Nancy Ferree-Clark - "The Compassion of Christ" (June 4, 1989)
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| Speaker | A reading from the gospel | 0:04 |
| according to St. Luke | 0:06 | |
| Soon afterward Jesus went to a city called Nain, | 0:08 | |
| and his disciples and a great crowd | 0:13 | |
| went with him. | 0:15 | |
| As he drew near to the gate of the city | 0:17 | |
| behold, a man who had died was being carried out. | 0:20 | |
| The only son of his mother | 0:24 | |
| and she was a widow. | 0:26 | |
| And the large crowd from the city | 0:28 | |
| was with her. | 0:30 | |
| And when the Lord saw her | 0:33 | |
| he had compassion on her | 0:34 | |
| and said to her, | 0:37 | |
| "Do not weep." | 0:39 | |
| And he came and touched the bier | 0:41 | |
| and the bearers stood still. | 0:43 | |
| And he said, | 0:46 | |
| "Young man, I say to you, arise." | 0:47 | |
| And the dead man sat up | 0:52 | |
| and began to speak, | 0:54 | |
| and he gave him to his mother. | 0:56 | |
| Fear seized them all | 0:59 | |
| and they glorified God saying, | 1:01 | |
| "A great prophet has risen among us!" | 1:04 | |
| and "God has visited his people!" | 1:07 | |
| And this report concerning him | 1:11 | |
| spread through the whole of Judea | 1:13 | |
| and all the surrounding country. | 1:15 | |
| This is the word of the Lord. | 1:19 | |
| There is a story in Buddhist tradition | 1:27 | |
| about a meeting that is suppose to have | 1:31 | |
| taken place one day between | 1:33 | |
| the Buddha himself | 1:34 | |
| and an odd little creature, | 1:36 | |
| known as the Monkey God. | 1:38 | |
| After the fashion of most monkeys, | 1:42 | |
| he was apparently impudent, ingenuous | 1:44 | |
| and rather ludicrous | 1:47 | |
| but above all he was very vain | 1:49 | |
| and very boastful. | 1:51 | |
| These qualities become apparent | 1:53 | |
| as soon as he and the Buddha | 1:55 | |
| came face to face | 1:57 | |
| because the very first thing | 1:58 | |
| he tries to do, | 2:00 | |
| is to prove that he, | 2:02 | |
| the Monkey God is just as powerful | 2:03 | |
| as the great Buddha himself | 2:06 | |
| if not indeed more so. | 2:08 | |
| In order to demonstrate this, | 2:11 | |
| he sets about performing a number of | 2:13 | |
| rather astonishing tricks. | 2:14 | |
| The kind you might expect from a monkey | 2:17 | |
| under the circumstances. | 2:19 | |
| And all the while he's performing them, | 2:21 | |
| the Buddha sits there | 2:23 | |
| politely attentive | 2:25 | |
| but giving no particular sign | 2:27 | |
| of being impressed. | 2:29 | |
| Finally, | 2:31 | |
| when he's plainly at his wits end, | 2:32 | |
| the Monkey God pulls out his best act. | 2:34 | |
| Which consists of taking one | 2:37 | |
| enormously leap into the air | 2:39 | |
| and disappearing from sight completely. | 2:41 | |
| He is gone for 5 minutes | 2:43 | |
| or 5 centuries, | 2:45 | |
| no one seems to know for sure. | 2:47 | |
| But eventually he comes back | 2:49 | |
| and stands around, | 2:51 | |
| waiting for the Buddha | 2:53 | |
| to ask him about his venture. | 2:54 | |
| But the Buddha says nothing at all. | 2:56 | |
| The Monkey God can't stand | 2:59 | |
| the silence any longer | 3:01 | |
| so he tells him anyway, | 3:02 | |
| explaining that he's just come back | 3:03 | |
| from the outer most limits of the Universe. | 3:06 | |
| And that perhaps, | 3:08 | |
| this is a journey that even the Buddha | 3:09 | |
| might find reason to admire. | 3:12 | |
| Then he stands around for a little while longer, | 3:15 | |
| hoping that this time | 3:17 | |
| the Buddha will ask him | 3:18 | |
| what he saw there. | 3:20 | |
| Again, there is no sound | 3:21 | |
| except for the sound | 3:24 | |
| of his own heart pounding. | 3:25 | |
| And again, he is forced to answer | 3:27 | |
| the question that has not been asked. | 3:29 | |
| He explains in detail how | 3:33 | |
| when he reached | 3:35 | |
| the outer most limits of the Universe, | 3:36 | |
| he saw there | 3:38 | |
| 5 huge granite pillars, | 3:39 | |
| which extended up and up and up | 3:42 | |
| until the tops of them | 3:44 | |
| were lost in the clouds. | 3:45 | |
| And what does the Buddha think of that | 3:48 | |
| he asks, | 3:50 | |
| looking up into the Buddhas great | 3:50 | |
| silent face. | 3:53 | |
| And this time the Buddha does answer | 3:55 | |
| but not in words. | 3:57 | |
| Instead of saying anything, | 4:00 | |
| the Buddha simply raises his hand | 4:02 | |
| and holds it up there | 4:05 | |
| before the Monkey God's eyes. | 4:07 | |
| As the Monkey God looks at it, | 4:10 | |
| his attention is drawn to the Buddhas fingers | 4:11 | |
| and as he gazes at them, | 4:14 | |
| he sees them not as fingers | 4:16 | |
| but as 5 huge granite pillars | 4:19 | |
| which extend up and up and up | 4:22 | |
| until the tops of them | 4:25 | |
| are lost in the clouds. | 4:26 | |
| I'm grateful to Frederick Bikaner | 4:31 | |
| for recounting this story | 4:33 | |
| in one of his sermons. | 4:34 | |
| For it seems to me | 4:36 | |
| to exemplify one of the great dilemmas | 4:38 | |
| that we face in the church. | 4:40 | |
| We preachers can spend inordinate | 4:43 | |
| amounts of energy | 4:46 | |
| doing all sorts of verbal contortions | 4:47 | |
| in an attempt to describe God. | 4:50 | |
| When what we really need to do | 4:53 | |
| is to point toward the reality | 4:55 | |
| of God's presence in your life | 4:56 | |
| and mine. | 4:58 | |
| Words were invented to deal | 5:00 | |
| with the world of time and space. | 5:01 | |
| Where as by definition, | 5:03 | |
| God exists beyond | 5:05 | |
| such categories all together. | 5:06 | |
| And so, | 5:09 | |
| in our attempt to talk about God | 5:10 | |
| we sometimes mix up the truth | 5:12 | |
| about the reality of God's presence. | 5:15 | |
| With their own notions | 5:18 | |
| of what it is that God ought to be about. | 5:19 | |
| This is especially the case | 5:22 | |
| when we bump up against | 5:24 | |
| some part of God's character | 5:25 | |
| that seems especially difficult | 5:27 | |
| to understand. | 5:28 | |
| For an instance, | 5:30 | |
| you may have heard someone proclaim that | 5:31 | |
| "God helps those who help themselves." | 5:33 | |
| Perhaps you, yourself have vouch | 5:37 | |
| for the truth of this statement, | 5:39 | |
| declaring that the bible tells you so. | 5:40 | |
| But in fact, | 5:43 | |
| the bible says something quite the opposite. | 5:45 | |
| Namely, that God raises the poor | 5:48 | |
| from the dust | 5:50 | |
| and lifts the needy from the ash heap, | 5:52 | |
| making them sit with nobles, | 5:55 | |
| as we read in today's Psalm. | 5:57 | |
| As the bible tells it, | 6:00 | |
| God is a compassionate God | 6:01 | |
| who helps those | 6:03 | |
| who either can't help themselves | 6:04 | |
| or for whatever reason | 6:06 | |
| have chosen not to do so. | 6:07 | |
| This became perfectly clear | 6:10 | |
| in God's self revelation | 6:12 | |
| through Jesus Christ. | 6:13 | |
| The tough thing though | 6:15 | |
| is that even when we say that, | 6:16 | |
| we haven't grasp | 6:18 | |
| the full meaning of this reality. | 6:19 | |
| For words can not contain it. | 6:22 | |
| Only by pointing to the experience | 6:25 | |
| of another | 6:27 | |
| and hopefully, | 6:28 | |
| someday having that experience | 6:29 | |
| for ourselves | 6:31 | |
| do we begin to know | 6:32 | |
| the full measure of God's mercy. | 6:34 | |
| Seen in that light | 6:37 | |
| our gospel lesson provides us | 6:38 | |
| with the powerful revelation | 6:41 | |
| of God's character. | 6:43 | |
| Which is easier to point to | 6:44 | |
| than to describe. | 6:46 | |
| There we find Jesus | 6:49 | |
| and his disciples | 6:50 | |
| as they draw near to the gate | 6:51 | |
| of the city of Nain, | 6:53 | |
| where they meet a funeral procession. | 6:55 | |
| Which was leaving the city | 6:57 | |
| to bury a dead man. | 6:58 | |
| The man who had died | 7:01 | |
| was the only son of his mother. | 7:02 | |
| They soon learned | 7:04 | |
| and she was a widow. | 7:05 | |
| Undoubtedly, | 7:08 | |
| hers is a hard life already. | 7:09 | |
| Due to the inferior position | 7:11 | |
| granted to widows | 7:13 | |
| in those days. | 7:14 | |
| In Hebrew law, | 7:16 | |
| she had absolutely no rights | 7:17 | |
| of inheritance. | 7:19 | |
| This strange neglect | 7:22 | |
| may have been due to the fact | 7:23 | |
| that the Hebrews believed | 7:24 | |
| that death before old age | 7:25 | |
| was a judgment for sin. | 7:28 | |
| Which was extended to the wife | 7:30 | |
| that was left. | 7:32 | |
| Widow in Hebrew, | 7:34 | |
| resembles the word | 7:36 | |
| meaning "be mute". | 7:37 | |
| Suggesting the muteness | 7:39 | |
| induced by a so called | 7:40 | |
| "disgraceful widowhood". | 7:41 | |
| In the case of this particular widow, | 7:45 | |
| her plight was even more tragic | 7:46 | |
| as this was her only son who had died. | 7:49 | |
| Bereft of both men in her life, | 7:52 | |
| she is without identity, | 7:55 | |
| security | ||
| or companionship. | 7:58 | |
| Thus Jesus looked upon her | 8:01 | |
| and all of her sadness, | 8:03 | |
| her despair, her hopelessness | 8:04 | |
| and was moved to have | 8:07 | |
| compassion on her. | 8:09 | |
| This may sound like a common response to us. | 8:11 | |
| Wouldn't any of us be moved to compassion? | 8:14 | |
| But a careful look at this text | 8:18 | |
| reveals the depth | 8:20 | |
| of this divine compassion. | 8:21 | |
| The Greek word for compassion | 8:24 | |
| used only in reference to Jesus | 8:26 | |
| or the Father, | 8:28 | |
| refers to the entrails of the body | 8:29 | |
| or as we might say the guts. | 8:32 | |
| When we say Jesus was moved | 8:36 | |
| to feel compassion for this widow, | 8:38 | |
| in his gut, | 8:40 | |
| this is obviously | 8:42 | |
| something quite different | 8:43 | |
| from passing feelings of sorrow | 8:44 | |
| or of sympathy. | 8:46 | |
| Rather it extended | 8:48 | |
| to the most vulnerable part | 8:49 | |
| of his being. | 8:51 | |
| It is related to the Hebrew word | 8:53 | |
| for compassion, | 8:55 | |
| which refers to the womb of Yahweh. | 8:56 | |
| When Jesus was moved to compassion, | 9:01 | |
| we can say that the womb of Yahweh trembled. | 9:03 | |
| This word reminds us that | 9:07 | |
| the source of all life | 9:09 | |
| remains connected to the creation | 9:10 | |
| which he, | 9:13 | |
| perhaps better referred to | 9:14 | |
| as she, in this instance, | 9:15 | |
| gives birth to. | 9:17 | |
| Much like a mother | 9:20 | |
| as forever bonded to her child | 9:21 | |
| but even more so. | 9:23 | |
| As the prophet Isaiah writes, | 9:25 | |
| "Can a woman forget her sucking child, | 9:27 | |
| that she should have no compassion | 9:30 | |
| on the son of her womb? | 9:31 | |
| Even these may forget, | 9:33 | |
| yet I will not forget you. | 9:35 | |
| I have carved you on the palm of my hand." | 9:38 | |
| says the Lord. | 9:41 | |
| This depth of feeling | 9:44 | |
| was revealed time and time again | 9:45 | |
| in scriptures | 9:47 | |
| as Jesus ministered to his people | 9:48 | |
| when he saw the crowd harassed | 9:50 | |
| and dejected like sheep | 9:52 | |
| without a shepherd. | 9:54 | |
| When he saw the blind, | 9:56 | |
| the deaf, | 9:57 | |
| the paralyzed being brought to him. | 9:58 | |
| When he noticed | 10:01 | |
| that the thousands who followed him | 10:02 | |
| were tired and hungry. | 10:03 | |
| Through Christ, it became clear | 10:07 | |
| that God has established | 10:09 | |
| solidarity with us | 10:10 | |
| whatever our predicament. | 10:12 | |
| We know that God has embraced | 10:14 | |
| everything human | 10:16 | |
| with infinite tenderness | 10:17 | |
| including our pain and grief. | 10:19 | |
| Well, this is certainly all good to know about | 10:23 | |
| you may be thinking. | 10:25 | |
| But why all this emphasis on | 10:26 | |
| Christ suffering with us? | 10:28 | |
| The widow's son | 10:31 | |
| was brought back to life, wasn't he? | 10:32 | |
| Isn't it the cure that really counts? | 10:34 | |
| Isn't that that proof of God's love towards us? | 10:37 | |
| Beware the limitations | 10:41 | |
| such a pragmatic view imposes on this story. | 10:43 | |
| Yes, Jesus did bring new life | 10:47 | |
| to those he met | 10:49 | |
| but it was out of his great compassion | 10:51 | |
| that such feeling and healing emerged. | 10:53 | |
| He did not cure to prove | 10:56 | |
| or to impress | 10:58 | |
| or to convince. | 11:00 | |
| Jesus' cure was the natural expression | 11:01 | |
| of his being our God. | 11:04 | |
| We know too well | 11:08 | |
| how hollow a cure can seem | 11:09 | |
| when performed without compassion. | 11:11 | |
| We all know of men and women | 11:14 | |
| who could walk again, | 11:15 | |
| see again or speak again | 11:17 | |
| but whose hearts remained dark | 11:19 | |
| and embittered. | 11:20 | |
| A genuine cure occurs | 11:22 | |
| most readily in a genuinely caring | 11:24 | |
| atmosphere. | 11:26 | |
| Otherwise, | 11:28 | |
| the attempt to provide a cure | 11:29 | |
| degenerates into manipulation | 11:31 | |
| or condescension. | 11:33 | |
| And so the truly good news | 11:36 | |
| is that our God is not a distant God | 11:37 | |
| to be avoided or feared | 11:40 | |
| but one who freely participates | 11:42 | |
| in the fullness of human struggle. | 11:44 | |
| We're not alone in our pain and sorrow. | 11:47 | |
| God truly cares for us. | 11:50 | |
| Simple as that may sound, | 11:55 | |
| it remains difficult to comprehend. | 11:56 | |
| We live in a world | 12:00 | |
| where the concept of caring | 12:01 | |
| becomes more and more ambiguous | 12:02 | |
| it seems. | 12:04 | |
| Even our language | 12:06 | |
| reflects a certain ambivalence | 12:07 | |
| toward the word care. | 12:09 | |
| "I would take care of him." | 12:11 | |
| is just likely to imply | 12:14 | |
| a threat, as a promise to show compassion. | 12:16 | |
| "I don't care." | 12:20 | |
| is a common place response | 12:21 | |
| to many choices in life, | 12:22 | |
| not least among them being religion. | 12:25 | |
| A carefree lifestyle | 12:28 | |
| is more attractive to most | 12:30 | |
| than a careful one. | 12:31 | |
| Genuine care is not ambiguous however. | 12:34 | |
| Real care excludes a difference | 12:38 | |
| and is the opposite of apathy. | 12:41 | |
| The word "care" finds its roots | 12:43 | |
| in the Gothic word "lament". | 12:45 | |
| The basic meaning of care is therefore | 12:48 | |
| "to grieve", | 12:50 | |
| "to experience sorrow", | 12:52 | |
| "to cry out with". | 12:53 | |
| This is especially interesting | 12:57 | |
| when you consider | 12:58 | |
| that we most often interpret care | 12:59 | |
| as an attitude of the strong | 13:01 | |
| toward the weak | 13:02 | |
| or of the powerful toward the powerless. | 13:04 | |
| And in fact, | 13:07 | |
| we feel quite uncomfortable | 13:08 | |
| with the idea of being with someone | 13:10 | |
| in pain, | 13:12 | |
| when that's all that we can do. | 13:14 | |
| What was your reaction | 13:17 | |
| the last time someone asked you | 13:18 | |
| to visit a dying friend | 13:20 | |
| or a family in mourning? | 13:22 | |
| In a provocative article | 13:26 | |
| of Dr. Thomas Long | 13:27 | |
| of Princeton Theological Seminary, | 13:29 | |
| who is a favorite guest preacher of ours | 13:31 | |
| here at the chapel. | 13:33 | |
| He proposes that our death denying culture | 13:34 | |
| has found more and more and more ways | 13:38 | |
| to remove ourselves from a process | 13:40 | |
| of caring for one another | 13:42 | |
| in times of grief. | 13:44 | |
| He comments on the way | 13:46 | |
| that just a couple of generations ago | 13:48 | |
| in the rural south, | 13:49 | |
| the community played a much larger role | 13:51 | |
| in the period of time | 13:54 | |
| immediately following a death. | 13:55 | |
| Plates of food were brought | 13:58 | |
| to the bereaved family | 13:59 | |
| so many that they had to be identified | 14:01 | |
| by names written on pieces of | 14:03 | |
| little adhesive tapes | 14:05 | |
| stuck to the bottom of the plate. | 14:06 | |
| The women were charge | 14:09 | |
| with the responsibility | 14:10 | |
| of washing and preparing the body | 14:11 | |
| for burial | 14:13 | |
| and the men would make the coffin. | 14:14 | |
| Members of the family often with friends, | 14:17 | |
| would sit up with the body | 14:19 | |
| the night before the funeral. | 14:21 | |
| After the burial, | 14:23 | |
| there would be an extended season | 14:24 | |
| of memorializing, | 14:26 | |
| when family and friends would gather | 14:27 | |
| for visiting and storytelling. | 14:30 | |
| These days seems we do well | 14:33 | |
| to find the time to send | 14:35 | |
| a sympathy card. | 14:36 | |
| Or to take the day off work for the funeral. | 14:47 | |
| Thank goodness | 14:50 | |
| we have the option of paying | 14:51 | |
| for the funeral director | 14:52 | |
| to make the necessary arrangements. | 14:54 | |
| All the way from preparing the body | 14:56 | |
| to providing transportation, | 14:58 | |
| we can be sure he will offer it with a smile. | 15:00 | |
| But this seems somehow | 15:04 | |
| in marked contrast | 15:06 | |
| to the early Christian notion | 15:08 | |
| that the rituals surrounding | 15:09 | |
| the death of a Christian | 15:10 | |
| belongs specifically to their own community. | 15:12 | |
| Enabling them to care for one another | 15:15 | |
| in their time of need. | 15:18 | |
| Whereas the Romans | 15:21 | |
| avoided touching the body, | 15:22 | |
| Christians gave their dead | 15:24 | |
| the kiss of peace. | 15:25 | |
| Among the Romans, | 15:27 | |
| the task of laying out the body | 15:28 | |
| was a chore given to a slave. | 15:30 | |
| Among Christians, | 15:32 | |
| it was a work of love | 15:34 | |
| carried out by family and friends. | 15:35 | |
| The Romans process to the graveyard | 15:39 | |
| to the sound of trumpets and lutes. | 15:40 | |
| The Christians | 15:43 | |
| to the chanting of songs. | 15:44 | |
| An impoverished Roman | 15:47 | |
| who died was buried unceremonialy | 15:48 | |
| on a common burying ground. | 15:50 | |
| Christians raised endowments | 15:53 | |
| for the burial of their poor. | 15:55 | |
| There's a sense on which | 15:58 | |
| all of these actions | 15:59 | |
| constituted a frame work | 16:00 | |
| of caring within the Christian community. | 16:02 | |
| A liturgical act | 16:05 | |
| and the best sense of the word | 16:06 | |
| which enabled them to act out | 16:08 | |
| their beliefs. | 16:11 | |
| Don't worry, I'm not proposing | 16:13 | |
| that we even attempt to go back | 16:15 | |
| to building our own coffins | 16:17 | |
| or preparing the bodies ourselves for burial. | 16:18 | |
| That's not likely | 16:22 | |
| to be a very popular suggestion | 16:22 | |
| in anybodies church. | 16:24 | |
| I'm simply saying | 16:27 | |
| that the challenge we do face | 16:28 | |
| as a Christian community | 16:30 | |
| is how to reclaim the call of Christ. | 16:32 | |
| Being compassionate as your father | 16:35 | |
| is compassionate. | 16:38 | |
| When we know the depth of caring, | 16:39 | |
| those words require of us. | 16:42 | |
| In a world that computes time as money | 16:45 | |
| it seems to be coming increasingly difficult | 16:48 | |
| to give of our time to one another | 16:51 | |
| and therefore of ourselves. | 16:53 | |
| It seems so much easier | 16:56 | |
| simply to pay to have it done for us. | 16:57 | |
| Meanwhile, | 17:01 | |
| we forego much of the joy | 17:02 | |
| that true caring brings to living | 17:04 | |
| and that Christian community is all about. | 17:06 | |
| It was the bereaved widow's | 17:12 | |
| extremely good fortune | 17:13 | |
| that she should encountered Jesus | 17:14 | |
| just at the time | 17:16 | |
| she did outside the city gate. | 17:17 | |
| No amount of money | 17:20 | |
| could've paid for the care | 17:21 | |
| he was about to provide her. | 17:22 | |
| "Do not weep" he said. | 17:25 | |
| As he gave her | 17:27 | |
| one of the greatest gifts | 17:28 | |
| a person could ever hope to receive. | 17:30 | |
| The gift of unspeakable joy, | 17:33 | |
| which accompanies the return of life | 17:35 | |
| where there was death. | 17:38 | |
| We've been privileged to know that feeling too | 17:41 | |
| but perhaps, | 17:43 | |
| without realizing where it came from | 17:44 | |
| such as the time | 17:47 | |
| a love one suddenly recovers | 17:48 | |
| after a life threatening illness, | 17:50 | |
| such as when we experience forgiveness | 17:53 | |
| after being filled with fear | 17:55 | |
| and shame, | 17:57 | |
| such as when we find ourselves | 17:59 | |
| being cared for | 18:01 | |
| after feeling lost and alone | 18:03 | |
| or in the face of a devastating lost. | 18:06 | |
| It is as if God | 18:09 | |
| has held up before us | 18:10 | |
| not the hand of the Buddha | 18:12 | |
| but the figure of a man | 18:14 | |
| whose face is marred almost beyond recognition | 18:16 | |
| but who can still say to us, | 18:20 | |
| "Do not weep, | 18:23 | |
| these things | 18:24 | |
| have I done for you | 18:26 | |
| that my joy may be in you". | 18:28 | |
| Thanks be to God. | 18:31 |
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