James T. Cleland - "The Sin of Ingratitude" (July 2, 1961)
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- | Let us pray. | 0:13 |
Let the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts | 0:17 | |
be acceptable in thy sight. | 0:22 | |
Oh Lord, our strength, and our Redeemer, amen. | 0:26 | |
Haven't we all discovered, in our reading, | 0:39 | |
required or desultory, that once in a while, | 0:44 | |
we are jarred by something which hurts, | 0:50 | |
laid hold on by something which will not let us go, | 0:57 | |
until we do something about it. | 1:02 | |
We may frown at it, or we may curse it. | 1:07 | |
We may read it to a long, suffering roommate, | 1:13 | |
or we may write a letter to the editor about it. | 1:17 | |
We may throw the disturbing book or paper | 1:23 | |
into the wastebasket, only to fish it out again, | 1:29 | |
to read the surprising paragraph or sentence once more. | 1:34 | |
In such a situation, | 1:43 | |
a preacher writes a sermon about it. | 1:45 | |
That is how this family came into being, | 1:50 | |
because of a story published in a magazine | 1:54 | |
at the end of last year. | 1:58 | |
Here is the story more or less as printed. | 2:00 | |
"A steamer sank in the lake near Chicago. | 2:06 | |
Only 32 persons were rescued, all women. | 2:13 | |
They were saved because of the efforts of one man | 2:20 | |
who swam back and forth between the shore and the ship, | 2:25 | |
rescuing one passenger on each trip. | 2:31 | |
As a result of exhaustion and exposure, | 2:37 | |
the rescuer had to be taken to hospital | 2:41 | |
where he died six weeks later." | 2:45 | |
For now I quote, verbatim, | 2:51 | |
It is said that between the time | 2:54 | |
when he was taken to the hospital | 2:58 | |
and the day of his death, | 3:01 | |
not one of the 32 persons whom he had saved | 3:05 | |
sent a word of thanks, a flower, | 3:09 | |
or even inquired as to his condition. | 3:14 | |
Now we may rightly say that | 3:22 | |
this is a mellow, dramatic incident, | 3:24 | |
an exceptional occurrence, | 3:27 | |
maybe even a lured overstatement of what actually happened. | 3:31 | |
Even so it is indicative of a not uncommon attitude. | 3:39 | |
Many of us could vouch for its possibility, | 3:46 | |
it's probability, even its actuality. | 3:50 | |
We have been on the receiving end of ingratitude. | 3:57 | |
We may, God forgive us, have been on the delivering end. | 4:05 | |
The fact and the fearfulness of ingratitude | 4:13 | |
haunted Shakespeare, judging | 4:18 | |
from his numerous allusions to it. | 4:21 | |
Blow, blow though winter wind | 4:25 | |
though art not so unkind as man's ingratitude. | 4:29 | |
That's an as you like. | 4:35 | |
Or recall these words from Julius Caesar, | 4:37 | |
"For Brutus, as you know, was Caesar's angel. | 4:41 | |
Judge, O you gods, how, dearly Caesar loved him. | 4:48 | |
This was the most unkindest cut of all, | 4:54 | |
for when the noble Caesar saw him stab | 4:59 | |
ingratitude more strong than traitors arms | 5:04 | |
quite vanquished him, then burst his mighty heart." | 5:08 | |
King Lear who had some cause to know, | 5:18 | |
referred to ingratitude as that thou marble-hearted fiend. | 5:22 | |
Well, it's hardly less prevalent in the 20th century, | 5:30 | |
Shakespeare would have a field day with it in our times. | 5:35 | |
Now, what are the symptoms of this disease? | 5:41 | |
The indications of ingratitude in a person, | 5:44 | |
or sometimes it's seen | 5:52 | |
in a general attitude of carelessness, | 5:53 | |
which while meaning well, | 5:59 | |
results in neglectfulness | 6:01 | |
because of putting off til tomorrow, | 6:03 | |
what should be done today. | 6:07 | |
Sometimes it's evidenced in a casualness about | 6:12 | |
what others have a right to expect | 6:16 | |
of a fellow human being. | 6:20 | |
Because one has never learned to discipline, | 6:24 | |
to order his life in relation to others. | 6:27 | |
Again, it may be due to downright thoughtlessness, | 6:34 | |
which leads to discourtesy | 6:39 | |
through the failure to imagine oneself | 6:42 | |
in the place of another. | 6:46 | |
Ingratitude betokens an err of insensibility | 6:51 | |
with regard to others, | 6:56 | |
a want to feeling for others, | 6:59 | |
and insensitiveness to Tom, Dick, and Harry, | 7:04 | |
to Martha, Mary, and Margaret. | 7:07 | |
Small boy scout in a Glasgow tram car once rose | 7:14 | |
and gave a lady his seat. | 7:19 | |
She sat down heavily without any acknowledgement | 7:23 | |
of the useful courtesy. | 7:28 | |
The diminutive scout looked at her and said, | 7:31 | |
"I beg your pardon." | 7:35 | |
The lady answered, "I didn't say anything." | 7:38 | |
"Oh," was the reply, | 7:43 | |
"I thought you said thank you." | 7:45 | |
Now, the boy should properly have been spanked, | 7:50 | |
but the surly female was properly squashed. | 7:56 | |
Ingratitude is a witting or unwitting viking of the hand | 8:02 | |
that feeds one. | 8:08 | |
Now, what's the cause, the radical origin of the disease? | 8:12 | |
It's a self-centeredness which focuses upon the self | 8:20 | |
as the hub of reality. | 8:25 | |
Now, self-preservation is certainly necessary | 8:30 | |
for the ongoing of life. | 8:35 | |
Jesus accepted self-love. | 8:39 | |
But the whole Maurice of Western civilization stemming | 8:44 | |
from Greece, from Rome, from Palestine, have | 8:49 | |
never individual self survival on this earth | 8:54 | |
as ultimate, as the good. | 9:00 | |
The nation, the state, the race, | 9:05 | |
the family, have claims on the individual, | 9:08 | |
and yet the world owes me, in the singular, | 9:13 | |
a living is a prevalent attitude. | 9:19 | |
Now, search ingratitude is at bottom no casual affair, | 9:25 | |
no mere matter of unmannerliness or social lapse. | 9:31 | |
Shakespeare pierces to its awfulness in 12th night, | 9:39 | |
where Viola says, "I hate ingratitude, | 9:45 | |
more in a man than lying venous, babbling drunkenness, | 9:52 | |
or any taint of vice whose strong corruption inhabits | 10:01 | |
our frail blood." | 10:08 | |
Now, Viola, maybe whimsically, goes to the root | 10:11 | |
of the matter, ingratitude is a sin of the spirit, | 10:14 | |
for is one whole mark of a person who is irreligious. | 10:21 | |
Certainly, non-Christian in everything but output fashion. | 10:27 | |
Now, I think this fact is often overlooked | 10:34 | |
because ingratitude is in external appearance, | 10:37 | |
a sin of omission, rather than one of commission. | 10:42 | |
Yep, it is one expression of self-centerdness, | 10:51 | |
which is the enemy of the Christian faith. | 10:57 | |
Now, what's the remedy? | 11:06 | |
It varies, social pressure, | 11:09 | |
intelligent self-interest, Madison Avenue politeness, | 11:17 | |
humanistic fellow feeling. | 11:27 | |
They can all help us to overcome this fault, | 11:30 | |
but in so far as we look for the remedy in Christian terms, | 11:33 | |
and we must in this chapel, | 11:41 | |
it lies in an understanding of what the Christian faith | 11:45 | |
is all about. | 11:49 | |
Why does a person become a Christian? | 11:53 | |
What makes him that way? | 12:00 | |
What convinces him that the Christian way is the point | 12:05 | |
of view by which he wishes to live? | 12:10 | |
Now, let us forget about tradition, and environment, | 12:13 | |
and happenstance, and dig down to the root. | 12:19 | |
Let us put an answer into one short sentence, | 12:24 | |
and then try to unravel it. | 12:28 | |
Christian behavior is the consequence of gratitude | 12:33 | |
responding to grace. | 12:41 | |
Christian behavior is the consequence of gratitude | 12:47 | |
responding to grace. | 12:53 | |
Now, that at a first hearing, | 12:55 | |
is about as clear as mud, so let's try to clarify it. | 12:57 | |
New Testament writers are unanimous at one point, | 13:03 | |
a Christian is what he is | 13:10 | |
because he wants to make his whole life | 13:15 | |
a thank you to God. | 13:21 | |
Now, that's because of what God has done for him, | 13:26 | |
as it became peakened in Jesus, the Christ. | 13:30 | |
What the teaching, death and resurrection of Jesus did was | 13:33 | |
to make evident something | 13:38 | |
that should always have been obvious, God cares for man. | 13:41 | |
He's full of Goodwill toward man. | 13:49 | |
He accepts man as worthwhile, | 13:54 | |
despite all his failings and weaknesses and foolishness. | 13:58 | |
That's what lies behind and within the Parables | 14:06 | |
of The Lost Sheep, The Lost Coin, and The Lost Boy. | 14:09 | |
All God wants man to believe is that God cares. | 14:18 | |
Oh, God wants man to say his thank you to Him. | 14:26 | |
All God wants man to do is to express | 14:33 | |
that caring attitude toward (indistinct). | 14:37 | |
Now, the realization of this is what changed Paul | 14:43 | |
from a Pharisee legalist who called God sir, | 14:48 | |
into a churchful son who called God Father. | 14:53 | |
Listen to him as he tells the church of Rome | 14:58 | |
what nonplussed him into becoming a Christian. | 15:02 | |
For when we were still in weakness, Christ died in due time | 15:08 | |
for the ungodly. | 15:15 | |
For the ungodly exclamation point. | 15:20 | |
Why a man will hardly die for the just, | 15:24 | |
though one might bring himself to die, | 15:30 | |
if need be, for a good man, | 15:34 | |
but God proves His love for us by this, | 15:38 | |
that Christ died for us | 15:44 | |
when we were still sinners. | 15:48 | |
Why are we grateful to God? | 15:54 | |
Because He first loved us. | 15:58 | |
That's the truth in the old children's hymn, | 16:03 | |
"Count Your Blessings, Name Them One By One, | 16:07 | |
and It Will Surprise You, What The Lord Has Done." | 16:12 | |
But there's also a horizontal dimension, | 16:19 | |
that's the vertical dimension, relationship between God | 16:22 | |
and man, but there's also a horizontal dimension. | 16:25 | |
We express our gratitude to God, not only by loving him, | 16:29 | |
but by loving other human beings also. | 16:34 | |
We love them even when they are not particularly lovely, | 16:41 | |
because God loves us. | 16:51 | |
After all, as Paul pointed out, God loved us | 16:54 | |
when we weren't particularly lovely. | 16:59 | |
One way in which we can show ourselves as Christian | 17:03 | |
is by concern for others, Jesus said so. | 17:07 | |
He made it clear that he wasn't talking | 17:11 | |
about loving our pins folk, our friends, | 17:13 | |
our own kind folk are nice to us. | 17:16 | |
No, you must love your enemies and help them. | 17:20 | |
Then you will have a rich reward, | 17:28 | |
you will be sons of the Most High, | 17:32 | |
for He is kind, even to the ungrateful and the evil. | 17:39 | |
And John, commenting on that said, "If anyone declares, | 17:48 | |
"I love God," and yet hates his brother, he is a liar. | 17:53 | |
Now, that's a flat enough statement, isn't it? | 18:05 | |
The horizontal implication and application is graciousness | 18:09 | |
to others, that is the coronary of gratitude to God. | 18:15 | |
Do you grasp now why Christian behavior is the consequence | 18:21 | |
of gratitude responding to grace? | 18:27 | |
All right, even if that is the remedy, | 18:35 | |
how can we make it work? | 18:38 | |
What's the mode of treatment? | 18:40 | |
How can we help to make this thankfulness, | 18:44 | |
so that will be freed from the sin of ingratitude? | 18:47 | |
Well, first of all, | 18:52 | |
we can show our thankfulness by consciously remembering it | 18:54 | |
in our worship, corporate and private. | 18:59 | |
If it's true, and it is, that confession | 19:05 | |
has an essential part in all prayer. | 19:12 | |
It is also true that Thanksgiving | 19:18 | |
has an equally essential place. | 19:22 | |
Now, this we're conscious of at special time. | 19:26 | |
In late November, we give public thanks for the harvest. | 19:30 | |
In the Church of Scotland, | 19:37 | |
the sacrament of the Lord's supper is always followed | 19:38 | |
in the evening by what is called the Thanksgiving Service. | 19:42 | |
Thanksgiving for the table spread that day for our benefit. | 19:47 | |
And that service in the evening always concludes | 19:53 | |
with a hallelujah chorus. | 19:58 | |
But in all services of public worship, yes, | 20:02 | |
and in the quiet of our own rooms with the door shut, | 20:06 | |
the element of Thanksgiving should not be forgotten. | 20:12 | |
More than that, we should remember others | 20:18 | |
before the throne of grace, | 20:22 | |
that's the reason for the prayer of intercession. | 20:24 | |
If we can just recall these people as individuals, | 20:29 | |
the man who comes to church alone, | 20:35 | |
because his wife is a Roman Catholic. | 20:40 | |
The lady with the aristocratic air and the troubled heart. | 20:45 | |
The boy or girl whose mother is about | 20:54 | |
to undergo surgery in the hospital. | 20:58 | |
Yes, if we recall them as individuals, | 21:02 | |
instead of lumping them all together | 21:05 | |
in a general intercession, | 21:07 | |
we shall more likely consider each with gratitude | 21:11 | |
when we think of them outside of the terms | 21:15 | |
and the times of prayer. | 21:18 | |
It's more difficult to be thoughtless of others | 21:22 | |
if we have shared our grateful remembrance of them with God, | 21:28 | |
who is the author of our thankfulness. | 21:35 | |
And then second, let us act on our gratitude | 21:40 | |
in word and in deed. | 21:46 | |
Oh, with a letter, with a phone call, with a gift, | 21:49 | |
with a visit, an act of kindness may have a chain reaction. | 21:58 | |
It can beget gratitude in us and in others. | 22:06 | |
I happen to have practically no anti-Jewish feeling. | 22:14 | |
Now, why? | 22:20 | |
It's partly tradition. | 22:21 | |
Harry Golden, that false, staffy and Charlotte editor, | 22:25 | |
wrote me recently saying that Scotland is one, | 22:31 | |
if not the one country in the world, | 22:35 | |
which has no history of antisemitism. | 22:39 | |
Jew and Scott joyfully shocked in their wits on each other. | 22:45 | |
You know the definition of perpetual motion. | 22:54 | |
It's a Jew chasing a Scotsman for an overdue account. | 22:58 | |
(congregation laughing) | 23:02 | |
But pen more to the point, I was saved | 23:07 | |
from drowning by a Jewish classmate, | 23:11 | |
with the wonderful name to me of Jackie Paradise. | 23:15 | |
Now, similarly, I seem to have no anti-Negro feeling. | 23:22 | |
My introduction to the Negro in the South was tendered me | 23:27 | |
by a large, colored, truck driver, who changed a wheel | 23:31 | |
on the Chevrolet as my wife | 23:37 | |
and I were coming to settle in Durham. | 23:40 | |
I can still recall my despair somewhere near Lynchburg, | 23:44 | |
as my feeble jack would not raised the overloaded car. | 23:49 | |
And I recall the ease with which the truck driver, | 23:57 | |
with his jack, completed the operation in under 10 minutes. | 24:01 | |
I also remember that he refused any payment. | 24:08 | |
Now, that Jewish classmate and that colored driver | 24:14 | |
may not have been consciously inspired by gratitude to God | 24:21 | |
in their magnanimous response to me, | 24:27 | |
but I was forced back. | 24:32 | |
On an analysis of my own behavior | 24:35 | |
and my motivation as a Christian, love for one's fellas | 24:40 | |
of any race, of any color, is the oil which keeps | 24:48 | |
the machinery of social life from creaking and rusting. | 24:54 | |
Christian commitment behooves us to act in gratitude. | 25:03 | |
It transforms in these capable neighborliness, | 25:11 | |
into conscious brotherhood, by rendering cheerful, | 25:17 | |
willing service to others. | 25:23 | |
These are two ways then, of applying gratitude, | 25:27 | |
responding to grace, vertically, in our prayers, | 25:31 | |
horizontally, in our social behavior. | 25:37 | |
Why was Luke 17:11-19 read as our scripture lesson? | 25:46 | |
The story about how Lord healing 10 lepers, | 25:57 | |
one came back to express his gratitude. | 26:04 | |
And he to add an awkward touch to the story, | 26:12 | |
was not a kosher Jew, but a half breed Samaritan. | 26:17 | |
And Jesus' comment was | 26:25 | |
"When there are 10 men healed, | 26:29 | |
where are the other nine? | 26:37 | |
Is nobody going to turn and praise God | 26:41 | |
for what has been done except this stranger?" | 26:45 | |
It isn't a degree encouraging to know | 26:54 | |
that one out of 10 said thank you. | 26:57 | |
It's also disconcerting to know | 27:05 | |
that only one out of 10 said thank you. | 27:08 | |
That Chicago incident with which this sermon began | 27:18 | |
would have been no surprise to our Lord, | 27:26 | |
though it would have caused him continuing embarrassment. | 27:33 | |
Amen, let us pray. | 27:43 | |
Oh, might God, our Father, | 27:52 | |
you are full of grace toward the children of men, | 27:55 | |
even when they don't deserve it. | 27:59 | |
Teach us to understand and to accept thy goodwill, | 28:03 | |
in great thankfulness, that our lives may be prayers | 28:07 | |
of thanksgiving to thee, and acts of gratitude | 28:13 | |
to our fellows. | 28:17 | |
Through Jesus Christ, thy word of grace become flesh, | 28:20 | |
even our Lord, and may the blessing | 28:26 | |
of the Lord come upon you abundantly. | 28:30 | |
May it keep you strong and tranquil | 28:35 | |
in the truth of His promises through Jesus Christ, our Lord. | 28:39 | |
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