William H. Willimon - "The Fearful Meeting" (September 15, 1991)

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	(light organ music)	0:00
-	Good morning, welcome to the service of worship here	1:30
	on the 17th Sunday after Pentecost.	1:33
	We're glad that you're here.	1:36
	Call your attention to a couple of announcements	1:38
	in the bulletin, this afternoon at two o'clock	1:40
	is the information meeting for our annual chapel work team	1:43
	mission team, trip to Honduras.	1:48
	This was a life-changing event for those Duke students	1:51
	who participated in this last year	1:54
	and today this afternoon is a time	1:57
	to come to get information if you're interested	1:59
	in being a part of that mission project.	2:02
	This week on Tuesday evening at 5:15 we begin our	2:06
	Tisae Prayer Service here in the chapel,	2:10
	in Memorial Chapel, we thus have two afternoon	2:14
	or evening prayer services on Tuesdays	2:19
	with the Tisae Prayer Service	2:22
	and on Thursday with Choral Vespers.	2:24
	We had an overflow crowd this Thursday	2:26
	for the first Choral Vespers.	2:29
	If you're around campus on Tuesday or Thursday afternoons,	2:31
	you would probably like to come in	2:35
	and be a part of those services.	2:37
	And now let us continue our worship with a greeting, stand.	2:40
	The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with you.	2:47
Crowd	I salute you.	2:49
-	The risen Christ is with us.	2:51
-	Praise the lord.
	(rousing organ music)	2:55
	♪ Sing praise to God who reigns above ♪	3:39
	♪ The God of all creation ♪	3:45
	♪ The God of power ♪	3:52
	♪ The God of love ♪	3:54
	♪ The God of our salvation ♪	3:58
	♪ With healing balm my soul is filled ♪	4:03
	♪ And every faithless murmur stilled ♪	4:09
	♪ To God all praise and glory ♪	4:15
	♪ The Lord is never far away ♪	4:24
	♪ But through all grief distressing ♪	4:30
	♪ An ever present help and stay ♪	4:37
	♪ Our peace and joy and blessing ♪	4:43
	♪ As with a mother's tender hand ♪	4:49
	♪ God gently leads the chosen band ♪	4:55
	♪ To God all praise and glory ♪	5:01
	♪ Thus all my toilsome way along ♪	5:11
	♪ I sing aloud thy praises ♪	5:17
	♪ That earth may hear the grateful song ♪	5:23
	♪ My voice unwearied raises ♪	5:29
	♪ Be joyful in the Lord, my heart ♪	5:35
	♪ Both soul and body bear your part ♪	5:41
	♪ To God all praise and glory ♪	5:47
	♪ Let all who name Christ's holy name ♪	7:31
	♪ Give God all praise and glory ♪	7:37
	♪ Let all who own his power proclaim ♪	7:44
	♪ Aloud the wondrous story ♪	7:50
	♪ Cast each false idol from its throne ♪	7:56
	♪ For Christ is Lord, and Christ alone ♪	8:02
	♪ To God all praise and glory ♪	8:08
-	Let us pray.	8:19
	Almighty and everlasting God,	8:23
	you call your church to witness	8:26
	that in Jesus Christ we are reconciled to you,	8:28
	and to each other.	8:32
	Help us so to proclaim the good news of your love.	8:34
	That all who hear it may turn to you,	8:38
	through Jesus Christ our Lord.	8:42
	Who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit,	8:45
	one God, now and forever, amen.	8:49
-	Let us pray.	9:11
All	Open our hearts and minds oh God,	9:14
	by the power of your holy spirit,	9:17
	so that is the word is read and proclaimed,	9:20
	you might hear with joy, you say to us this day, amen.	9:24
-	The first reading is taken from the book of Genesis.	9:30
	Jacob went on his way and the angels of God met him.	9:35
	And when Jacob saw them he said, "This is God's camp,"	9:39
	so he called that place Mahanaim.	9:45
	Jacob sent messengers before him to his brother Esau,	9:49
	in the land of Seir, in the country of Edom.	9:54
	Instructing them, thus you shall say to my Lord Esau,	9:59
	thus says your servant, Jacob, I have lived with Laban	10:06
	as an alien and stayed until now.	10:11
	And I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female slaves,	10:15
	and I have sent to tell my Lord	10:22
	in order that I may find favor in your sight.	10:24
	The messengers returned to Jacob saying,	10:29
	"We came to your brother Esau and he is coming to meet you	10:32
	"and 400 men are with him."	10:38
	Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed.	10:41
	And he divided the people that were with him.	10:45
	And the flocks and herds and camels into two companies,	10:48
	thinking, if Esau comes to the one company and destroys it,	10:51
	then the company that is left will escape.	10:56
	And Jacob said, "Oh God of my father Abraham,	11:00
	"and God of my father Isaac,	11:04
	"oh Lord who said to me, return to your country,	11:06
	"and to your kindred and I will do you good.	11:10
	"I am not worthy of the least of all the steadfast love,	11:14
	"and all the faithfulness that you have shown	11:18
	"to your servant, for with only my staff I cross this Jordan	11:21
	"and now I have come between two companies.	11:27
	"Deliver me, please, from the hand of my brother,	11:31
	"from the hand of Esau, for I am afraid of him.	11:35
	"He may come and kill us all,	11:39
	"the mothers with the children,	11:42
	"yet you have said, I will surely do you good	11:45
	"and make your offsprings as the sand of the sea,	11:49
	"which cannot be counted,	11:53
	"because of their number."	11:54
	So he spent that night there.	11:57
	And from what he had with him he took a present	12:00
	for his brother Esau, 200 female goats and 20 male goats.	12:03
	200 ewes and 20 rams, 30 milch camels and their colts.	12:09
	40 cows and 10 bulls.	12:16
	20 female donkeys and 10 male donkeys.	12:19
	These he delivered into the hand of his servants,	12:23
	every drove by itself and said to his servants,	12:27
	"Pass on ahead of me	12:31
	"and put a space between drove and drove."	12:33
	He instructed the foremost.	12:37
	"When Esau my brother meets you	12:40
	"and asks you to whom do you belong,	12:43
	"where are you going,	12:47
	"and whose are these ahead of you,	12:49
	"then you shall say, they belong to your servant Jacob,	12:52
	"they are a present sent to my Lord Esau,	12:56
	"and moreover, he is behind us."	13:00
	He likewise instructed the second and the third	13:03
	and all who followed the droves,	13:06
	"You shall say the same thing to Esau	13:09
	"when you meet him, and you shall say,	13:11
	"moreover, your servant Jacob is behind you."	13:15
	For he thought, I may appease him with a present	13:19
	that goes ahead of me.	13:22
	And afterwards I shall see his face.	13:24
	Perhaps he will accept me.	13:27
	Now Jacob looked up and saw Esau coming.	13:30
	And 400 men with him.	13:34
	So he divided the children among Leah and Rachel	13:37
	and the two maids.	13:41
	He put the maids with their children in front,	13:43
	then Leah with her children,	13:46
	and Rachel and Joseph last of all.	13:48
	He, himself, went on ahead of them,	13:51
	bowing himself to the ground seven times	13:54
	until he came near his brother.	13:57
	But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him.	14:01
	And fell on his neck and kissed him	14:05
	and they wept.	14:08
	Then Esau said, "Let us journey on your way,	14:10
	"and I will go alongside you,"	14:15
	but Jacob said to him, "My Lord knows	14:18
	"that the children are frail and that the flocks	14:22
	"and herds which are nursing are a care to me,	14:24
	"and if they are overdriven for one day,	14:29
	"all the flocks will die.	14:32
	"Let my Lord pass on ahead of his servant,	14:35
	"and I will lead on slowly according	14:38
	"to the pace of the cattle that are before me	14:41
	"and according to the pace of the children	14:44
	"until I come to my Lord in Seir."	14:47
	This is the word of the Lord.	14:52
Congregation	Bless you, God.	14:55
Director	Page 834,	15:02
	let us stand and read responsively.	15:04
	(rousing organ music)	15:22
	♪ Praise the Lord ♪	15:29
	♪ Praise Him all ye servants of the Lord ♪	15:32
	♪ Praise the Name of the Lord ♪	15:36
	♪ Blessed be the name of the Lord ♪	15:40
	♪ From this time forth and forever more ♪	15:44
	♪ From the rising of the sun ♪	15:49
	♪ To its setting ♪	15:52
	♪ The name of the Lord is to be praised ♪	15:54
	♪ The Lord is high above all nations ♪	15:59
	♪ God's glory above the Heavens ♪	16:03
	♪ Who is like the Lord, our God ♪	16:08
	♪ Who is seated on high ♪	16:11
	♪ Who looks far down ♪	16:14
	♪ On the heavens and the Earth ♪	16:17
	♪ God raises the poor from the dust ♪	16:21
	♪ And lifts the needy from the ash heap ♪	16:24
	♪ To make them sit with princes ♪	16:28
	♪ With the princes of God's people ♪	16:30
	♪ God gives the barren woman a home ♪	16:34
	♪ Making her the joyous mother of children ♪	16:38
	♪ Praise the lord ♪	16:43
	♪ All glory be to you, oh God ♪	16:47
	♪ And to Jesus Christ our Savior ♪	16:50
	♪ Praise Him all ye servants of the Lord ♪	16:54
	♪ Praise the Name of the Lord ♪	16:56
	♪ As it was since time began ♪	16:59
	♪ Praise the Lord ♪	17:03
	♪ Forevermore ♪	17:06
-	Be seated.	17:11
	This reading is taken from the gospel	17:23
	according to Saint Mark.	17:26
	Jesus went on with his disciples	17:29
	to the village of Caesarea Philippi	17:31
	and on the way he asked his disciples,	17:35
	"Who do people say that I am?"	17:38
	And they answered him, "John the Baptist."	17:41
	And others, "Elijah,"	17:46
	and still others, "One of the prophets."	17:49
	He asked them, "But who do you say that I am?"	17:53
	Peter answered him, "You are the Messiah,"	17:59
	and he sternly ordered them not to tell anyone about him.	18:04
	Then he began to teach them that the son of man	18:10
	must undergo great suffering,	18:12
	and be rejected by the elders,	18:15
	the chief priests and the scribes	18:18
	and be killed and after three days rise again.	18:21
	He said all this quite openly.	18:26
	And Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him.	18:29
	But turning and looking at his disciples,	18:33
	he rebuked Peter, and said,	18:36
	"Get behind me, Satan, for you are setting your mind	18:39
	"not on divine things but on human things."	18:43
	He called the crowd with his disciples and said to them,	18:48
	"If any want to become my followers,	18:52
	"let them deny themselves, and take up their cross,	18:55
	"and follow me.	18:59
	"For those who want to save their life will lose it,	19:01
	"and those who lose their life for my sake,	19:04
	"and for the sake of the kingdom,	19:08
	"and the gospel, will save it."	19:10
	For what will it profit them to gain the whole world	19:13
	and forfeit their life?	19:17
	Indeed, what can they give in return for their life?	19:20
	Those who are ashamed of me and of my words	19:26
	in this adulterous and sinful generation,	19:30
	of them, the Son of Man will also be ashamed	19:34
	when he comes in the glory of his father	19:38
	with the holy angels.	19:42
	This is the word of the Lord.	19:45
Congregation	Praise be God.	19:48
	(rousing organ music)	20:12
	(choir sings in foreign language)	20:48
-	Let us recall in the story from Genesis,	25:17
	Jacob has been staying with Laban	25:21
	and he is preparing now to re-enter the promised land,	25:25
	and see his brother Esau again.	25:28
	Jacob went on his way and the angels of God met him.	25:32
	And when Jacob saw them he said,	25:39
	"This is God's camp," so he called that place Mahanaim.	25:42
	Jacob sent messengers before him to his brother Esau	25:50
	in the land of Seir, the country of Edom,	25:53
	instructing them, thus shall you say to my Lord Esau,	25:55
	thus says your servant, Jacob, I have lived with Laban	26:03
	as an alien and stayed until now	26:07
	and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female slaves,	26:11
	and I have sent to tell my Lord,	26:16
	in order that I might find favor in your sight.	26:18
	The messengers returned to Jacob saying,	26:23
	"We came to your brother Esau,	26:27
	"and he is coming to meet you,	26:29
	"and 400 men are with him."	26:33
	Then Jacob was greatly afraid and distressed.	26:37
	And he divided the people that were with him	26:40
	and the flocks and herds and camels into two companies,	26:42
	thinking, if Esau comes to the one company	26:45
	and destroys it, then the company that is left will escape.	26:47
	And Jacob said, "Oh God of my father Abraham,	26:53
	"and God of my father Isaac, oh Lord you said to me,	27:00
	"return to your country and to your kindred	27:05
	"and I will do you good, I am not worthy	27:08
	"of the least of all the steadfast love	27:12
	"and all the faithfulness that you	27:14
	"have shown to your servant,	27:15
	"for with only my staff I cross this Jordan.	27:18
	"And now I've become two companies.	27:24
	"Deliver me please from the hand of my brother,	27:28
	"from the hand of Esau.	27:30
	"For I am afraid of him, he may come and kill us all,	27:32
	"the mothers with the children,	27:36
	"if you have said, I will surely do you good,	27:40
	"and make your offspring as the sand of the sea,	27:45
	"which cannot be counted because of their number."	27:50
	So he spent that night there	27:55
	and from what he had with him he took a present	27:57
	for his brother Esau.	27:59
	200 female goats and 20 male goats,	28:02
	200 ewes and 20 rams,	28:05
	30 milch camels and their colts,	28:08
	40 cows and 10 bulls, 20 female donkeys and 10 male donkeys.	28:10
	These he delivered into the hands of his servants,	28:15
	every drove by itself and said to his servants,	28:18
	"Pass on ahead of me,	28:21
	"and put a space between drove and drove,	28:23
	"instruct the foremost, when Esau my brother meets you,	28:26
	"and asks you to whom do you belong,	28:31
	"where are you going, and whose are these ahead of you,	28:35
	"then you shall say, they belong to your servant Jacob,	28:38
	"they are presents sent to my Lord Esau,	28:43
	"for moreover he is behind us."	28:46
	He likewise instructed the second and the third	28:49
	and all who followed the droves.	28:51
	You shall say the same thing to Esau when you meet him,	28:53
	and you shall say, "Moreover your servant Jacob	28:56
	"is behind us."	29:00
	For he thought, I may appease him with the present	29:01
	that goes ahead of me.	29:05
	And afterwards I shall see his face,	29:06
	perhaps he will accept me.	29:10
	Now Jacob looked up and saw Esau coming	29:15
	and 400 men with him, so he divided the children,	29:20
	among Leah and Rachel	29:25
	and the two maids.	29:27
	He put the maids with their children in front,	29:27
	then Leah with their children,	29:29
	and then Rachel and Joseph last of all.	29:31
	He himself went on ahead of them, bowing himself	29:33
	to the ground seven times until he came near his brother.	29:35
	But Esau ran to meet him and embraced him,	29:40
	and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they wept.	29:47
	Then Esau said, "Let us journey on our way,	29:55
	"and I will go alongside you,"	30:00
	but Jacob said to him, "My Lord knows	30:03
	"that the children are frail, and that the flocks and herds	30:05
	"which are nursing are a care to me,	30:08
	"and if they are overdriven for one day,	30:12
	"all the flocks will die.	30:15
	"Let my Lord pass on ahead of his servant	30:18
	"and I will lead on slowly.	30:20
	"According to the pace of the cattle that are before me,	30:22
	"and according to the pace of my children,	30:24
	"until I come to my Lord in Seir."	30:27
	Thanks be to God.	30:31
-	First there was The Donna Reed Show	30:42
	and then Ozzie and Harriet, Father Knows Best,	30:45
	The Brady Bunch, The Cosby Show	30:47
	and now the family show for the '90s,	30:50
	The Simpsons.	30:53
	The Simpsons has been condemned by school principals	30:57
	in Ohio, saying Bart Simpson is a poor role model.	31:00
	But we watch this show because we know that here	31:05
	is family Americana warts and all.	31:07
	Here is our family life as it is,	31:12
	not on Cosby but as it is.	31:17
	'Cause let us face the truth about ourselves.	31:22
	We, the human family,	31:24
	we are in a mess.	31:27
	Most of the real damage that we do to one another,	31:31
	the lasting damage is done in	31:34
	family.	31:37
	I wonder if we've developed into a kind of nation	31:40
	of strangers, because we lack the resources to endure	31:42
	one another in close range.	31:45
	Here's a fantasy I have of Duke students making love,	31:49
	like dentists doing X-rays.	31:52
	Lead aprons, separate rooms,	31:56
	okay I'm ready to turn on the machine now.	31:58
	A year ago at baccalaureate I told about a conversation	32:02
	I had with a Duke sophomore.	32:05
	I had seen her on campus with a young man.	32:07
	I said, "Are you two dating?"	32:11
	No no no no, no we're not dating,	32:12
	we're seeing each other.	32:14
	Seeing each other, it sounds so Victorian,	32:17
	like people sitting in parlors with chaperones.	32:20
	We're seeing each other.	32:23
	And I said to her, "What is this that your generation	32:26
	"seems so paranoid about commitment,	32:28
	"about putting your money down on somebody?"	32:30
	She said, "Yeah we were raised by your generation."	32:34
	(congregation laughs)	32:37
	And it's true, I figure about half of us here	32:39
	came from marriages that failed.	32:42
	Spouse abuse, elder abuse,	32:47
	it's all in the family.	32:50
	Any law enforcement officer would tell you,	32:52
	that he or she would rather go into a bank robbery	32:55
	than a marital argument.	32:59
	I understand that more people are shot and killed	33:02
	in bedrooms than in bar rooms.	33:04
	The median age for marriage keeps rising, rising.	33:09
	And I think it's because many of you have seen people chewed	33:13
	up in the machinery of matrimony,	33:17
	you are cautious.	33:21
	It's tough, to be together.	33:26
	Now if you have been here for the past couple of Sundays,	33:30
	you know that we have been following the story	33:32
	of a family in a mess.	33:35
	Troubled family, our family, this is not The Brady Bunch,	33:39
	it's The Bible.	33:43
	It's a true story,	33:45
	if a not altogether inspiring one,	33:47
	this isn't Ozzie and Harriet,	33:51
	this is Isaac and Rebekah.	33:55
	Poor big dumb older brother Esau.	33:58
	And the conniving schemer,	34:02
	upstart little brother Jacob.	34:06
	While still in the womb, these two twins	34:09
	had such a struggle that they threw Rebekah	34:11
	into the first case of pre-partum depression.	34:15
	And when she delivered these twins,	34:20
	one came out of the womb, punching the other's heel,	34:21
	and so they called him Jacob,	34:24
	which means grabber or heel,	34:25
	either designation fit Jacob.	34:28
	And then we're told Mom loved Jacob,	34:31
	Dad loved Esau,	34:34
	these were not model parents.	34:38
	Jacob took advantage then of Esau during a weak moment.	34:42
	Most of Esau's moments were weak moments,	34:46
	and duped him out of his inheritance	34:50
	and then he followed that up	34:52
	by dressing up in his brother's hunting clothes,	34:53
	with his poor father dying, blind,	34:55
	and went to his bedside dressed up in his brothers clothes	34:58
	and he got the blessing, and then he got the entire	35:02
	inheritance that should have gone	35:05
	to his brother Esau.	35:07
	And Esau hated Jacob for it and said,	35:10
	"When Dad dies,	35:14
	"I'm going to kill that little trickster."	35:15
	Is this Dallas?	35:21
	Mom, who'd remember unashamedly loved Jacob more than Esau	35:23
	caught wind of Esau's plan, she warned Jacob	35:27
	and had him high tail it out of town,	35:29
	telling her dying husband that she decided	35:32
	it was a good time for Jacob to go back to Uncle Laban	35:34
	and find a nice girl of their religion and race to marry.	35:38
	If you've come here this morning looking for helpful hints	35:42
	for happy homemaking, you will not find it in this story.	35:45
	But on the other hand at least you cannot accuse The Bible	35:49
	of being naive, romantic,	35:53
	papering over harsh human reality with sweet cliches,	35:57
	the way we do.	36:02
	We're listening in on life in a family.	36:06
	And it's a mess.	36:10
	Love mixed up with violence,	36:12
	deceit, envy, popcorn by the fire trips to Disney World,	36:17
	everybody's sitting on the front row at church	36:22
	in coat and tie, it's a mess.	36:24
	To be in such a family, it gets risky.	36:28
	Can't we just get through one Christmas vacation	36:34
	without a big fight?	36:37
	Don't start on me, Rebekah.	36:40
	Well there haven't been too many family reunions,	36:44
	not too many meetings since Isaac died	36:47
	and Rebekah passed on.	36:50
	Since Jacob slipped out of town	36:53
	with his older brother threatening to slit his throat.	36:55
	"What about your younger brother," friends used to ask Esau,	37:02
	"You never mention him."	37:05
	"My little brother is a shyster,	37:08
	"I hate his guts."	37:12
	Friends change the conversation.	37:15
	"How come you'd never go home for Christmas holidays,"	37:19
	they ask Jacob.	37:22
	And he never replied.	37:25
	Now it's now been 10 chapters in Genesis	37:28
	and many years and now toward the end of the story	37:31
	Jacob gets a surprising command of God to go back home	37:35
	and make peace with his brother.	37:39
	It is a perilous risky journey	37:42
	that Jacob embarks on.	37:44
	But aren't all reunions risky after division?	37:48
	Homecomings after alienation?	37:53
	With so many cruel words exchanged	37:57
	and so much difference,	38:00
	will there be a meeting?	38:04
	That's the story placed in,	38:06
	that's the word placed in our minds and the story.	38:08
	How many of you know what it's like	38:12
	to walk that path that Jacob walks today?	38:13
	I don't think it's a path that we walk very often.	38:18
	With good reason, 'cause there's such risk.	38:22
	In my experience, most marital couples who separate	38:28
	eventually divorce.	38:33
	Most brothers and sisters who split up in a squabble	38:36
	over the family inheritance,	38:38
	they stay that way.	38:41
	20 years ago, her parents had said,	38:45
	"If you marry a man of that race,	38:47
	"don't you ever walk in this door again."	38:49
	20 years later, she heard that her father	38:53
	was dying of cancer, she called home.	38:55
	"Dad, do you want me to come back home?"	38:58
	And he said, "No."	39:03
	It's risky, it's a perilous path to such a meeting.	39:08
	No wonder that many never make it.	39:14
	And we doubt that Jacob would even have tried it,	39:17
	had he not been ordered by God.	39:21
	He couldn't have walked ahead had not there been	39:25
	a cadre of angels escorting him,	39:26
	are they escorting him,	39:28
	or are these angels pushing him?	39:30
	I love these angels in that story.	39:32
	That cadre of angels walking with him.	39:33
	Angels or no angels, Jacob is scared.	39:39
	He sends messengers on ahead of him,	39:43
	and he says, "say, Esau, wait a minute,"	39:45
	"say Lord Esau	39:48
	"if you will receive me, without blowing my head off,	39:52
	"there will be oxen, donkeys, male and female slaves	39:55
	"in the bargain,"	39:57
	I don't think we've seen this stance from Jacob until now.	40:00
	What a contrast with that once haughty self-assured	40:04
	schemer, conniver.	40:06
	If I find favor in Lord Esau's eyes,	40:11
	receive me.	40:15
	And then in utter fear and desperation, Jacob prays,	40:17
	he prays, he prays the longest prayer	40:21
	in the long book of Genesis.	40:23
	Dear God, reconciliation remember was your idea.	40:26
	Save me from the hand of my brother,	40:30
	don't let him kill us all.	40:32
	Strange, isn't it?	40:36
	See Jacob, mister grabber, down on his knees	40:38
	begging and pleading with God like a baby.	40:44
	Besides, God, it was you who promised me,	40:49
	when you let down that ladder from Heaven	40:53
	to where I was sleeping.	40:54
	You promised to protect me,	40:55
	you promised to look after me,	40:57
	make a great people out of me.	40:58
	Ah yes, that sounds more	41:01
	like the old Jacob we know and love.	41:03
	Bargaining, pleading with God, holding God to account.	41:05
	He's begging one minute,	41:09
	he's bargaining the next.	41:12
	And this is so real, isn't it?	41:15
	I said these meetings are not without pain, they're messy.	41:18
	There's a dryness of the mouth,	41:23
	the sweating of the palms.	41:25
	No wonder we are usually content to stare at each other	41:30
	across these great chasms of race, our gender,	41:34
	our class, or politics.	41:39
	Though clearly commanded by God to make peace.	41:44
	(speaks in foreign language)	41:47
	Be reconciled.	41:49
	We don't risk many of these perilous meetings.	41:50
	Well here's the way we say it at Duke.	41:55
	We believe in multiculturalism, that means I got my culture	41:59
	and you got yours, stay out of mine,	42:03
	I'll stay out of yours.	42:05
	Good fences make good neighbors.	42:07
	A senior told me, just watch, freshman year, everybody	42:11
	first semester got your door open,	42:16
	everybody's in and out of rooms,	42:18
	all up and down the hall just one big happy family.	42:20
	But after rush, by second semester,	42:25
	the doors start to close.	42:30
	Until it's just me and my friends	42:33
	behind the locked door.	42:35
	It takes guts to come to such a meeting.	42:40
	And this escort of Heavenly angels with Jacob,	42:45
	I think signifies that this isn't just a family matter.	42:48
	No, God is mixed up in this.	42:53
	God's got a vested interest in this meeting.	42:54
	Homecoming I remind you, was God's idea, not Jacob's.	42:59
	Reconciliation is always a God's initiative and command,	43:04
	not ours.	43:07
	Meeting	43:09
	is the primary biblical agenda,	43:12
	and it is always God's meeting.	43:16
	And the presence of these angels I think suggest	43:22
	that God does not command	43:26
	what God does not enable us to do.	43:29
	So next day, Jacob sends on ahead of him 200 female goats	43:35
	20 male goats, 200 ewes, 20 rams, 40 cows, 10 bulls.	43:39
	Some of you will have to explain	43:44
	this gender disproportion to me.	43:46
	And this is Jacob, I mean prayer is fine.	43:50
	It's fine, good, pray.	43:52
	But a few hundred goats and ewes will make reconciliation	43:55
	a bit easier for Esau to swallow.	43:58
	Jacob in a stunningly courageous act,	44:03
	even sends his wives and children on ahead of him,	44:06
	so if Esau is in a murderous mood	44:10
	the wives and children will find out about it first.	44:12
	Jacob prays, yeah but his motives,	44:18
	his tactics are still mixed.	44:20
	But Esau ran to meet him	44:25
	and he embraced him and they wept.	44:30
	Does that echo in your mind a later story,	44:36
	told by one of Jacob's progeny named Jesus,	44:41
	15th chapter of Luke?	44:45
	There was a young son, younger son, just like Jacob.	44:49
	Just like Jacob wanted more than anything else	44:52
	his father's inheritance.	44:55
	His father gave it to him just like Jacob,	44:56
	he went out into the far country,	44:58
	he lost it.	45:00
	He comes back in rags starving.	45:01
	He has a little speech prepared for his father,	45:03
	but his father runs to meet him.	45:06
	And he embraces him.	45:10
	He falls upon him, he kisses him.	45:12
	He says, "My son, which was lost is now found,	45:15
	"which was dead is alive."	45:19
	Meeting.	45:22
	We're in a mess in our human family,	45:25
	we've done a better job historically of cutting	45:28
	our brother's throat rather than falling upon his neck	45:30
	and kissing him.	45:33
	Separated, alienated across great gaps	45:35
	of gender, race,	45:39
	economics, politics.	45:42
	Oh we blessed his diversity,	45:45
	but that's just another word for separation.	45:48
	And this old story dares to promise that God	45:54
	both commands	45:58
	and enables meeting.	46:01
	There is no gap so great,	46:06
	God cannot usher over that gap.	46:07
	While the story ends in a curious turn,	46:13
	as good old trusting Esau says to Jacob,	46:17
	"Now let's all put our things together	46:19
	"and we will now journey together."	46:21
	But Jacob begs often, says he's got something	46:23
	about nursing flocks he's got to attend to.	46:26
	And so we wonder after this dramatic meeting,	46:31
	wait a minute.	46:33
	Has Esau again been duped?	46:35
	Has Jacob really changed?	46:39
	Are they now back together or not?	46:42
	But that's the way it often is in families, or meeting.	46:48
	Among brothers, sisters, races, nations.	46:53
	It's a mess, it's always full of risk and peril	46:57
	and uncertain, there are no guarantees.	47:00
	Nothing is ever easy or too sure in life	47:03
	or in The Bible.	47:09
	But this old story promises.	47:13
	Even amid the mess,	47:16
	God both commands and enables	47:19
	meeting.	47:25
	(rousing organ music)	47:32
	♪ Jesus, Lord, we look to thee ♪	47:59
	♪ Let us in thy name agree ♪	48:05
	♪ Show thyself the Prince of peace ♪	48:11
	♪ Bid all strife for ever cease ♪	48:17
	♪ By thy reconciling love ♪	48:25
	♪ Every stumbling block remove ♪	48:31
	♪ Each to each unite, endear ♪	48:38
	♪ Come, and spread thy banner here ♪	48:44
	♪ Make us of one heart and mind ♪	48:53
	♪ Gentle, courteous, and kind ♪	48:59
	♪ Lowly, meek, in thought and word ♪	49:05
	♪ Altogether like our Lord ♪	49:12
	♪ Let us for each other care ♪	49:20
	♪ Each the other's burdens bear ♪	49:26
	♪ To thy church the pattern give ♪	49:33
	♪ Show how true believers live ♪	49:39
	♪ Free from anger and from pride ♪	49:47
	♪ Let us thus in God abide ♪	49:54
	♪ All the depths of love express ♪	50:00
	♪ All the heights of holiness ♪	50:07
	♪ Let us then with joy remove ♪	50:15
	♪ To the family above ♪	50:22
	♪ On the wings of angels fly ♪	50:28
	♪ Show how true believers die ♪	50:34
-	The Lord be with you.	50:45
Congregation	And also with you.	50:48
-	Let us pray.	50:49
	With all our heart, and with all our mind,	51:02
	let us pray to the Lord saying	51:05
	Lord in your mercy hear our prayer.	51:07
	For the church throughout the world	51:13
	that it may faithfully proclaim the gospel of Christ	51:16
	and that all Christian people	51:20
	may be united in truth, live together in your glory,	51:22
	and reveal your love.	51:27
	Lord, in your mercy.	51:29
All	Hear our prayer.	51:31
-	For those who do not yet believe,	51:34
	for those drawing near the light of faith	51:37
	and for those whose faith has dimmed,	51:41
	that they may come to the knowledge of your truth.	51:44
	Lord, in your mercy.	51:49
Congregation	Hear our prayer.	51:51
-	For the leaders of the nations,	51:55
	that they may govern with wisdom.	51:58
	And that they may encourage peace	52:00
	and justice among their people	52:03
	and among all nations and peoples.	52:05
	Lord, in your mercy.	52:09
All	Hear our prayer.	52:11
-	For the city of Durham, and those who live,	52:15
	study and work here, the rich and the poor,	52:18
	the elderly and the young,	52:24
	men and women, that they may know your good will	52:26
	for all, Lord, in your mercy.	52:31
All	Hear our prayer.	52:35
-	For families broken, and family members estranged,	52:38
	that they may be reconciled.	52:43
	Lord, in your mercy.	52:46
All	Hear our prayer.	52:48
-	For those who are poor and oppressed,	52:52
	for those unemployed and destitute,	52:55
	for prisoners and captives,	52:59
	and for all who remember and care for them,	53:02
	that they may find courage and comfort	53:05
	in your steadfast love.	53:08
	Lord, in your mercy.	53:11
All	Hear our prayer.	53:13
-	For the aged, the infirm, the sick and the suffering,	53:17
	that they may be delivered from their distress.	53:24
	Lord, in your mercy.	53:28
All	Hear our prayer.	53:30
-	For all who have died in the communion of your church,	53:34
	and for those whose faith is known to you alone,	53:38
	we give you thanks.	53:41
	May we be faithful like those who have gone before us	53:43
	and bring us at last the joy of your heavenly kingdom.	53:48
	Lord, in your mercy.	53:53
All	Hear our prayer.	53:55
-	Eternal God, ruler of all things in Heaven and Earth,	53:58
	accept the prayers of your people,	54:05
	and strengthen us to do your will.	54:08
	Through Jesus Christ, our Lord, amen.	54:11
	With gladness let us present the offerings	54:19
	of our life and labor to the Lord.	54:22
	(rousing organ music)	54:27
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	55:47
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	55:51
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	55:56
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	56:00
	♪ How lovely ♪	56:05
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	56:07
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	56:12
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	56:17
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	56:21
	♪ To all the nation ♪	56:29
	♪ Is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	56:33
	♪ To all the nation ♪	56:37
	♪ Is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	56:42
	(overlapping singing)	56:47
	♪ Throughout all the lands their glad tidings ♪	56:52
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	56:57
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	57:02
	♪ Gospel of Peace ♪	57:05
	♪ Of Peace ♪	57:07
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	57:09
	♪ To all the nations ♪	57:16
	♪ Is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	57:21
	♪ To all the nations ♪	57:25
	♪ Is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	57:30
	♪ To all the nations ♪	57:35
	♪ Is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	57:39
	(overlapping singing)	57:43
	♪ The nation is gone forth the sound of their words ♪	57:50
	♪ Throughout all the lands their glad tidings ♪	57:56
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	58:06
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	58:10
	♪ How lovely are the Messengers ♪	58:15
	♪ That preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	58:20
	♪ Preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	58:23
	♪ Preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	58:25
	♪ Preach us the gospel of Peace ♪	58:27
	(rousing organ music)	58:56
	♪ Praise God whom all blessings flow ♪	59:33
	♪ Praise Him, all creatures here below ♪	59:39
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	59:45
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	59:49
	♪ Praise Him above, ye heav'nly host ♪	59:53
	♪ Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost ♪	59:59
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	1:00:06
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	1:00:09
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	1:00:12
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	1:00:15
	♪ Hallelujah ♪	1:00:18
-	Let us pray.	1:00:30
	Almighty and gracious God,	1:00:33
	we give you thanks for your goodness to us,	1:00:35
	and to all whom you have made,	1:00:38
	you have given us life that we may love	1:00:42
	and serve you, and though we have resisted your purpose	1:00:44
	and misused your gift, you have not left us in our sin,	1:00:49
	but have sent your son, Jesus Christ,	1:00:54
	to be our Savior.	1:00:56
	We thank you that for us he became human	1:00:59
	and that by dying on the cross	1:01:02
	and rising from the dead, he has saved us from death	1:01:04
	and brought us to new life.	1:01:09
	In gratitude for all your mighty acts,	1:01:12
	we offer you ourselves and all that we have,	1:01:15
	in union with Christ's offering for us.	1:01:19
	By your holy spirit, make us one with Christ,	1:01:23
	one with one another, and one in ministry to all the world.	1:01:28
	Through Jesus Christ our Lord,	1:01:33
	who taught us to pray, saying.	1:01:36
All	Our Father, who art in Heaven,	1:01:39
	hallowed be thy name,	1:01:42
	thy kingdom come, thy will be done,	1:01:44
	on Earth as it is in Heaven.	1:01:47
	Give us this day our daily bread,	1:01:50
	and forgive us our trespasses,	1:01:53
	as we forgive those who trespass against us,	1:01:55
	and lead us not into temptation	1:01:59
	but deliver us from evil.	1:02:02
	For thine is the kingdom,	1:02:04
	the power and glory forever.	1:02:06
-	The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God,	1:02:12
	and the fellowship of The Holy Spirit be with you all, amen.	1:02:16
	(soft organ music)	1:02:21
	♪ Amen ♪	1:02:24
	♪ Amen ♪	1:02:31
	♪ Amen ♪	1:02:38
	♪ Amen ♪	1:02:41
	♪ Amen ♪	1:02:48
	(rousing organ music)	1:03:04
	♪ God of grace and God of glory ♪	1:03:44
	♪ On thy people pour thy power ♪	1:03:50
	♪ Crown thine ancient church's story ♪	1:03:56
	♪ Bring its bud to glorious flower ♪	1:04:01
	♪ Grant us wisdom, grant us courage ♪	1:04:07
	♪ For the facing of this hour ♪	1:04:13
	♪ For the facing of this hour ♪	1:04:19
	♪ Lo, the hosts of evil round us ♪	1:04:26
	♪ Scorn thy Christ, assail his ways ♪	1:04:32
	♪ From the fears that long have bound us ♪	1:04:38
	♪ Free our hearts to faith and praise ♪	1:04:44
	♪ Grant us wisdom, grant us courage ♪	1:04:50
	♪ For the living of these days ♪	1:04:55
	♪ For the living of these days ♪	1:05:02
	♪ Cure thy children's warring madness ♪	1:05:09
	♪ Bend our pride to thy control ♪	1:05:15
	♪ Shame our wanton, selfish gladness ♪	1:05:21
	♪ Rich in things and poor in soul ♪	1:05:26
	♪ Grant us wisdom, grant us courage ♪	1:05:32
	♪ Lest we miss thy kingdom's goal ♪	1:05:38
	♪ Lest we miss thy kingdom's goal ♪	1:05:44
	♪ Save us from weak resignation ♪	1:05:52
	♪ To the evils we deplore ♪	1:05:57
	♪ Let the gift of thy salvation ♪	1:06:03
	♪ Be our glory evermore ♪	1:06:09
	♪ Grant us wisdom, grant us courage ♪	1:06:15
	♪ Serving thee whom we adore ♪	1:06:21
	♪ Serving thee whom we adore ♪	1:06:26
	(fast-paced organ music)	1:07:11

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Title:

William H. Willimon - "The Fearful Meeting" (September 15, 1991)

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Preaching about Jacob’s reunion with Esau, this sermon argues that God promises and arranges reconciliation no matter how messy family life has been. (Abstract created by Duke Divinity School staff.)

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Date:

September 15, 1991

Speaker:

Willimon, William H.

Liturgical Calendar:

Ordinary Time

Biblical Book:

Genesis

Chapter and Verse:

Genesis 32:1-20, 33:1-4, 12-14

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