 24:25 | |
- | Yes, yes, yeah, yeah. | 24:29 |
Do you remember that time, how did you feel | 24:31 | |
about that time of the ending of it? | 24:34 | |
- | Well it felt like a piece was going away. | 24:37 |
A piece of my life. | 24:41 | |
I enjoyed the magazine. | 24:44 | |
I carry with me all the time one of the pieces | 24:47 | |
from one of the magazines that I love. | 24:50 | |
- | Oh I'd love to see that. | 24:53 |
- | And it's written by a 14 year old girl. | 25:06 |
I just put it in my calendar every year | 25:11 | |
and it's just about God and the wind. | 25:14 | |
- | Neither Heard Nor Seen by Lindsey Messenger. | 25:17 |
Wow. | 25:22 | |
What is it about this that | 25:25 | |
do you wanna read it or? | 25:26 | |
- | I can. | 25:28 |
- | Yeah, that'd be lovely. | 25:29 |
- | Neither heard or seen, we know God is there. | 25:30 |
Moving softly on the currents of a warm breeze. | 25:33 | |
Weaving in and out through the world | 25:36 | |
of which we are a part. | 25:38 | |
The wind is not seeing and yet it is capable | 25:40 | |
of destroying the city, but it's also the same | 25:42 | |
force that may send a boat safely back to shore. | 25:46 | |
The air which we breathe is not seen | 25:49 | |
yet it fills our lungs and hearts with life. | 25:52 | |
On a cool night it sends shivers through our skin. | 25:55 | |
We feel its presence but cannot touch it. | 25:58 | |
We know how to believe in things | 26:01 | |
we cannot see or understand. | 26:03 | |
Guided along the path of life. | 26:04 | |
Always in God's presence. | 26:07 | |
Let us breathe deeply and fill our hearts | 26:08 | |
with a mysterious understanding of God. | 26:11 | |
- | Oh that is beautiful and you said that was-- | 26:14 |
- | That was in a Reimagining newsletter | 26:16 |
written by a 14 year old girl. | 26:19 | |
- | 14 year old girl, wow. | 26:21 |
That is beautiful, what about that in particular? | 26:23 | |
- | It's just the way I feel about God. | 26:26 |
It's a presence but it's pretty unexplainable. | 26:31 | |
- | Yes, yes, yeah, that is beautiful. | 26:35 |
I can see why you keep carrying that around. | 26:40 | |
- | I just put it in my calendar every year. | 26:42 |
- | Do you, yes, yeah. | 26:43 |
That is wonderful. | 26:46 | |
In a way this is following up on that. | 26:47 | |
What aspects of Reimagining were most significant | 26:50 | |
to you and why? | 26:52 | |
- | I think the magazine was interesting | 26:54 |
and of course the conferences were exciting and... | 26:56 | |
Working with the people was... | 27:02 | |
And always a new look at things. | 27:07 | |
Always a new way of understanding something. | 27:10 | |
- | Yes, yeah, definitely, yeah. | 27:12 |
- | I don't feel the feminist angle so strongly | 27:20 |
because I had been feeling that all the way. | 27:24 | |
I mean that's, my church is that way anyway. | 27:27 | |
We had biblical witness which had some backlash | 27:31 | |
but it wasn't as bad as the Presbyterian Methodist ones. | 27:34 | |
- | If it wasn't the feminist theology so much, | 27:40 |
what was it that really grabbed you about Reimagining? | 27:43 | |
- | It was the people, the interest, | 27:47 |
the new look at things, | 27:48 | |
the responsibility of the people involved was amazing | 27:55 | |
and they followed through on so many things. | 27:59 | |
They saw things that made things happen. | 28:04 | |
- | They sure did. | 28:08 |
Did your involvement in Reimagining change | 28:10 | |
your perspective on feminist theology or the church at all? | 28:13 | |
- | It just widened it. | 28:17 |
I think it widened it. | 28:19 | |
Made me realize there was more than UCC. | 28:23 | |
Other people believed this too. | 28:27 | |
- | Yes, yeah, yeah. | 28:29 |
So it was more the ecumenical aspect of it? | 28:32 | |
Of denominations? | 28:35 | |
- | Yeah, that's true. | 28:37 |
- | Is there something else you meant by widened it? | 28:39 |
- | It just... | 28:43 |
Made me think more of women's place in... | 28:46 | |
In everything. | 28:48 | |
We are 50% of the society. | 28:52 | |
I loved the Senate when the first woman was elected. | 28:55 | |
I think there are 20 in the Senate right now. | 29:00 | |
And they get things done there. | 29:03 | |
They get together and they plan and they cross parties | 29:04 | |
and they make things happen. | 29:08 | |
The first woman, there was not a women's room | 29:12 | |
near the Senate. | 29:15 | |
- | Oh my goodness. | 29:16 |
(laughing) | ||
- | I always thought that was interesting. | 29:21 |
- | Yes, exactly. | 29:23 |
What specific contributions do you think | 29:27 | |
Reimagining made to theology or liturgy? | 29:30 | |
- | Certainly inclusive language was helped. | 29:35 |
And open the doors for lots of things. | 29:44 | |
I mean why would there only be men ushers? | 29:47 | |
Why would there only be (mumbles). | 29:50 | |
And we now have a woman minister. | 29:52 | |
Just chosen and | 29:55 | |
worked with one of the gals at church | 29:58 | |
and we were on the search committee for our interim | 30:01 | |
and she did not want a woman. | 30:05 | |
Garth was just wonderful and it would've been hard | 30:07 | |
to replace but we had Rosemary came in | 30:11 | |
to take care of the summer when he got another job | 30:13 | |
and I was glad that there was a woman there | 30:15 | |
to sort of spread the way. | 30:17 | |
And then the search committee just said, | 30:20 | |
we just picked the best one. | 30:23 | |
We didn't even look whether it was a woman or a man | 30:25 | |
and it is a woman and she is great. | 30:26 | |
I talked to my friend who didn't want a woman. | 30:30 | |
I said what if we get a woman minister? | 30:34 | |
Well I don't have to listen to her. | 30:35 | |
- | This is even at a liberal church. | 30:39 |
- | Yes. | 30:41 |
- | Yeah. | |
- | And then so I saw her the other day and we were doing. | 30:42 |
I said how do you like? | 30:45 | |
She says I like it, I love her. | 30:47 | |
- | Oh really? | 30:49 |
- | And she just stepped in | |
and she is leading. | 30:51 | |
We had a full day | 30:53 | |
on the building and who are we as a church | 30:56 | |
and 50 people were there. | 30:59 | |
I remember there are really active people in the church. | 31:01 | |
- | That's good to hear. | 31:04 |
- | They were looking ahead | |
and she ran that meeting beautifully. | 31:06 | |
- | The pastor did? | 31:09 |
- | Yeah. | |
- | Yeah, yeah, that is so good to hear. | 31:11 |
- | And so we've been really pleased with her. | 31:14 |
- | I'm so glad, yeah. | 31:18 |
Looking toward the future of Reimagining, | 31:19 | |
as we're kind of ending up here. | 31:22 | |
What do you think, as you look back on it, | 31:24 | |
what do you think is the greatest legacy of Reimagining? | 31:26 | |
- | Open your eyes and see that there are more | 31:31 |
than one way to do things. | 31:34 | |
- | That's good. | 31:36 |
- | And there's both sexes can do things. | 31:38 |
They may do them differently but | 31:43 | |
they all come out with a good ending. | 31:44 | |
And all men aren't anti-women. | 31:49 | |
There are some that are very much in favor | 31:53 | |
of the feminist ideas. | 31:55 | |
- | Absolutely, yeah. | 31:58 |
We had a couple who were really involved, didn't we? | 32:00 | |
- | Yeah you were talking about Matt Manning. | 32:02 |
- | Manly, yeah. | 32:06 |
- | Manly. | |
The ones who did the worship, Steve? | 32:10 | |
- | Steve Blonds? | 32:14 |
- | Steve Blonds. | 32:15 |
- | Yes. | |
- | And his partner at United Methodist downtown | 32:17 |
who did the worship for the final one? | 32:22 | |
It was Steve Blonds with him. | 32:24 | |
- | I don't remember who that was, I'm sorry. | 32:27 |
- | They do the worship and I can't remember her name. | 32:30 |
But anyway, he certainly was part of things. | 32:33 | |
- | Yes, yeah, yeah, absolutely, yeah. | 32:37 |
That's right. | 32:41 | |
What do you think Reimagining | 32:43 | |
could or should mean today? | 32:46 | |
What needs to be reimagined I guess? | 32:48 | |
- | I guess it's eternal, I mean we haven't gotten | 32:52 |
all the way there yet. | 32:55 | |
As I told you about my minis-- | 32:57 | |
- | Right, yes. | 32:59 |
- | Eyes just have to still be opened | 33:03 |
to feelings, discussed and planned. | 33:05 | |
It's almost like racism. | 33:09 | |
The feminist ideas still have to be | 33:14 | |
included and | 33:18 | |
embraced | 33:23 | |
and kept adamant. | 33:25 | |
- | I'm curious what is your sense, | 33:26 |
when you think where we are now | 33:28 | |
as opposed to where we were then? | 33:30 | |
How would you describe it? | 33:32 | |
Has there been progress, has there not been progress? | 33:33 | |
What do you think? | 33:35 | |
- | Well I think it's just seeing 50% | 33:37 |
of the people in seminaries are women | 33:40 | |
and they are now being accepted | 33:42 | |
but there's still not a whole lot of senior ministers | 33:43 | |
who are women. | 33:46 | |
I think Plymouth, just Carla Bailey, I think, | 33:48 | |
just went to Plymouth. | 33:51 | |
- | Oh okay, yeah. | 33:52 |
- | And that's a big church. | 33:53 |
- | It is, yes. | 33:54 |
- | So there's still that angle. | 33:58 |
It's nice not to hear God always referred to as He. | 34:05 | |
- | And that's true at your church. | 34:12 |
And that has been true at your church for a long time. | 34:13 | |
- | I think we have done it. | 34:16 |
I bet there's 20, 30 years. | 34:18 | |
There hasn't been anything in the bulletin | 34:21 | |
that isn't inclusive language. | 34:23 | |
But people don't realize it. | 34:25 | |
- | Really? | 34:27 |
- | Until somebody brings it up and they get | 34:29 |
all shook up about it. | 34:31 | |
- | I'm curious when you say inclusive language, | 34:32 |
do they use feminine language for God | 34:34 | |
or is it not neutral? | 34:36 | |
- | It's pretty neutral. | 34:38 |
They still say our Father, some of them can't get over that | 34:39 | |
but this gal is having our Creator. | 34:42 | |
- | The new pastor? | 34:45 |
- | Yeah. | |
That's written in the bulletin. | 34:47 | |
- | And how our people reacting to that? | 34:49 |
- | They're not saying much. | 34:54 |
It's hard for them to do Mother, Father, God. | 34:56 | |
That's hard, but a Creator would be okay. | 34:59 | |
- | Interesting, yeah, yeah. | 35:01 |
- | But the other things, everything is. | 35:05 |
And then we had one time | 35:07 | |
when we had a couple who were there | 35:09 | |
who brought up inclusive language. | 35:11 | |
Everybody got all shook up about it. | 35:12 | |
Because somebody brought it up. | 35:16 | |
But when it's just there, | 35:19 | |
they don't pay much attention to it. | 35:20 | |
- | You said they got shook up about it, | 35:22 |
what happened, what did they-- | 35:23 | |
- | They didn't like to say that. | 35:24 |
Oh God is the Father, why can't we? | 35:27 | |
- | Oh really okay, interesting. | 35:30 |
- | But they didn't realize it was happening | 35:32 |
when it was just happening. | 35:34 | |
- | Interesting. | 35:35 |
- | And so people really talked about it. | 35:36 |
- | Interesting, yeah. | 35:39 |
I don't know if you know this, I have a real | 35:42 | |
specific question to end with. | 35:44 | |
We're working on a website | 35:45 | |
and I'm wondering if you have any ideas | 35:48 | |
about what would be good to include | 35:50 | |
in a Reimagining website? | 35:52 | |
- | I think, some of the things like that, | 35:57 |
poetry or things like that every once in awhile. | 36:00 | |
- | That's a good idea. | 36:03 |
Are you thinking of ones that were in the quarterly | 36:06 | |
or new ones or both? | 36:08 | |
- | Either, either way, either way. | 36:09 |
- | Yeah, that's a good idea. | 36:11 |
- | There might be new people writing. | 36:12 |
- | Yes, yes. | 36:14 |
- | But they might be inspirational. | 36:15 |
- | Absolutely. | 36:17 |
- | I guess a lot of references to things | 36:23 |
that you can look to for help in what you're doing | 36:26 | |
in your own church or... | 36:29 | |
In your own worship. | 36:32 | |
- | Like liturgical worship type things, yeah, yeah, | 36:34 |
absolutely. | 36:37 | |
- | Stories. | 36:41 |
- | Say some more about stories. | 36:43 |
What are you thinking of? | 36:44 | |
- | Stories of where somebody might have gotten | 36:49 |
a real new perception of feminist look of things. | 36:52 | |
Life stories like that. | 37:00 | |
- | Those are all great ideas, that's neat. | 37:04 |
Genie is there anything we haven't talked about | 37:08 | |
that you would like to add. | 37:10 | |
(mumbles) | 37:16 | |
- | It was just such a big part of my life for | 37:20 |
so many years and it has influenced my life over the years. | 37:24 | |
- | Could you say more, how has it influenced your life? | 37:28 |
- | I think spiritually. | 37:32 |
Which... | 37:36 | |
Has made me, I try to read each morning, | 37:39 | |
some things and... | 37:42 | |
Not necessarily bible. | 37:46 | |
I think our minister is using something called the Message. | 37:50 | |
I'm not sure if I like that one. | 37:55 | |
I have to keep looking at that some more. | 37:57 | |
I have a copy of it and I wanna see. | 38:00 | |
We do a neat thing, we do beverage and bible. | 38:02 | |
We go to the local bowling alley | 38:06 | |
and have dinner one night a month. | 38:07 | |
- | Oh fun. | 38:11 |
- | And then she brings, I guess Garth started it | 38:12 |
and they bring a reading of some kind. | 38:15 | |
And then we discuss it. | 38:20 | |
It's been, people have liked it. | 38:23 | |
There's about 10, 12 people that participate. | 38:25 | |
- | That is wonderful. | 38:30 |
- | Each month and it's in a different setting | 38:31 |
and they do a bit of sharing of what's been good | 38:33 | |
and what's been bad for the week or the month. | 38:37 | |
Some people are getting to know each other better. | 38:43 | |
It's off the church property, it's somewhere else | 38:48 | |
which is kind of fun. | 38:53 | |
- | I wonder if you could say more about | 38:56 |
how Reimagining affected your spirituality. | 38:57 | |
- | It just made me wanna read more. | 39:02 |
To think more, to pray more, to... | 39:04 | |
Very conscious of worship. | 39:10 | |
Some are very inspiring and | 39:15 | |
some miss the boat. | 39:19 | |
(laughing) | 39:21 | |
But it just alerted me to so many more things around me | 39:27 | |
that I probably wouldn't be conscious of | 39:30 | |
if I hadn't been through some of that. | 39:33 | |
- | Well thank you, Genie, this was wonderful. | 39:39 |
- | Good. | 39:42 |
(mumbles) | ||
- | Absolutely, very much so. | 39:43 |