Anthony Campolo - "A Psychology for Christians" (March 18, 2001)
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- | Let's pray together. | 0:13 |
May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts | 0:15 | |
be acceptable in thy sight, O Lord, | 0:19 | |
our strength and our redeemer, amen. | 0:21 | |
Abraham Maslow said that we are Homo sapiens endeavoring | 0:27 | |
to become human beings. | 0:31 | |
I like that, because to a large degree, | 0:33 | |
we lost our humanity because of the fall. | 0:36 | |
The sin in our lives have diminished our humanity | 0:40 | |
and made us less than we oughta be. | 0:43 | |
All of us are in process. | 0:46 | |
All of us are trying to become human beings. | 0:48 | |
I remember when my son was just a little guy, | 0:51 | |
he had to do a talk at school. | 0:54 | |
The subject was, what are you going to be when you grow up. | 0:57 | |
He asked me for some help. | 1:01 | |
I said, "You go in there and you tell the teacher, | 1:03 | |
"and you tell the class, that when you grow up, | 1:06 | |
"you're going to be a completely actualized | 1:09 | |
"and fulfilled human being, like Jesus, | 1:11 | |
"and that what she meant to ask | 1:15 | |
"was what are you going to do to make money?" | 1:16 | |
(congregation laughing) | 1:20 | |
He did, and it didn't go over well at all. | 1:22 | |
(congregation laughing) | 1:25 | |
If there's anything that Jesus is about, it's about this. | 1:28 | |
It's about restoring us to what we ought to be, | 1:32 | |
making us into complete human beings. | 1:37 | |
Jesus was the only human being that ever lived. | 1:41 | |
He was the only one that was a full reflection | 1:45 | |
of the heavenly Father. | 1:48 | |
To be human is to be in the image of God, | 1:49 | |
and that means these things. | 1:51 | |
First of all, it means to be alive to the wonders of life. | 1:54 | |
If there wasn't any heaven, if there wasn't any hell, | 1:59 | |
I would still become a Christian, | 2:02 | |
simply because the Jesus who died on the cross for my sins | 2:04 | |
and is resurrected is alive in my life today | 2:07 | |
and heightens my awareness of how glorious life really is. | 2:12 | |
One morning, I got going rather late. | 2:21 | |
It was a Saturday morning, and I turned on the television | 2:25 | |
and who should be on the television but Mr. Rogers. | 2:28 | |
To say it's a low-tech show | 2:33 | |
is the understatement of the year. | 2:35 | |
And what Mr. Rogers has going for him | 2:39 | |
is that his audience is predominantly children | 2:42 | |
who know how to appreciate the ordinary wonders of life. | 2:44 | |
I can still remember that morning, as he said, | 2:48 | |
"Boys and girls, we're going | 2:50 | |
"to fill this fish bowl with water, glass," | 2:53 | |
and he began to pour it, "by glass, by glass," | 2:59 | |
and I'm sitting there going, wow. | 3:03 | |
(congregation laughing) | 3:07 | |
And suddenly, the glory of the ordinary | 3:08 | |
became very, very clear to me. | 3:11 | |
I am amazed at how dead people have become. | 3:14 | |
I am particularly upset, sorry about this, | 3:18 | |
with college students. | 3:21 | |
I mean, no reflection on you. | 3:22 | |
I mean, you look alive. | 3:25 | |
But I have to teach people like you. | 3:28 | |
Pouring out your heart for truth, | 3:30 | |
wrenched from existential suffering. | 3:32 | |
And then to have some student on the last row raise his hand | 3:36 | |
and say, do we have to know this for the final? | 3:39 | |
(congregation laughing) | 3:42 | |
I was delivering a speech | 3:45 | |
to a corporate gathering in Chicago. | 3:46 | |
I'm in the Hyatt, I'm on the 10th floor. | 3:50 | |
It's 10 o'clock. | 3:53 | |
I'm supposed to be in the ball room | 3:55 | |
delivering the speech at 10 o'clock. | 3:56 | |
I rush to the elevator, get on the elevator. | 3:58 | |
There's a college kid standing next to me. | 4:01 | |
He's got his baseball hat on backwards, | 4:04 | |
he's kind of slumped like this, | 4:05 | |
and not really awake to the glories | 4:07 | |
of life, to say the least. | 4:10 | |
We come down to the first floor. | 4:14 | |
I'm late for this meeting. | 4:15 | |
The elevator doors do not open. | 4:17 | |
I start banging on the doors. | 4:20 | |
"Open up out there!" | 4:22 | |
"Open up, I'm late for a meeting, open up," I'm yelling. | 4:24 | |
And suddenly, there was a voice behind me | 4:28 | |
that said, "Sir, the door is open." | 4:30 | |
And I turned. | 4:35 | |
It was one of those elevators that had doors on both sides. | 4:36 | |
(congregation laughing) | 4:39 | |
And I'm over here banging on the door, | 4:39 | |
and the doors open behind me. | 4:41 | |
And this kid next to me did not laugh. | 4:43 | |
(congregation laughing) | 4:46 | |
I grabbed him by the shoulders and I shook him, | 4:47 | |
and I said, "Kid, laugh! | 4:50 | |
"This is funny!" | 4:52 | |
(congregation laughing) | ||
If the Bible says anything about Jesus, | 4:57 | |
it says this, that he who ascended | 4:59 | |
has come back as the Holy Spirit to invade us | 5:01 | |
and we who were dead, we who were dead in the trespasses | 5:05 | |
of our sins, through his Spirit, he makes us alive. | 5:10 | |
And that's, that's what it means to be human, to be alive. | 5:16 | |
Most people are not alive. | 5:21 | |
They suffer from a kind of insomnia. | 5:23 | |
When they're awake, they're half-asleep, | 5:26 | |
and when they're asleep, they're half-awake. | 5:28 | |
Erich Fromm has said it well. | 5:30 | |
We have produced a society in which we have machines | 5:32 | |
that function like people, and we have people | 5:36 | |
who function like machines. | 5:40 | |
Herbert Marcuse said it this way. | 5:43 | |
He said, most people are absent when they're present. | 5:45 | |
I know what that's like. | 5:49 | |
Right, have you ever been out on a date | 5:50 | |
and you felt like she wasn't there? | 5:52 | |
You looked over, and she wasn't there. | 5:55 | |
She was someplace else. | 5:58 | |
And you wished you weren't there. | 6:00 | |
(congregation laughing) | 6:03 | |
There is a deadness to life, | 6:06 | |
but when one surrenders to Jesus, | 6:07 | |
I mean, not just believes in Jesus, | 6:11 | |
not just accepts the historical truth | 6:13 | |
that 2,000 years ago, when he died on the cross, | 6:15 | |
he took the punishment for our sins, | 6:17 | |
but when one surrenders to Jesus | 6:18 | |
and invites Jesus to invade him or her, | 6:21 | |
that person becomes alive to the ecstasies of life. | 6:24 | |
That's part of what it means to be human. | 6:30 | |
The second thing, it goes with it, | 6:33 | |
is that the Spirit of God, | 6:36 | |
when the Spirit of God invades us, | 6:37 | |
empowers us to connect with people, | 6:39 | |
to care about people, to be at one with people | 6:42 | |
in the deepest of ways. | 6:46 | |
I remember, I remember as a young person, | 6:49 | |
reading the book "Franny and Zooey." | 6:53 | |
Many of you have read that book. | 6:55 | |
In the book, Franny comes home from the university, | 6:57 | |
and she's really spaced out, to say the least. | 7:01 | |
She's not all there. | 7:05 | |
She's had a nervous breakdown. | 7:07 | |
Her brother, Zooey, is trying to bring her back to reality | 7:10 | |
and there is this incredible conversation | 7:13 | |
in which Zooey says to Franny, | 7:15 | |
Franny, remember what Seymour, our older brother, | 7:16 | |
used to say to us just before we did our radio show? | 7:21 | |
The family had a radio show every week, | 7:24 | |
and Seymour would always say | 7:27 | |
to these brothers and sisters of his, | 7:29 | |
stand up straight, straighten your clothes, do your best. | 7:34 | |
Remember you're doing it for the fat lady. | 7:40 | |
What came to your mind? | 7:45 | |
And Franny said, I always imagined a woman | 7:48 | |
in the general hospital suffering from cancer | 7:52 | |
and I wanted to be extra good | 7:54 | |
so that she would forget her pain. | 7:56 | |
What did you think of? | 7:58 | |
He said, I always thought of, I always thought of | 8:01 | |
a woman with cancer, but she was out in the middle | 8:06 | |
of New York state, all by herself, with nobody around. | 8:08 | |
And she wanted to be, we wanted to be extra good | 8:14 | |
so she'd forget her loneliness. | 8:16 | |
And then, Zooey says to Franny, | 8:20 | |
Franny, don't you know who the fat lady is? | 8:22 | |
Don't you know who the fat lady is? | 8:26 | |
The fat lady is Jesus. | 8:30 | |
What an interesting thing to say. | 8:33 | |
What did he mean by that? | 8:35 | |
Well, he meant this, | 8:37 | |
that the same Jesus who died on the cross, | 8:39 | |
and the same Jesus who was resurrected | 8:41 | |
and ascended to the Father and come back as the Holy Spirit, | 8:43 | |
that same Jesus chooses to come | 8:46 | |
through people who are in need. | 8:50 | |
And whenever we encounter somebody who is in desperate need, | 8:52 | |
whenever we find the lonely, the desperate, the forsaken, | 8:56 | |
we're to look closely into their eyes, | 8:59 | |
and if we do, we will have this uncanny awareness | 9:02 | |
that Jesus is staring back at us. | 9:04 | |
Jesus is waiting to be loved, | 9:08 | |
in those who confront us as strangers. | 9:12 | |
And the only description he gives of judgment day | 9:16 | |
is how we related to him as we found him in other people. | 9:18 | |
You see, I believe that one | 9:22 | |
becomes Christian by having a personal relationship | 9:27 | |
with Jesus Christ, but I don't believe you can have | 9:31 | |
a personal relationship with Jesus Christ | 9:34 | |
unless you connect with Jesus as Jesus waits | 9:36 | |
to be encountered in people who are in need. | 9:40 | |
So every time you look into the eyes of somebody | 9:43 | |
who is in desperate need, if you are Spirit-filled, | 9:46 | |
you should see or sense Jesus coming back at you. | 9:49 | |
This is why President Bush may be on the right track | 9:53 | |
with his talk about faith-based programs. | 9:57 | |
He says they are more effective than programs | 10:00 | |
that do not have a spiritual dimension to them. | 10:03 | |
And I believe he's right for this reason, | 10:06 | |
having organized and having established a host | 10:10 | |
of faith-based programs using young people, | 10:14 | |
many of whom have come from this university, as workers. | 10:17 | |
Because they are Christians, we tell them to do something. | 10:21 | |
We tell them that every time they look | 10:25 | |
into the eyes of an inner city kid, | 10:27 | |
a broken down kid or a hurt kid, | 10:29 | |
to look deeply, to look prayerfully, | 10:33 | |
and to try to feel Jesus in that person, | 10:36 | |
try to feel Jesus in that person. | 10:42 | |
It changes the whole way in which you relate | 10:45 | |
to people who are in need. | 10:48 | |
They are no longer pathetic individuals, | 10:49 | |
they are no longer persons | 10:52 | |
who you are reaching down to help. | 10:54 | |
If you see Jesus in them, you cannot help | 10:58 | |
but have a sense of awe and reverence | 11:01 | |
and incredible respect. | 11:04 | |
You lift up the humanity. | 11:05 | |
You enhance the humanity of that person | 11:07 | |
rather than diminish that person's dignity. | 11:10 | |
To not come as one aware that Jesus is waiting | 11:12 | |
to be loved in the other, that the King of kings | 11:17 | |
and the Lord of lords is waiting to be embraced in the other | 11:20 | |
is to, in fact, treat the other as a pathetic individual | 11:23 | |
who needs to be helped, | 11:28 | |
instead of the King of Glory waiting to be served. | 11:30 | |
It changes the attitudes, | 11:34 | |
and I contend that in all social work, | 11:35 | |
attitudes are of ultimate significance. | 11:38 | |
Over the last three and a half years, | 11:43 | |
we have started up a program called Mission Year, | 11:46 | |
in which we recruit young people, | 11:49 | |
not unlike the students at this school, | 11:51 | |
to come and work with us | 11:53 | |
in inner city situations for a year. | 11:54 | |
My comment is quite simple. | 11:56 | |
If the Mormons are able to challenge their young people | 11:59 | |
to give two years of their lives, | 12:01 | |
I wonder why Methodists can't challenge | 12:03 | |
their kids to give one. | 12:05 | |
Or maybe it's because the Mormons have a level | 12:10 | |
of commitment that is seldom seen in mainline denominations, | 12:13 | |
or for that matter, even in evangelical churches, | 12:18 | |
not that the one is exclusive the other. | 12:22 | |
But this has to be said. | 12:25 | |
It's about time that young people recognize | 12:28 | |
that before they move on into their professions, | 12:30 | |
they need to live among the poor and the oppressed. | 12:33 | |
They need to spend a year among the poor and the oppressed. | 12:35 | |
You're gonna be a doctor? | 12:38 | |
Great, if you spend a year among the poor | 12:39 | |
and the oppressed, you'll be a different kind of doctor. | 12:42 | |
You're gonna be a teacher? | 12:45 | |
You'll be a different kind of teacher. | 12:46 | |
You'll be a different kind of lawyer, | 12:47 | |
you'll be a different kind of anything. | 12:48 | |
Here's what the young people in Mission Year do. | 12:51 | |
They get together in groups of six. | 12:52 | |
We rent a house. | 12:55 | |
The team is connected to some inner city church, | 12:57 | |
usually an African American or Hispanic church. | 13:01 | |
They go to the church, but they don't exercise | 13:05 | |
any leadership because they're gonna be gone in a year. | 13:07 | |
They spend 15 hours a week doing community service, | 13:11 | |
soup kitchens, volunteering in the public schools, | 13:14 | |
tutoring after school, building houses | 13:19 | |
with Habitat for Humanity, good stuff like that. | 13:22 | |
And then, and then, they spend 25 hours a week | 13:25 | |
just getting to know people in the neighborhood, | 13:31 | |
knocking on doors. | 13:34 | |
When people answer, say, hey, | 13:34 | |
we're from the church down the street. | 13:36 | |
Don't get nervous, we're not trying to convert you | 13:37 | |
or lay a trip on you, we just wanna do one thing. | 13:39 | |
We wanna pray God's blessing on you. | 13:42 | |
Would you let us pray God's blessing on you | 13:45 | |
and the people that live in the house with you? | 13:46 | |
It's an interesting thing to ask, | 13:49 | |
because even the agnostics say, | 13:50 | |
well, it'll make you feel any better, go ahead. | 13:52 | |
(congregation laughing) | 13:56 | |
And then we ask the second question. | 13:58 | |
Do you have any special needs? | 14:01 | |
It's amazing. | 14:02 | |
You'll hear someone say, yes, my husband's lost a job. | 14:03 | |
He's so depressed he doesn't get out of bed. | 14:06 | |
Another will say, yes, my daughter's pregnant | 14:09 | |
for the second time, she's 16. | 14:11 | |
We don't know what to do. | 14:12 | |
Another will say, my son's in jail, | 14:14 | |
and he's on drugs, and we don't even wanna get him out | 14:16 | |
because he gets worse all the time. | 14:19 | |
And we pray. | 14:22 | |
You say, that's it? | 14:23 | |
We pray, of course, when we get back | 14:24 | |
to the house at the end of the day, | 14:26 | |
we go over the cards of the people we visit. | 14:27 | |
Here's a man who is without a job. | 14:29 | |
Doesn't the YMCA run a job placement service? | 14:32 | |
Let's call them and tell them to get somebody over there | 14:35 | |
to visit that man. | 14:38 | |
This woman with a daughter that's pregnant | 14:39 | |
for the second time, the Episcopalians, | 14:41 | |
they run that crisis pregnancy center. | 14:44 | |
Let's tell them to get over and visit that young woman. | 14:45 | |
This boy on drugs, let's get him out of jail | 14:50 | |
and put him into Teen Challenge, | 14:53 | |
that charismatic group that is so effective | 14:55 | |
in getting kids off of drugs. | 14:57 | |
We find that you don't have | 14:59 | |
to create new programs for the city. | 15:00 | |
The programs already exist. | 15:02 | |
We find that the problem is that the people | 15:05 | |
who need the help never go | 15:08 | |
to where the programs are situated. | 15:09 | |
We've gotta get the people | 15:13 | |
who run the programs to go to them. | 15:13 | |
I got off the rapid transit system in Oakland. | 15:17 | |
We have programs in Oakland, Chicago, Philadelphia, | 15:21 | |
Atlanta, Georgia, about 30 to 40 kids aimed | 15:25 | |
at each of those communities, | 15:28 | |
working in those neighborhoods. | 15:30 | |
And I'm walking down the street, | 15:32 | |
trying to find the place where all the teams of Oakland, | 15:33 | |
there's six teams in Oakland, | 15:36 | |
we're going to meet for worship. | 15:37 | |
I was supposed to be the speaker | 15:39 | |
and I couldn't find the place. | 15:40 | |
I asked two women on the street, | 15:42 | |
I said, "Can you tell me | 15:43 | |
"where Aldersgate Methodist Church is?" | 15:45 | |
And she said, "Yes, | 15:48 | |
"it's just up the street about two blocks." | 15:50 | |
The other woman said, "Oh, no, no, no. | 15:52 | |
"He's talking about that other church, | 15:54 | |
"the church where they pray | 15:57 | |
"for everybody in the neighborhood." | 15:59 | |
What an interesting thing to say about a church. | 16:02 | |
I've heard them say about a church, | 16:05 | |
they have great music. | 16:07 | |
I've heard them say about a church, | 16:08 | |
they have great preaching. | 16:10 | |
I've heard them say about a church, | 16:11 | |
they have a great social action program | 16:13 | |
or a great youth program. | 16:14 | |
When was the last time you've heard them say about a church, | 16:15 | |
oh, they're the people that pray for everybody. | 16:18 | |
And yet, if there's anything that Jesus wanted | 16:22 | |
his temple to be, he wanted it to be a house of prayer. | 16:24 | |
He wanted it to be a people who upheld | 16:28 | |
those who were around them in prayer. | 16:31 | |
And I say to young people who come and work with us, | 16:34 | |
listen, you spend one year praying through people | 16:38 | |
in the inner city whose lives are such a mess, | 16:41 | |
whose suffering is beyond ordinary expectations. | 16:44 | |
If you're with those people, you'll be different. | 16:50 | |
Your whole life will be different. | 16:53 | |
Your heart will be broken by the things | 16:55 | |
that break the heart of Jesus. | 16:58 | |
When you become a Christian, you not only come alive | 17:02 | |
to life and hence become more human | 17:05 | |
because you have an awareness of reality. | 17:07 | |
But when you become a Christian and Jesus invades you, | 17:10 | |
I mean, not just believe in him, but he invades you, | 17:12 | |
Jesus becomes a living presence in your life, | 17:15 | |
you become very intensely committed | 17:18 | |
with people who are around you, | 17:22 | |
but there's even a deeper thing than that. | 17:23 | |
The phenomenologist and sociologist, | 17:26 | |
sociology helped us a lot, | 17:28 | |
people like George Herbert Mead and Madison | 17:31 | |
would say there are three levels of our humanity, | 17:33 | |
if we can call ourselves human. | 17:36 | |
We have three dimensions. | 17:39 | |
First, each of us has a body. | 17:41 | |
My body says, George Herbert Mead | 17:44 | |
is a thing, an object in the world. | 17:46 | |
I've had that experience where I smashed a finger, | 17:48 | |
this finger, particularly, went to the hospital | 17:51 | |
and had it sewed up. | 17:54 | |
They put Novocain in my arm, so there was no feeling | 17:56 | |
between my shoulder and my hand. | 18:00 | |
They put a sheet over it and cut a hole in it | 18:02 | |
and shoved my finger up through this hole and began to sew, | 18:05 | |
but I felt no connectedness. | 18:09 | |
It was the weirdest thing in the world, | 18:11 | |
looking at that thumb and saying, that's me. | 18:13 | |
That belongs to me. | 18:16 | |
It was an object in the world, indeed, | 18:18 | |
and Madison says we must see, first of all, | 18:21 | |
that our bodies are objects in the world. | 18:24 | |
The second level of our existence | 18:27 | |
is our stream of consciousness. | 18:30 | |
Very often, when young people in universities | 18:33 | |
get together and try to make out, | 18:35 | |
you know what I mean, yeah. | 18:38 | |
I got one guy over here that's going. | 18:40 | |
(congregation laughing) | 18:41 | |
That usually, after the initial encounters, | 18:44 | |
there's this thing where you try to be sophisticated | 18:46 | |
and deep and you say, tell me about yourself. | 18:50 | |
Oh, it gets so heavy. | 18:54 | |
And as I tell this young woman about me, | 18:57 | |
I realize there's a difference between me being described | 19:00 | |
and I who am doing the describing. | 19:05 | |
In matter of fact, I'm not lying to her. | 19:06 | |
I'm just choosing very carefully, | 19:10 | |
out of all the realities of my life | 19:13 | |
those things which I believe would impress her. | 19:15 | |
I am conning her. | 19:19 | |
I am presenting, as Erving Goffman says, | 19:22 | |
I'm making a presentation of myself to her, | 19:25 | |
and I'm presenting those things about me | 19:28 | |
which I believe will really turn her on. | 19:30 | |
Don't feel guilty if you're doing that, fella, | 19:33 | |
because in all probability, not only are you conning her, | 19:35 | |
but she is conning you. | 19:40 | |
And, as a matter of fact, what we find in life | 19:42 | |
is that usually what happens at a wedding | 19:45 | |
is that two con jobs | 19:47 | |
make vows to stay together no matter what, | 19:51 | |
only to find a few years later that they've been conned, | 19:54 | |
(congregation laughing) | 19:59 | |
that the person that they thought they were marrying, | 20:00 | |
the persons they thought they were marrying, | 20:03 | |
don't really exist. | 20:04 | |
I mean, I've had them come into my office and say, | 20:06 | |
this isn't the man I married. | 20:09 | |
Of course not. | 20:12 | |
You were had, honey. | 20:13 | |
You were had. | 20:15 | |
(congregation laughing) | ||
So when I tell you about me, there's a difference | 20:19 | |
between the me that I am presenting | 20:21 | |
and I who am doing the presenting. | 20:24 | |
Ah, but there's a third level. | 20:26 | |
I have a body, which is a thing, an object. | 20:29 | |
There is a description of me, a presentation of self | 20:32 | |
that I make to the other, but there is something deeper. | 20:34 | |
I lie behind the me that I present to you. | 20:38 | |
And I who lie behind the me that I present to you | 20:43 | |
can often be lonely. | 20:46 | |
Soren Kierkegaard graphically describes the fact | 20:49 | |
that the me that he presents to other | 20:52 | |
is gregarious and funny and he talks | 20:55 | |
about going to a party and being the life of the party | 20:58 | |
and everybody thinks he's clever and debonair and smooth | 21:00 | |
and exciting, and he said, and I went home | 21:03 | |
and I wanted to blow my brains out. | 21:05 | |
I am different from the me that I present to you. | 21:10 | |
But through the power of the Holy Spirit, | 21:14 | |
something can happen. | 21:16 | |
I can connect with that third level | 21:17 | |
of your humanity, with your I. | 21:21 | |
I'm standing on a street corner at Penn. | 21:26 | |
I taught at Penn for 10 years, University of Pennsylvania, | 21:28 | |
and the duck lady came up alongside of me. | 21:32 | |
We called her the duck lady | 21:36 | |
because she never stopped quacking. | 21:37 | |
She made this incessant song, | 21:39 | |
she wandered around the campus, | 21:40 | |
nobody knew what to do with her. | 21:41 | |
We never knew what building she was sleeping in at night. | 21:43 | |
We called her the duck lady because it was constant. | 21:46 | |
Quack, quack, quack, quack, quack, | 21:49 | |
she made this quacking song, quack, quack. | 21:50 | |
She came right up alongside of me. | 21:52 | |
I turned to her, she turned to me. | 21:56 | |
And I reached into her eyes, and down into the depths | 22:00 | |
of her being, and I connected. | 22:03 | |
And in that I-thou encounter, she was no longer an object. | 22:06 | |
I knew very little about her life, | 22:10 | |
and yet, as Paul so eloquently says | 22:14 | |
about such encounters, and yet, I knew her, | 22:16 | |
even as also I am known. | 22:20 | |
I felt myself connected, suddenly, through the power of God. | 22:22 | |
This was no longer a superficial relationship, | 22:27 | |
something profound was happening. | 22:31 | |
She stopped her quacking. | 22:33 | |
She looked around with an air of wonder, | 22:36 | |
and she said, "It's lovely." | 22:39 | |
It's lovely, and before I could ask her what she meant, | 22:42 | |
the light changed. | 22:46 | |
Someone bumped against her and her head shook, | 22:48 | |
she fell back into her schizophrenic state, | 22:50 | |
she started quacking again. | 22:53 | |
She wandered down the street and disappeared | 22:55 | |
into the crowd, and I thought to myself, | 22:57 | |
if only I could have connected with her | 22:59 | |
for just a minute or two longer, | 23:00 | |
maybe three or four minutes, | 23:02 | |
maybe the deliverance would have been more lasting. | 23:04 | |
I believe in psychiatry and psychotherapy, | 23:10 | |
but I wanna tell you that after they've done | 23:12 | |
all that they can and failed, | 23:14 | |
there is still a balm in Gilead. | 23:15 | |
There is still a power that comes into our lives | 23:18 | |
that enables us to connect with people | 23:20 | |
on their deepest level, and that's where the healing | 23:22 | |
of the soul takes place. | 23:25 | |
To be human is not only to be alive to the wonders of life, | 23:28 | |
but to be connected with people, | 23:32 | |
to be connected with people in the deepest | 23:34 | |
and most profound way. | 23:37 | |
How many of us see each other as though | 23:39 | |
through a glass darkly instead of face to face? | 23:41 | |
How many of us know each other only in part | 23:44 | |
instead of knowing each other even as we know ourselves? | 23:46 | |
To be alive is one part of being human. | 23:52 | |
To be connected in depth is another. | 23:56 | |
But the last thing is this. | 24:00 | |
To be human is to be able to imagine the future | 24:02 | |
with glorious hope. | 24:07 | |
Psychology has its limitations in America, | 24:12 | |
because it tends to be bound by various forms | 24:14 | |
of behaviorism and neo-Freudianism, | 24:18 | |
and both of them have this mistake in common. | 24:19 | |
They both understand that a person is predominantly | 24:22 | |
the result of the experiences of the past, | 24:26 | |
that what the culture has done | 24:29 | |
and what past experiences have done | 24:30 | |
to mold the individual have determined | 24:32 | |
what the individual is, so if you take a psychology course | 24:34 | |
in your first year of school, | 24:37 | |
they want you to write a case study, | 24:38 | |
because who you are is determined by what you've been. | 24:40 | |
That's what is implied in the exercise. | 24:44 | |
That's where Christianity differs. | 24:49 | |
Christianity does not say what you are | 24:52 | |
is the result of what you've been. | 24:55 | |
What you are is determined | 24:58 | |
by what you can imagine yourself becoming. | 25:00 | |
The future molds you in the present | 25:03 | |
more than anything in the past. | 25:06 | |
In short, from a Christian perspective, | 25:09 | |
we don't care where you've come from. | 25:11 | |
We care about where you're going. | 25:14 | |
What are your dreams, what are your visions? | 25:15 | |
I worry about young people in universities | 25:18 | |
because their dreams and visions tend to be about stuff. | 25:20 | |
It's a consumeristic society, so that doesn't surprise me, | 25:26 | |
but you know what I'm talking about. | 25:28 | |
You ask 'em, why are you in school? | 25:30 | |
You get one standard answer. | 25:32 | |
Well, my parents told me if I get a good education, | 25:34 | |
I'll get a good job. | 25:36 | |
And if I get a good job, I'll make a lot of money. | 25:39 | |
And if you have a lot of money, | 25:44 | |
you'll be able to buy a lot of stuff. | 25:45 | |
The size of American houses have increased 20% | 25:48 | |
over the last 10 years, | 25:51 | |
not because we have more children, | 25:53 | |
not because we have larger families, | 25:55 | |
we need bigger and bigger houses | 25:57 | |
just to hold all the stuff. | 25:59 | |
As I talk to students on campuses, | 26:02 | |
their futures are wrapped up in stuff. | 26:04 | |
I wanna get married, I wanna get a house, | 26:06 | |
I wanna get a car, I wanna get the stuff, the stuff. | 26:08 | |
And the culture has communicated to this generation | 26:13 | |
that if you get all the stuff that the culture says | 26:16 | |
you're supposed to have, there will be a deep sense | 26:19 | |
of gratification and fulfillment. | 26:22 | |
Man, Jesus had it easy. | 26:26 | |
He said there are material things | 26:28 | |
that will gratify material desires, | 26:30 | |
but there are spiritual things, | 26:35 | |
and they will gratify spiritual desires. | 26:37 | |
Ours is a generation in which we dare to suggest | 26:41 | |
to this generation of young people | 26:43 | |
that material things will satisfy spiritual hungers. | 26:45 | |
I am here to tell you that the greatest needs | 26:50 | |
of the human heart cannot be gratified through shopping. | 26:53 | |
And yet that's where we are. | 26:58 | |
I was at UCLA and I was talking to students, | 27:01 | |
and all they were talking about is success | 27:03 | |
in terms of accumulation of stuff. | 27:06 | |
And at a particular point, I had to say, "I'm 65. | 27:09 | |
"You are 22, I am younger than you are | 27:13 | |
"because people are as young as their dreams | 27:16 | |
"and as old as their cynicism and for you, | 27:20 | |
"it's all about manipulating the world | 27:22 | |
"to get the stuff that you want." | 27:24 | |
I have to ask every generation of young people | 27:27 | |
this simple question. | 27:30 | |
What's it all about? | 27:31 | |
Lily Tomlin said, "I always said when I was a kid | 27:33 | |
"that when I grew up I wanted to be somebody. | 27:37 | |
"I should have been more specific." | 27:41 | |
(congregation laughing) | 27:43 | |
What are your dreams? | 27:47 | |
What are your visions? | 27:48 | |
The same Jesus that makes you alive to life, | 27:50 | |
the same Jesus that empowers you to connect | 27:52 | |
with others on the deepest level of existence, | 27:55 | |
that same Jesus, that same Jesus | 27:57 | |
comes into your life and gives you dreams and visions | 28:01 | |
that are worthy of a human being. | 28:05 | |
Working in the inner city, | 28:11 | |
I was running a program one year in Philadelphia | 28:14 | |
in nine different neighborhoods. | 28:17 | |
We did all the things you do when you're working | 28:19 | |
with inner city kids on a summer program. | 28:21 | |
We did the Bible studies and the singing | 28:23 | |
and the games, and then we had sports. | 28:25 | |
By the end of the summer, we had a all-star basketball team | 28:29 | |
that I set up against the Philadelphia Eagles football team. | 28:32 | |
It was a wonderful, wonderful experience. | 28:37 | |
I had the kids in a back room. | 28:40 | |
I'm given them the old pep talk. | 28:43 | |
I said, "I brought you out here to play | 28:45 | |
"on a college court, because I wanted you to get the feel | 28:47 | |
"of college ball, because I've got hopes for you, | 28:49 | |
"I've got dreams for you." | 28:51 | |
And their coach said, "Don't listen to him. | 28:54 | |
"They came to my housing project | 28:57 | |
"when I was a kid and they told me | 28:59 | |
"that I could be something, that I could achieve, | 29:00 | |
"that I could get out of the mess that I was in, | 29:03 | |
"and I tried, I really tried, | 29:05 | |
"but look at me, I'm still there. | 29:07 | |
"And don't let him create false dreams for you." | 29:08 | |
I hardly knew what to say. | 29:13 | |
I turned to the kids and I modified Silverman's famous poem, | 29:16 | |
and I said, "Listen to the mustn'ts, child. | 29:20 | |
"Listen to the don'ts. | 29:23 | |
"Listen to the never could bes, | 29:25 | |
"and listen to the won'ts. | 29:26 | |
"Listen to the never has been, | 29:28 | |
"then listen close to me. | 29:31 | |
"Anything can happen, child, | 29:34 | |
"by God's grace, and through the power of God, | 29:37 | |
"anything can be." | 29:40 | |
To create hope. | 29:43 | |
In the end, what does it mean to be a Christian, | 29:44 | |
except this, as Hebrews, the 11th chapter, | 29:46 | |
the first verse, faith. | 29:48 | |
Having faith in Jesus, but what is faith? | 29:50 | |
Faith says the scripture is the substance | 29:52 | |
of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. | 29:55 | |
What are your hopes? | 29:58 | |
What are your dreams? | 29:59 | |
I worry about young people who go to fancy schools like this | 30:00 | |
because the system has the capacity | 30:03 | |
to beat the dreams out of you. | 30:05 | |
You were going to do something great, | 30:08 | |
something magnificent, something daring, | 30:09 | |
something that would change the world, | 30:11 | |
something that would actualize something | 30:13 | |
of the kingdom of God in history. | 30:14 | |
You were gonna work for justice, | 30:16 | |
you were gonna lift up the poor, | 30:17 | |
you were gonna stand for the oppressed, | 30:19 | |
you were gonna spend your lives sacrificially for Jesus | 30:20 | |
and for the sake of others, and they beat it out of you. | 30:24 | |
The problem with schools like ours | 30:27 | |
is that they don't have good song writers anymore. | 30:30 | |
Remember Pete Seeger? | 30:35 | |
Little boxes on the hillside, | 30:37 | |
little boxes made of ticky-tacky, | 30:40 | |
little boxes, little boxes, little boxes all the same. | 30:42 | |
There's a brown one and a blue one | 30:44 | |
and a white one and a yellow one, | 30:45 | |
and they're all made out of ticky-tack, | 30:47 | |
and they all look just the same. | 30:49 | |
And the people in the houses all go to the university | 30:51 | |
where they're all put into boxes, | 30:55 | |
little boxes all the same. | 30:57 | |
There are doctors, there are lawyers, | 30:59 | |
and business executives, and they're all made | 31:01 | |
out of ticky-tack, and they all look just the same. | 31:04 | |
And they all play on the golf course, | 31:07 | |
and they all drink their martinis dry | 31:09 | |
and they all have pretty children, | 31:11 | |
and their children go to school. | 31:13 | |
And their children go to summer camp | 31:15 | |
and then to the university, | 31:17 | |
where they're all put into boxes, | 31:19 | |
little boxes all the same. | 31:21 | |
And a voice echoes down the cordons of time, | 31:24 | |
and says, I beseech you, therefore, brothers and sisters, | 31:26 | |
by the mercies of God, that you present yourselves | 31:28 | |
as living sacrifices, holy and acceptable unto God, | 31:32 | |
which is your reasonable service, | 31:35 | |
and don't let the world around you | 31:37 | |
put you into their little box, | 31:39 | |
but let God come in and may God live through you | 31:42 | |
in such a way that you do the incredible things | 31:46 | |
that you were designed to do when you were created. | 31:49 | |
There's nothing wrong with being a doctor, a teacher, | 31:53 | |
a businessperson, but what kind of doctor? | 31:55 | |
What kind of teacher? | 31:58 | |
What kind of businessperson? | 31:59 | |
Are you gonna be somebody with dreams and visions | 32:00 | |
that use your vocation to change humanity, | 32:03 | |
to alter the course of history, | 32:06 | |
to make a difference for the kingdom of God? | 32:08 | |
My Bible says, seek ye first the kingdom of God. | 32:10 | |
Be at work in this world, transforming the world | 32:14 | |
into the world that God wills for it to be. | 32:17 | |
Oh, people. | 32:21 | |
My wife is here, and my mother and my wife | 32:22 | |
have been two of the most influential people in my life. | 32:26 | |
My wife always calls me to higher ground. | 32:29 | |
My mother used to say this little poem, | 32:31 | |
only one life, t'will soon be past, | 32:33 | |
only what's done for Jesus will last. | 32:35 | |
The future, | 32:41 | |
because what you commit yourself to in the future | 32:43 | |
overcomes all the influences of the past. | 32:47 | |
That's what the word conversion is all about. | 32:50 | |
Animals don't get converted, humans get converted | 32:53 | |
because they are able to redefine the future | 32:55 | |
by the power and by the grace of God | 32:59 | |
and are able to escape the confines of social conditioning | 33:01 | |
and become fully actualized human beings. | 33:08 | |
Brothers and sisters, this is the Apostle John, | 33:12 | |
it hath not yet appeared what I shall be, | 33:15 | |
but when I shall see him, I shall become like him. | 33:17 | |
To be Christian is to be transformed | 33:20 | |
into an actualized human being like Jesus Christ. | 33:23 | |
That's what it's about, not just believing, | 33:27 | |
but surrendering to an eternal Jesus | 33:29 | |
that would invade us and transform us. | 33:33 | |
Do you believe that the same Jesus | 33:35 | |
that was on the cross is alive in this sanctuary, | 33:36 | |
waiting to invade you, waiting to transform you, | 33:39 | |
waiting to empower you for aliveness, | 33:42 | |
enable you for deep, intimate relationships, | 33:46 | |
and ultimately, make you into somebody | 33:50 | |
who can believe in the future. | 33:53 | |
One last thing, the existentialist philosophers understood | 33:54 | |
that being able to conceptualize the future | 33:59 | |
is what makes us human, but it had dangers | 34:01 | |
because the minute you start thinking about the future | 34:04 | |
and become aware of death, death is out there, I know, | 34:06 | |
because I'm 66 now. | 34:09 | |
I don't know what's happened to me. | 34:12 | |
I'm tired and I'm old, and my idea of a happy hour is a nap. | 34:14 | |
(congregation laughing) | 34:18 | |
Soren Kierkegaard said, each of us is like a smooth pebble | 34:23 | |
thrown across the surface of a pond, | 34:26 | |
and we dance gracefully until that moment comes | 34:28 | |
when we run out of momentum, and we sink | 34:30 | |
to 100,000 fathoms of nothingness. | 34:33 | |
I feel myself reaching that point. | 34:36 | |
We make noise on New Year's Eve, he said, | 34:38 | |
to drown out the macabre sound | 34:41 | |
of grass growing over our graves. | 34:42 | |
Death, said Freud, destroys the zest for life. | 34:45 | |
Death saps our energy. | 34:52 | |
It creates anxieties about the future. | 34:55 | |
We're afraid to even think of the future | 34:57 | |
because we're afraid of what the future holds | 34:59 | |
because ultimately, death lies out there. | 35:01 | |
Young people don't grasp that as much as older people do, | 35:04 | |
but I, as I put my head down | 35:07 | |
on the pillow night after night, | 35:08 | |
the thought comes to me, you're one day closer. | 35:10 | |
You're one day closer. | 35:14 | |
You're one day closer. | 35:16 | |
But the Jesus that I preach, is a Jesus | 35:18 | |
that not only makes us alive, is a Jesus | 35:21 | |
that not only connects us with others in love, | 35:24 | |
a Jesus that not only makes us into dreamers | 35:27 | |
and visionaries, who will attempt great things for God | 35:29 | |
and expect great things from God, | 35:32 | |
but it's a Jesus that takes away | 35:33 | |
the ultimate fear of human existence. | 35:35 | |
"I am the resurrection and the life," saith Jesus. | 35:39 | |
"He that believeth in me, though he were dead, | 35:41 | |
"yet shall he live." | 35:43 | |
My father in law died a couple of years ago, | 35:46 | |
a few years ago. | 35:49 | |
He went to bed, suffering from hardening of the arteries. | 35:51 | |
For months previously, he wasn't able to think clearly | 35:58 | |
or to remember correctly. | 36:03 | |
He was an angelic man, and so he just sat around | 36:07 | |
smiling all the time. | 36:09 | |
And then one morning, at 6:15 a.m., | 36:13 | |
my mother in law said he sat up in bed. | 36:17 | |
And he spoke coherently. | 36:20 | |
He spoke to an unseen image in the room, | 36:23 | |
and he yelled at it, "O death, where is thy sting? | 36:27 | |
"O grave, where is your victory? | 36:34 | |
"Praise be to God, that giveth me victory." | 36:40 | |
And he leaned back in bed and he died. | 36:46 | |
What a way to go. | 36:52 | |
Triumphant in the face of the greatest enemy | 36:54 | |
of human existence, knowing that those who are in Christ | 36:57 | |
and those in whom Christ dwells | 37:01 | |
are the overcomers of death itself. | 37:03 | |
And so I call you today, not just to believe in Jesus, | 37:08 | |
but to go to a quiet place, a still place. | 37:13 | |
Jesus says go into the closet and shut the door. | 37:16 | |
And in that stillness, beg Jesus, | 37:19 | |
who is in that closet with you, | 37:24 | |
to invade you, to take the deadness of your soul away | 37:27 | |
and to give you a sense of wonder. | 37:31 | |
Ask that Jesus to come into your life | 37:35 | |
and empower you to connect with other people, | 37:36 | |
especially those who are in need. | 37:39 | |
Let that Jesus invade you. | 37:41 | |
And make you into a dreamer and a visionary, | 37:43 | |
knowing that it's never too old | 37:46 | |
to have a happy childhood. | 37:49 | |
Let Jesus come in | 37:54 | |
and take away the fear of the final enemy. | 37:56 | |
Pray with me. | 38:02 | |
O Jesus, thou art not only the Son of God, | 38:05 | |
but thou art the Son of Man. | 38:09 | |
You come not only as a revealer of God, | 38:12 | |
you come as a revealer of what each of us is called to be. | 38:18 | |
I pray that people all over this sanctuary | 38:24 | |
will, in the quietude of this morning, | 38:27 | |
say Jesus, I've always believed in you. | 38:30 | |
But this morning, I invite you into my life. | 38:34 | |
I want to be invaded by you. | 38:36 | |
I want to live with a sense of wonder. | 38:39 | |
I wanna be connected with people in depth. | 38:41 | |
I wanna be a person of dreams and visions about the future. | 38:44 | |
I wanna be human. | 38:52 | |
O Jesus, invade me and change me | 38:56 | |
into what you are, amen. | 39:02 | |
As the service is over, I will be in the back. | 39:08 | |
I will be, I guess they call it the narthex. | 39:10 | |
I'm Baptist, we don't have good names for things like that. | 39:12 | |
(congregation laughing) | 39:15 | |
I think we call it a vestibule. | 39:17 | |
If you're between the ages of 18 and 30 | 39:20 | |
and you say, I'm ready to give a year of my life | 39:23 | |
to being among the poor and the oppressed in the city, | 39:27 | |
we will nurture you, we'll take care of you, | 39:30 | |
we'll train you, we'll be with you, | 39:31 | |
day after day after day, but would you come and be with us? | 39:33 | |
Give me your name and address on a slip of paper. | 39:36 | |
I wanna send you all the material | 39:38 | |
that'll tell you about this. | 39:42 | |
I am really, you say, what are you doing, recruiting? | 39:44 | |
I am recruiting. | 39:46 | |
(congregation laughing) | 39:48 | |
The other thing is that I need people | 39:49 | |
to put up money to keep these young people on the field. | 39:51 | |
I have a couple of hundred now who wanna do this | 39:53 | |
and so, if you're here today and you're over 30, | 39:56 | |
I can't really say, come and live in our program, | 40:00 | |
but I want your money. | 40:04 | |
(congregation laughing) | 40:07 | |
So on the way out, you give me your name and address | 40:09 | |
and just say money. | 40:10 | |
I would love you to commit something like 30 bucks | 40:13 | |
a month, that's a dollar a day. | 40:15 | |
You can afford it. | 40:17 | |
You don't have to do this, though. | 40:18 | |
Don't feel intimidated as you come out, | 40:19 | |
don't feel that you have to sneak out another door. | 40:22 | |
I mean, I won't give you a dirty look | 40:24 | |
if you don't give me your name and address, | 40:26 | |
but if you do, I will hug you. | 40:28 | |
(congregation laughing) | 40:31 | |
God bless you, it's been good, really good | 40:32 | |
to be with you this morning. | 40:35 |
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