Susan Henry-Crowe - "What Becomes of the Brokenhearted?" (August 23, 1992)
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| - | Hear now the words from Isaiah | 0:02 |
| chapter 61 verses one through four. | 0:05 | |
| The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, | 0:15 | |
| because the Lord has anointed me | 0:17 | |
| to bring good tidings to the afflicted. | 0:19 | |
| He has sent me to bind up the broken-hearted, | 0:22 | |
| to proclaim liberty to the captives, | 0:25 | |
| and the opening of the prison to those who are bound, | 0:28 | |
| to proclaim the year of the Lord's favor | 0:31 | |
| and the day of the vengeance of our God, | 0:34 | |
| to comfort all who mourn, | 0:37 | |
| to grant to those who mourn in Zion, | 0:40 | |
| to give them a garland instead of ashes, | 0:43 | |
| the oil of gladness instead of mourning, | 0:47 | |
| the mantle of praises instead of a faint spirit, | 0:50 | |
| that they may be called the oaks of righteousness, | 0:53 | |
| the planting of the Lord, that he may be glorified. | 0:56 | |
| They shall build up the ancient ruins, | 1:00 | |
| they shall raise up the former devastations, | 1:02 | |
| they shall repair the ruined cities, | 1:06 | |
| the devastations of many generations. | 1:09 | |
| This is the word of the Lord. | 1:12 | |
| (congregation mumbles) | 1:15 | |
| And hear now the words from the gospel of Matthew | 1:18 | |
| chapter 11 verses two through six. | 1:22 | |
| Now when John heard in prison about the deeds | 1:26 | |
| of the Christ, he sent word by his disciples | 1:29 | |
| and said to him, "Are you the one who is to come? | 1:32 | |
| "Or shall we look for another?" | 1:36 | |
| And Jesus answered them, "Go and tell John | 1:40 | |
| "what you hear and see, the blind receive their sight, | 1:44 | |
| "the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, and the deaf hear, | 1:49 | |
| "and the dead are raised up | 1:54 | |
| "and the poor have good news preached to them, | 1:55 | |
| "and blessed is the one who takes no offense at me." | 1:59 | |
| This is the word of the Lord. | 2:04 | |
| - | Thanks be to God. | 2:07 |
| - | Good morning. | 2:11 |
| It is indeed a great honor and privilege | 2:15 | |
| to be invited to preach here | 2:18 | |
| in the midst of this wonderful congregation | 2:20 | |
| at the end of what has been for me a very wonderful summer. | 2:22 | |
| I'd like to thank Deborah for all of her hospitality | 2:27 | |
| and the ways that she has extended herself | 2:30 | |
| on your behalf to me. | 2:32 | |
| And I also would just like to say a word of thanks | 2:35 | |
| to Will in his absence. | 2:38 | |
| Will and I go way back. | 2:41 | |
| We both are from Greenville, South Carolina; | 2:42 | |
| we both went to Buncombe Street United Methodist Church; | 2:45 | |
| we both graduated from Greenville High School. | 2:49 | |
| And I even know some stories about him (laughs), | 2:52 | |
| but I'll not tell them today (chuckles). | 2:56 | |
| But it is indeed an honor to be his colleague | 2:58 | |
| and to be invited on this occasion. | 3:01 | |
| For a few moments this morning, | 3:05 | |
| I want to invite you to engage in the act | 3:06 | |
| of putting back together some events | 3:09 | |
| from about a quarter of a century ago. | 3:11 | |
| By looking out, I can tell that many of you remember that. | 3:15 | |
| But if you would, think back to the year of 1966 and '67. | 3:19 | |
| For those of us who are in our 40s, | 3:26 | |
| we were moving into our high school and early college years, | 3:29 | |
| away at camp in our Presbyterian or Lutheran | 3:33 | |
| or Methodist camp youth groups. | 3:36 | |
| But most of all, we were motivated by our hormones | 3:39 | |
| and we were trying to fall in and out of love. | 3:44 | |
| Many of you will remember that we experimented | 3:48 | |
| with what it means to grow up, | 3:51 | |
| and in those years, sometimes we did it | 3:52 | |
| in rather imaginative ways. | 3:56 | |
| For those who are now in your 50s, | 4:00 | |
| you were going to college or working and graduating | 4:02 | |
| and worrying about whether or not you would be involved | 4:05 | |
| in the war in Vietnam. | 4:11 | |
| You were probably falling in love | 4:15 | |
| for what you thought would be the last time in your life, | 4:17 | |
| and perhaps beginning to articulate your hopes and dreams | 4:22 | |
| about life and friends and footballs games | 4:25 | |
| and marriage and, even occasionally, | 4:28 | |
| probably allowed yourself to let your heart give rise | 4:34 | |
| to follow those timeless questions | 4:40 | |
| about the meaning of life and death. | 4:43 | |
| For those who are now in your 60s and beyond, | 4:48 | |
| you were well on your way in establishing your career, | 4:51 | |
| or perhaps beginning another one, | 4:54 | |
| being parents, and wanting to give your children | 4:57 | |
| and the children of this world the best, | 5:01 | |
| because you knew deep inside | 5:05 | |
| that your children and your grandchildren would face | 5:07 | |
| unimagined ethical and moral issues in a world | 5:12 | |
| that was changing very rapidly. | 5:17 | |
| And you were raising questions about the world | 5:21 | |
| in which you were living, | 5:24 | |
| and probably both insecure and excited | 5:26 | |
| about the world that was to come. | 5:29 | |
| And for all of us, there were those other experiences | 5:34 | |
| and events and moments of which we have | 5:38 | |
| some corporate memory. | 5:42 | |
| It is the memory of the body | 5:45 | |
| and we all remember the things that I will highlight today, | 5:49 | |
| both individually and collectively. | 5:54 | |
| When I say the date November the 22nd, 1963, | 5:59 | |
| you all remember. | 6:05 | |
| You remember where you were and what you were doing, | 6:07 | |
| because, of course, that was the day | 6:11 | |
| that President Kennedy had been assassinated. | 6:13 | |
| And on that day, our worldview began to change, | 6:17 | |
| because not only did we experience the loss | 6:23 | |
| and the death of a President, | 6:26 | |
| but because of that death | 6:29 | |
| and the circumstances which surrounded it. | 6:31 | |
| Some of our dreams that had been cultivated | 6:35 | |
| by the idealism of that age, | 6:39 | |
| and the post-World War II days, | 6:41 | |
| our idealism was challenged. | 6:46 | |
| Remember how we watched either with fascination or disdain, | 6:52 | |
| depending on how old you were, the Beatles, | 6:59 | |
| when Sunday night on the Ed Sullivan Show. | 7:03 | |
| I remember it well, and how The Beatles shaped | 7:07 | |
| both the rhythm and the expression | 7:11 | |
| of our hearts and minds forever. | 7:14 | |
| And remember in 1964 when Lyndon Baines Johnson, | 7:19 | |
| in the midst of severe racial strife | 7:23 | |
| signed the Civil Rights Act, | 7:26 | |
| and we thought that the world would never be the same again. | 7:28 | |
| And remember that rainy night in April of 1968 | 7:35 | |
| when Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was killed. | 7:40 | |
| And remember the summer of 1966 when Watts burned | 7:46 | |
| for five days in one of the most fierce | 7:50 | |
| racial riots of the decade. | 7:56 | |
| And now 25 years ago this summer in 1967, | 8:00 | |
| the Six Day War in Israel that has shaped | 8:06 | |
| the history of the world since that time. | 8:09 | |
| It was also that summer or that year | 8:13 | |
| that Thurgood Marshall was appointed to the Supreme Court, | 8:16 | |
| the first black in America's history | 8:19 | |
| to ever sit on the Supreme Court. | 8:22 | |
| And for those of you who are around my age, | 8:26 | |
| you will remember a song written by Jimmy and David Ruffin, | 8:29 | |
| recorded on Motown Records, | 8:36 | |
| which was entitled, "What Becomes of the Brokenhearted?" | 8:40 | |
| You know the words of that. | 8:46 | |
| Even though we know the tune better | 8:47 | |
| than we remember the words, | 8:49 | |
| but the words of that song are: | 8:51 | |
| "As I walk this land of broken dreams | 8:54 | |
| "I have visions of many things, | 8:58 | |
| "but happiness is just an illusion | 9:02 | |
| "filled with sadness and confusion. | 9:04 | |
| "What becomes of the brokenhearted | 9:08 | |
| "who had love that's now departed? | 9:12 | |
| "I know I've got to find some kind of peace of mind. | 9:15 | |
| "The roots of love grow all around, | 9:21 | |
| "but for me they come a-tumbling down. | 9:24 | |
| "Every day heartache grows a little stronger, | 9:28 | |
| "I can't stand this pain much longer. | 9:32 | |
| "What becomes of the brokenhearted?" | 9:39 | |
| The question I pose today is what indeed does become | 9:46 | |
| of the brokenhearted? | 9:52 | |
| What becomes of those who walk in the land of broken dreams | 9:55 | |
| and a quarter of a century when so much has changed? | 10:00 | |
| What becomes of those who had visions of many things? | 10:07 | |
| What becomes of the brokenhearted | 10:13 | |
| who had love that's now departed? | 10:16 | |
| One of the most remarkable things | 10:20 | |
| that has happened in the past month, I think, | 10:22 | |
| has been the Democratic and Republican National Conventions | 10:27 | |
| and even though I dislike very much the tone | 10:32 | |
| of what has happened in many ways, | 10:36 | |
| it seems to me that one of the questions | 10:39 | |
| that has been raised, | 10:42 | |
| not in the language of the people of faith, | 10:43 | |
| or the language that we use today, | 10:47 | |
| but when we begin to look at all that is happening | 10:51 | |
| in this country, one of the questions is, | 10:54 | |
| what has become of the brokenhearted | 10:57 | |
| who had the dreams of idealism and justice | 11:01 | |
| and all of those things that have not come to fruition | 11:04 | |
| as we had hoped and imagined? | 11:09 | |
| In all the years that have gone, | 11:14 | |
| in the, held within the past quarter of a century, | 11:17 | |
| life is full of joys, | 11:22 | |
| it is full of experiences, of growth and learning, | 11:24 | |
| and it is still full of deep disappointments, | 11:29 | |
| and fears and broken hearts and shattered dreams | 11:33 | |
| and all of the ambiguities and complexities of life. | 11:37 | |
| And we live in a world | 11:43 | |
| where hearts still get broken and shattered. | 11:44 | |
| I am the mother of a teenage daughter, | 11:51 | |
| and recently my daughter's good friend, | 11:53 | |
| 15 years of age, died in a tragic automobile accident. | 11:59 | |
| And I sat in the midst of that congregation | 12:06 | |
| on the day of her funeral, and I looked around | 12:09 | |
| at all of the sad fathers and mothers, | 12:13 | |
| and all of those mothers who were pregnant | 12:17 | |
| at the same time that I was. | 12:19 | |
| And I remember all the dreams that when I was pregnant | 12:23 | |
| I held for my child and the world in which she would live. | 12:27 | |
| And there, for a moment, faced all of the tragedies of life. | 12:32 | |
| Many of us gathered here this day | 12:40 | |
| have suffered the hurt and pain of separation and divorce | 12:44 | |
| in these past 25 years. | 12:50 | |
| And I do not have to remind us | 12:54 | |
| of all of the events of this past year | 12:58 | |
| where we have seen growing racial strife and bigotry | 13:01 | |
| and fear and hatred in the world | 13:06 | |
| and more importantly for a moment in this country, | 13:10 | |
| when we thought it would not be that way again. | 13:16 | |
| This country is in deep distress. | 13:24 | |
| And we hoped and we believed after World War II, | 13:28 | |
| it would not be that way again. | 13:31 | |
| And the sins of exclusion abound on every side. | 13:36 | |
| Jason was an eight-year-old child who had AIDS, | 13:43 | |
| and it created a lot of anxiety and fear, | 13:49 | |
| particularly among adults and the parents did not want | 13:53 | |
| their children exposed to Jason | 13:58 | |
| and the dread disease that he had. | 14:01 | |
| And Jason had been sick, but he was to return to school, | 14:05 | |
| and he returned to school. | 14:08 | |
| And on the day that he returned, adults lined the sidewalks | 14:12 | |
| of that walkway and entrance into the school, | 14:16 | |
| carrying signs, "Jason, go home." | 14:19 | |
| But at the end of that school day, | 14:26 | |
| the third graders, the eight-year-olds, | 14:28 | |
| walked Jason home, carrying a sign of their own | 14:31 | |
| that they had made during the day, | 14:37 | |
| and their sign read, | 14:41 | |
| "Jason is a boy, not a disease." | 14:43 | |
| And once again, this summer, we live | 14:52 | |
| with the restless anxiety as we continue | 14:54 | |
| to hear the horrors and be reminded | 14:57 | |
| of the horrors of the Persian Gulf War, | 15:00 | |
| and we remember far too well the shattered dreams | 15:03 | |
| and the national tragedy of war. | 15:09 | |
| And our hearts still get broken and our dreams are shattered | 15:14 | |
| and life doesn't turn out like we want it to. | 15:17 | |
| And what becomes of the brokenhearted? | 15:23 | |
| There is an old rabbinic tale of Ibn Ezra | 15:28 | |
| who on the eve of Yom Kippur prayed long and ardently | 15:33 | |
| in the synagogue, much to the distress of his waiting rabbi. | 15:38 | |
| Finally, the rabbi, out of his curiosity, | 15:43 | |
| could stand it no longer, and he says to Ibn Ezra, | 15:46 | |
| "Ibn Ezra, what is it that you say to the Master | 15:50 | |
| "of the universe that takes you so long?" | 15:55 | |
| Ibn Ezra says, "Rabbi, I'll tell you what I say | 16:00 | |
| "to the Master of the universe. | 16:03 | |
| "I say, 'O Lord of the universe, | 16:05 | |
| 'these are my sins and I confess them. | 16:09 | |
| 'I argued with my wife, | 16:14 | |
| but who doesn't? | 16:17 | |
| 'I was angry with my children, | 16:20 | |
| 'but what parent isn't? | 16:23 | |
| 'I cheated a little in the shop | 16:27 | |
| "but it was just a little and it was among friends. | 16:30 | |
| 'O Lord of the universe, these are my sins | 16:35 | |
| 'and they are very small. | 16:38 | |
| 'But now, consider your sins, O Master of the universe. | 16:41 | |
| 'You dry up the skies and our crops wither. | 16:48 | |
| 'You send too much rain and there is no food on our table | 16:56 | |
| 'for us to feed our children. | 17:03 | |
| 'The marriage bed is empty | 17:09 | |
| 'and there is no child in the womb. | 17:11 | |
| 'There are wars and our young die. | 17:16 | |
| 'These are your sins and they are very great. | 17:22 | |
| 'But I will make you a proposition. | 17:29 | |
| 'You forgive me my little sins, | 17:33 | |
| 'and I will forgive you your great ones.' | 17:36 | |
| "Now rabbi, I ask you, | 17:42 | |
| "was that asking too much?" | 17:45 | |
| After thinking a long while, the rabbi answered, | 17:50 | |
| "No, Ibn Ezra, it was not too much. | 17:53 | |
| "But why, | 17:59 | |
| "why did you drive so small a bargain? | 18:01 | |
| "For sins like those, you could've asked him | 18:07 | |
| "to send the Messiah, you could've asked him | 18:11 | |
| "to redeem the world." | 18:16 | |
| We long, | 18:23 | |
| we long for the moment in time | 18:25 | |
| when something will happen | 18:29 | |
| that will ease the fear | 18:33 | |
| and lessen the pain and heal the wounds | 18:36 | |
| and bind up our broken hearts. | 18:40 | |
| We yearn | 18:44 | |
| for someone | 18:47 | |
| or somebody | 18:49 | |
| or some event | 18:52 | |
| or some word | 18:54 | |
| or some presence | 18:56 | |
| that will bring comfort in the night, | 18:59 | |
| that will help carry the pain of our burdened lives, | 19:03 | |
| that will heal the racial strife in this land, | 19:08 | |
| that will heal our broken hearts, | 19:14 | |
| that will bridge all the exclusions | 19:18 | |
| and hatreds of this world. | 19:22 | |
| We know that the afflictions of humankind | 19:27 | |
| are so incomprehensible that the brokenness | 19:30 | |
| and sickness and pain and terror | 19:34 | |
| that we have known and seen, | 19:37 | |
| that for all of that, there must be | 19:39 | |
| someone, | 19:43 | |
| somebody, | 19:45 | |
| some word, | 19:48 | |
| some presence | 19:50 | |
| that will heal us, | 19:52 | |
| that will come | 19:54 | |
| and save us. | 19:56 | |
| John the Baptist was in prison. | 20:02 | |
| And John sent two of the disciples | 20:07 | |
| to go and search for that authentic one. | 20:09 | |
| James and John go on that journey to find Jesus | 20:14 | |
| with that deep and profound question | 20:19 | |
| that they wanted to have responded to. | 20:23 | |
| And they go to Jesus and they pose the question | 20:27 | |
| that we read from the gospel today. | 20:31 | |
| "Are you the one, | 20:34 | |
| or must we wait for another?" | 20:37 | |
| Are you the one? | 20:41 | |
| And many of you know that the Greek word for one, | 20:45 | |
| which is used in that text, | 20:49 | |
| is also the same word for Savior, | 20:51 | |
| and also the same word for the one who heals. | 20:55 | |
| Are you the one | 21:00 | |
| who comes to save us? | 21:03 | |
| Are you the one | 21:06 | |
| who comes to heal us? | 21:08 | |
| Are you the one tho comes to forgive us? | 21:12 | |
| Jesus responds in a most remarkable and graceful way. | 21:19 | |
| And I read it to you, and here is what Jesus said. | 21:24 | |
| He said, "Go and tell what you hear and see. | 21:28 | |
| "Go and tell what you hear and see. | 21:34 | |
| "The blind receive sight, lepers are cleansed, | 21:37 | |
| deaf hear, | 21:42 | |
| "the poor have good news preached to them, | 21:45 | |
| "and the wounds of the brokenhearted are healed." | 21:49 | |
| The whole story of salvation is the story | 21:56 | |
| of the God who comes, | 22:00 | |
| the God who comes to forgive us, | 22:03 | |
| the one who comes to heal our broken hearts. | 22:07 | |
| And Jesus says, "Go and tell what you have seen and heard." | 22:13 | |
| You saw Watts burn for five days, | 22:19 | |
| but you also saw schools integrated | 22:24 | |
| and children learn all kinds of new things | 22:28 | |
| and have new relationships. | 22:32 | |
| Go and tell that you saw and remember | 22:36 | |
| the rigidity of the Iron Curtain. | 22:40 | |
| And you also saw that wall that divided | 22:44 | |
| the East and the West come a-tumbling down. | 22:47 | |
| Go and tell that you saw the shattered dreams | 22:53 | |
| and promises when Martin Luther King was killed | 22:57 | |
| on that rainy April night. | 23:00 | |
| But you also go and tell that you saw Nelson Mandela walk | 23:04 | |
| out of those prison walls. | 23:09 | |
| Go and tell that you saw Jason | 23:13 | |
| and children and adults ostracized because they had AIDS. | 23:16 | |
| But you also go and tell that you saw people | 23:23 | |
| and organizations and churches establish | 23:28 | |
| new outreach ministries of healing. | 23:30 | |
| Go and tell that you saw the broken heart | 23:35 | |
| of that father the day his 17-year-old son left | 23:39 | |
| and went to that far country like Los Angeles, | 23:43 | |
| that far country to live his frightened and anxious | 23:47 | |
| and rebellious life. | 23:52 | |
| But you also go and tell | 23:55 | |
| that you saw that young man come home, | 23:58 | |
| and that ridiculous old man run out in the street | 24:01 | |
| and say of that one, "This one is my son, | 24:07 | |
| "he belongs to me. | 24:12 | |
| "He was dead and now he is alive. | 24:15 | |
| "He was lost and now he is found." | 24:20 | |
| Are you the one who will come? | 24:27 | |
| Are you the one who will come and save us? | 24:31 | |
| Are you the one who will heal our broken hearts? | 24:37 | |
| And Jesus said, "Go and tell." | 24:44 | |
| Thanks be to God, | 24:50 | |
| Amen. | 24:54 | |
| - | The Lord be with you. | 25:04 |
| (congregation mumbles) | 25:06 | |
| Let us pray. | 25:07 | |
| Oh God of the Spirit that lives and moves among us. | 25:12 | |
| We have heard of all that you are doing in the world. | 25:17 | |
| We've heard that you have made the blind to see, | 25:22 | |
| the lame to walk, the lepers to be cleansed, | 25:25 | |
| the deaf to hear, the dead to rise, | 25:29 | |
| and the poor to rejoice with good news. | 25:34 | |
| Dare we believe what we have heard? | 25:38 | |
| Are you the one? | 25:43 | |
| Dare we trust you to work your miracles in our lives? | 25:46 | |
| When we look at the suffering and destruction in our world, | 25:52 | |
| it is sometimes easier for us to believe | 25:57 | |
| in the power of darkness and death | 25:59 | |
| than the power of resurrection and light. | 26:03 | |
| When we focus on the disappointments, | 26:07 | |
| broken dreams, and the pain in our own lives, | 26:10 | |
| it is easy to forget that we do not suffer alone. | 26:15 | |
| We have heard that there is no pain | 26:21 | |
| that you have not already suffered on our behalf. | 26:23 | |
| We have heard that you have been through the darkness | 26:27 | |
| and have overcome it. | 26:31 | |
| Lord, we believe, | 26:34 | |
| help thou our unbelief. | 26:36 | |
| For you know that we are the blind, the lame, | 26:40 | |
| the leper, the death, the dead, and the poor. | 26:44 | |
| We are the broken-hearted with broken hearts | 26:51 | |
| and shattered dreams, and we stand in need | 26:55 | |
| of your healing presence. | 26:59 | |
| Come into our lives and bind up our brokenness. | 27:03 | |
| Make us whole, so that we might be the people | 27:08 | |
| you have called us to be. | 27:11 | |
| For as surely as you sent Jesus Christ to be our Savior, | 27:14 | |
| so you also send us to proclaim your deliverance | 27:19 | |
| to all the world. | 27:23 | |
| You have anointed us to bring good news to the oppressed, | 27:25 | |
| to bind up the broken-hearted, | 27:29 | |
| proclaim liberty to the captives, | 27:32 | |
| and release to the prisoners. | 27:35 | |
| There are so many in our world who are in need | 27:38 | |
| of the good news that we have been given. | 27:41 | |
| As you touch our lives in concrete ways, | 27:45 | |
| help us also reach out to others | 27:50 | |
| with concrete expressions of love and hope. | 27:52 | |
| Let us offer the good news of food and medicine | 27:57 | |
| to the millions of people starving in Somalia. | 28:00 | |
| Let us offer acceptance and healing | 28:05 | |
| to the lepers across the world | 28:08 | |
| as we work to eradicate AIDS. | 28:10 | |
| Let us strive for peace through racial justice | 28:14 | |
| and understanding in Yugoslavia | 28:18 | |
| and the inner cities of the United States. | 28:22 | |
| Let us offer the hope of freedom and the right | 28:26 | |
| to self-determination to political prisoners | 28:28 | |
| in Nicaragua, El Salvador, and South Africa. | 28:32 | |
| Let us provide the hope of dignity and self-determination | 28:37 | |
| to the poor who are beaten down by life. | 28:42 | |
| These and more stand in need of your healing power. | 28:46 | |
| Work through us, we pray, to repair the ruined cities | 28:51 | |
| and the devastation of generations, | 28:56 | |
| to bring hope out of despair, and life out of death. | 29:00 | |
| Strengthen us with your love as you send us forth in love. | 29:06 | |
| In the name of the one who binds up | 29:12 | |
| the broken-hearted we pray, amen. | 29:14 | |
| As a reconciled and healed people, | 29:20 | |
| let us offer signs of peace to one another. | 29:23 | |
| Please stand. | 29:26 | |
| (congregation chattering) | 29:33 | |
| Let us offer our gifts to God. | 29:51 |
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