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[Blair Murphy] Your birth and your place of birth.

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[Annie Benton] Annie M Benton.

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<v ->And when?</v>

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<v ->November 19th, 1924.</v>

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In Norfolk, Virginia.

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<v ->And what was it like here in Norfolk</v>

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when you were a little girl?

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<v ->Well I, being born in, in the twenties,</v>

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I really, I don't remember too much, you know, about that.

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But, even in the thirties,

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we were a family that

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grandparent, one grandparent-

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'cause my grandfather had passed-

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was living with us and she had young,

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young children, young boy and a young girl at that time.

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So we were all living in a place together,

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apartment, and close knit families.

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And all the parents worked

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and they did menial work, you know, labor.

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My mother did housework.

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My grandmother did housework

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and my father worked

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on the salvage yard.

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We called it junk yard at that time.

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He was a welder.

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So it left really pretty much the children home.

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Of course we went to school, but mostly,

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we took care of the house.

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<v ->How many brothers and sisters did you have?</v>

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<v ->I had one sister.</v>

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I had two sisters, but the oldest one died

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when she was six.

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So I don't remember her.
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<v ->But I do have one sister.</v>

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<v ->What part of Norfolk did you live in?</v>

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<v ->Lived in Huntersville.</v>

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<v ->Okay.</v>

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I haven't heard of that area.

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Where is it?

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<v ->Let's see, it runs into Tidewater Drive.</v>

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Well, going east, I think,

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from where you, which is the way you came, I think.

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<v ->Okay, and that was mostly Black community?</v>

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<v ->Yes, all Black community.</v>

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Except there was a couple of stores

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that was run by Jews

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and they lived in the apartments above the store, right.

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But basically it was a Black community.

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It was a Black community.

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<v ->So did you live in a, like a house</v>

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or did you live in an apartment?

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<v ->No, we lived in an apartment.</v>

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It was a two bedroom apartment

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on our first apartment that we lived in.

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I remembered our bath was outdoors,

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but then we finally moved from there

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to a house that had a bath.

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<v ->Do you remember how old you were when you moved?</v>

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<v ->I think maybe around,</v>

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probably around eight or nine.

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<v ->Do you know how, where your father learned to do welding?</v>

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<v ->No, I really don't,</v>

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I really don't.

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I know he was in, in the service,

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but all I remember hearing him speak of about the service

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was that he was a cook in the service.

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<v ->So was he, did he enlist or did he, was he drafted?</v>

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<v ->He was drafted during World War I.</v>

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<v ->So did he go overseas?</v>

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<v ->No, he didn't get to go overseas.</v>

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<v ->And were your parents born in this area as well?</v>

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<v ->No, my father was born in a little place</v>

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on the other side of Emporia, Virginia

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called Pleasant Shade, Virginia.

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Most, a lot of people never heard of Pleasant Shade,

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but they have heard of Emporia.

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And my mother was born in Hickory, Virginia,

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which is near Chesapeake.

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<v ->So it's just, in the area.</v>
<v ->Yeah, uh-huh.</v>

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And they met in Norfolk, 'cause when he left

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Emp- Pleasant Shade,

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he went into the service and he settled in this area.

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<v ->So what was the name of your first school?</v>

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<v ->My first school? John T. West.</v>

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<v ->And how far was that from here? Where is it?</v>

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<v ->When I went to started in John T. West,</v>

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I was living on,

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I guess maybe a couple of blocks away from school.

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<v ->So you walked to school?</v>

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<v ->Yes.</v>

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<v ->How big was your school?</v>

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<v ->It was a two story school</v>

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and it went to the sixth grade.

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<v ->So did each grade have its own teacher?</v>

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<v ->Yes.</v>

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And they also had the little,

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had some couple of rooms on the outside

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of the larger school for the some lower grades.

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And after attending John T. West,

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I went to the junior high school,

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which was Booker T, Booker T. Washington,

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which is Booker T. Washington High School now.

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It was Booker T. Washington Intermediate

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on one side of the auditorium,
<v ->And the high school</v>

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on the other side?

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<v ->And the high school on the other side</v>

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of the auditorium.

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<v ->And that was a very large school?</v>

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<v ->Yes, it was.</v>

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And that was seventh grade through eighth.

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When you went to the ninth grade you went to high school.

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<v ->So you went to Booker T. Washington High School?</v>

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<v ->Right, uh-huh.</v>

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<v ->So what do you remember about that school?</v>

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<v ->What do I remember?</v>

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Well, I,

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let's see, basically was a lot-

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well, naturally it was a lot of studying

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and I didn't get to-

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I wasn't a socializer.

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I didn't socialize very much. (laughs) So.

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But I

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went to basketball games and they had football games.

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<v ->Did you like your teachers?</v>

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<v ->Well, yes.</v>

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I don't know of a teacher that I really didn't like, so.

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And you know, they put on plays and-

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<v ->So it was all Black high school as well?</v>

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<v ->Yes, it was.</v>

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<v ->And did you have good access to books</v>

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and things like that

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being a large high school?

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<v ->Yeah, I'm trying to remember, did we.</v>

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We had books.

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I think the school let you have books,

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but you had to turn those books back in

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at the end of the semester, mm-hmm.

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<v ->Did you have a library in the school?</v>

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<v ->In the school?</v>

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We always went to Blyden Branch library,

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which was,

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that was near my house too.

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<v ->That was a public library?</v>

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<v ->Yes, it was.</v>

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<v ->Was it the city library or?</v>

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<v ->No, it was just an area library</v>

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in the Huntersville area.

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<v ->So was it considered a Black library?</v>

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<v ->Yes, I would.</v>

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<v ->What do you remember about Norfolk?</v>

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Like where would you shop?

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<v ->On Church Street was the largest shopping area.</v>

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Of course, some people shopped on Granby Street,

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but basically, it was segregation during the early years.

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And a lot of people didn't go on Granby Street

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because you know, they-

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Well, you know how salespeople-

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Well, no, you don't know neither, how salespeople were.

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They would rather wait on a White person

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before they would wait on you, you know,

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so a lot of people just didn't go in that area.

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<v ->So those were White businesses?</v>

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<v ->Yes.</v>

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<v ->On Granby Street?</v>

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<v ->Uh-huh, but.</v>

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<v ->Church Street had Black businesses?</v>

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<v ->Some Black businesses,</v>

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but they had, most of them were White businesses.

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<v ->White owned?</v>

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<v ->White owned, yes.</v>

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<v ->But they were for a Black clientele?</v>

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<v ->Well, more or less, you know,</v>

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you would see White people in there shopping too, but.

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<v ->The Blacks were more accepted on Church Street?</v>

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<v ->Right.</v>

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Well, I guess the people, even at that time, I mean,

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even on Church Street

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felt some kind of

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segregation too, but you know, I never experienced it, so.

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<v ->What ways might they have experienced segregation</v>

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on Church Street?

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<v ->For instance, if there were,</v>

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if there was a White person in the store,

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they would recognize them before,

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you know, they would recognize you.

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<v ->So you'd just be standing there?</v>

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<v ->Yes, mm-hmm.</v>

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<v ->But it was worse on Granby Street?</v>

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<v ->Oh yes.</v>

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<v ->Did you shop on Granby Street?</v>

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<v ->I'll tell you the truth,</v>

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not during the school years, I don't think I ever remember.

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I don't remember.

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I might have, but I don't remember.

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Can't recall.

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<v ->So Church Street had clothing stores?</v>

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<v ->Yeah, shoe stores and furniture stores and whatever.</v>

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<v ->And would you go to the movies?</v>

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<v ->Yes, the movies were on Church Street, too.</v>

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<v ->Okay, so was that all Black movie theater?</v>

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<v ->Yes, but they were owned by White,</v>

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but they were Black movies, you know, for Black people,

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movies for Black people.

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<v ->Did you ever go to a movie theater</v>

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that was like segregated within the movie house?

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<v ->No, uh-uh.</v>

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<v ->They just had to go-</v>
<v ->Yes.</v>

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<v ->And Whites would go somewhere else?</v>

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<v ->Yes, on Granby Street and other streets, mm-hmm.</v>

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<v ->What'd you do after high school?</v>

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<v ->Well, I got married in,</v>

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I got married in, you want the year?

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<v ->Sure.</v>

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<v ->I got married in '42, 1942.</v>

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And then my first child was born in

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'40- one minute-

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'43, that's when it was, mm-hm.

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<v ->Did you work?</v>

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<v ->Not at that time, I didn't.</v>

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And then I had a second child in '44.

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And I think I worked between the third child,

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the second and the third child, which was, huh?

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<v ->What'd you do?</v>

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<v ->Housework.</v>

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<v ->So you-</v>
<v ->At that time</v>

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I did housework.

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<v ->So what year did you have your third child?</v>

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<v ->'48.</v>

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<v ->Okay.</v>

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And where'd you work?

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<v ->After she was born I did some catering.</v>

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I did catering at

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a all White church.

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<v ->So you, would you cook at the church or?</v>

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<v ->Yes, mm-hmm.</v>

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And in the meantime

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I was still doing housework

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and I went to beauty school at night.

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<v ->So where did you do housework?</v>

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<v ->You mean what area?</v>

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<v ->Yeah, and well, for whom?</v>

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<v ->Well, the White people that I did the housework for-</v>

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<v ->Was it a family?</v>

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<v ->Yes, mm-hmm.</v>

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Well, a husband and a wife,

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wasn't, you know, they didn't have children.

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I don't even know what the year I started beauty school

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and what year I came out of beauty school.

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It was in the fifties,

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I know that I completed it.

251
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Then I worked for a few years in the beauty salon.

252
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<v ->What was that like?</v>

253
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<v ->Enjoyable, 'cause I enjoyed doing hair.</v>

254
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The only thing about working in the beauty parlor

255
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was the majority of the people work days

256
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and you had to work nights.

257
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So I worked for a while,

258
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but after my children started getting in the teenage years,

259
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I came out of the beauty parlor

260
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so I could be home evenings with them.

261
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<v ->Okay, so you worked in the evenings when you started.</v>

262
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<v ->When I first started I'd work any time, day,</v>

263
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but I'd work through the evenings, you know,

264
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but you got mostly your appointments in the evening

265
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after, you know, working hours

266
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after four o'clock I would say.

267
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So then.

268
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<v ->What's the salon did you work for?</v>

269
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<v ->In the beauty parlor?</v>

270
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<v ->Yeah, the beauty parlor.</v>

271
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<v ->I think, let's see,</v>

272
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until '60,

273
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1960, 'cause I had another child in '61.

274
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<v ->Okay.</v>

275
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<v ->I'd say '61 because no, it was '60 in 1960</v>

276
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because he was born in the early '61.

277
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<v ->So what salon, what beauty parlor</v>

278
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did you work for, the name of it?

279
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<v ->Beatrice Beauty Salon.</v>

280
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<v ->And where was that?</v>

281
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<v ->In Huntersville.</v>

282
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<v ->Was it a big salon?</v>

283
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<v ->I'd say, well comparing to the salons today</v>

284
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it was small

285
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'cause it had six chairs in it, you know.

286
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<v ->And did most of your clientele</v>

287
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what'd they do for a living?

288
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<v ->Were they what?</v>

289
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<v ->Did, were they school teachers or were they?</v>

290
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<v ->Yeah, some school teachers, housewives,</v>

291
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domestic workers, like, you know,

292
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I had been.
<v ->A whole</v>

293
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range of people?
<v ->Yes, mm-hmm, right.</v>

294
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Yes, and of course, after I had my fourth son,

295
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I would stay at home for a while, but

296
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I guess until he was about, I don't know,

297
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four or four and a half anyway,

298
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I put him in kindergarten and

299
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I went back to doing day's work.

300
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So when he left out, I would leave out

301
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and by the time he got back home, you know,

302
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I was coming in

303
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or my father at that time would take him in

304
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if I, you know, didn't get there before he did.

305
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<v ->So what did your husband do?</v>

306
00:19:06.420 --> 00:19:08.380
<v ->He was a stevedore. That-</v>

307
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And now his first job, he was,

308
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he worked in

309
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a fish shop

310
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where they sold fish, the fish market.

311
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And then he became, you know,

312
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he went to the tobacco company after the first job.

313
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And then he went in service.

314
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<v ->Did he serve in the war?</v>

315
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<v ->He been overseas, but the war ended when he got-</v>

316
00:19:54.660 --> 00:19:56.427
<v ->Okay, so that was World War II?</v>

317
00:19:56.427 --> 00:19:58.844
<v ->Yes, this was World War II.</v>

318
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And when he came back, he went,

319
00:20:04.050 --> 00:20:06.283
he got a job as a stevedore.

320
00:20:07.640 --> 00:20:09.880
He worked on a longshoreman's corner

321
00:20:10.740 --> 00:20:14.673
and then he went down to the Naval Supply Center.

322
00:20:21.900 --> 00:20:25.070
<v ->So what was it like during World War II?</v>

323
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Because you had children.

324
00:20:27.840 --> 00:20:31.080
<v ->Yes, I had, during World War II,</v>

325
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I had two children when he went in the service.

326
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<v ->Because they had like the rations.</v>

327
00:20:38.820 --> 00:20:39.653
<v ->Right.</v>

328
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Yeah, I'll tell you the truth,

329
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I done forgot all about the war.

330
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(interviewer laughs)

331
00:20:51.639 --> 00:20:53.572
<v ->So I guess it must not have been that difficult.</v>

332
00:20:53.572 --> 00:20:54.489
<v ->No, I, no.</v>

333
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I tell you, it-

334
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I guess,

335
00:21:01.559 --> 00:21:03.060
I tell you the truth I never really had

336
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that much money to work with.

337
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So I always could budget. (phone rings)

338
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[INTERRUPTION]

339
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<v ->You were saying that you could budget.</v>

340
00:21:14.010 --> 00:21:16.623
<v ->Yes, I learned to budget very well.</v>

341
00:21:18.469 --> 00:21:21.273
So I think we did pretty good.

342
00:21:22.950 --> 00:21:24.120
We had problems.

343
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We would

344
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get behind in little things at different times,

345
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but you know, we basically made it.

346
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<v ->You had help from your parents?</v>

347
00:21:40.890 --> 00:21:43.470
<v ->Well, yes, because when I first got married,</v>

348
00:21:43.470 --> 00:21:48.470
I lived with my parents until the second child was born

349
00:21:50.460 --> 00:21:55.460
and this was when my husband went in service.

350
00:21:55.950 --> 00:22:00.423
And then when he came out of service, we got an apartment.

351
00:22:06.728 --> 00:22:09.090
<v ->And what church did you go to?</v>

352
00:22:09.090 --> 00:22:12.390
<v ->At that time, I was going to the Church of God</v>

353
00:22:12.390 --> 00:22:13.773
and True Holiness.

354
00:22:23.220 --> 00:22:24.820
<v ->And what denomination is that?</v>

355
00:22:25.920 --> 00:22:27.363
<v ->Congregational Christian.</v>

356
00:22:36.760 --> 00:22:41.583
Okay, then when I, when we got an apartment to ourselves,

357
00:22:42.630 --> 00:22:45.240
we lived next door to Shiloh Baptist

358
00:22:45.240 --> 00:22:50.240
and I sent my children to Shiloh Baptist Church.

359
00:22:53.325 --> 00:22:55.675
And, of course, I went there on occasions, too.

360
00:23:00.883 --> 00:23:02.444
<v ->And what church did you grow up in?</v>

361
00:23:02.444 --> 00:23:03.277
Did you grow up in-

362
00:23:03.277 --> 00:23:07.077
<v ->In the Church of God and True Holiness, mm-hmm.</v>

363
00:23:07.077 --> 00:23:09.483
<v ->What was that like?</v>

364
00:23:09.483 --> 00:23:12.570
<v ->Well, we enjoyed it, you know, you know how children are,</v>

365
00:23:12.570 --> 00:23:14.310
they always had your space, you know,

366
00:23:14.310 --> 00:23:16.740
kids sat on one side of the church.

367
00:23:16.740 --> 00:23:20.070
And we were involved in different things

368
00:23:20.070 --> 00:23:24.450
and Sunday school

369
00:23:24.450 --> 00:23:29.450
and speaking, putting on programs.

370
00:23:33.803 --> 00:23:34.636
<v ->So.</v>

371
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(phone rings)
<v ->I'll take this off. [INTERRUPTION]</v>

372
00:23:38.010 --> 00:23:43.010
<v ->So was it like a social aspect of going to church as well?</v>

373
00:23:43.825 --> 00:23:44.658
<v ->Yes. Yes.</v>

374
00:23:46.058 --> 00:23:47.000
<v ->[Answering Machine Message] Hello,</v>

375
00:23:47.000 --> 00:23:50.466
I'm not able to answer your call at this time.

376
00:23:50.466 --> 00:23:53.220
<v ->We, it was a group of us, you know,</v>

377
00:23:53.220 --> 00:23:55.470
that always got together

378
00:23:55.470 --> 00:23:58.110
and would walk to church

379
00:23:58.110 --> 00:24:01.610
and you know, we enjoyed it. (Answering machine beeps).

380
00:24:10.505 --> 00:24:13.740
<v ->So do you remember any of like</v>

381
00:24:13.740 --> 00:24:16.803
the signs of segregation in Norfolk?

382
00:24:18.210 --> 00:24:20.110
<v ->Yes, riding the bus</v>

383
00:24:21.330 --> 00:24:25.230
where the Blacks had to sit in the back,

384
00:24:25.230 --> 00:24:26.523
the Whites in the front.

385
00:24:31.800 --> 00:24:35.970
How a White person could come up and ask you to move,

386
00:24:35.970 --> 00:24:38.020
to get up and let them have the seat and,

387
00:24:44.070 --> 00:24:46.890
take that phone off the hook for me, please.

388
00:24:46.890 --> 00:24:47.723
Thank you.

389
00:24:49.140 --> 00:24:50.910
<v ->And were there any other,</v>

390
00:24:50.910 --> 00:24:53.650
like the bathrooms or bus stations

391
00:24:55.710 --> 00:24:57.952
where you had separate?

392
00:24:57.952 --> 00:25:00.780
<v ->Yes, there were.</v>

393
00:25:00.780 --> 00:25:02.703
I know in the bus terminals.

394
00:25:07.860 --> 00:25:10.053
I never rode a train from Norfolk.

395
00:25:11.820 --> 00:25:16.440
I rode a boat and got on a train in Cape Charles,

396
00:25:16.440 --> 00:25:18.603
but I don't remember whether, you know.

397
00:25:21.210 --> 00:25:22.660
<v ->What boat would you get on?</v>

398
00:25:27.570 --> 00:25:30.120
<v ->Well, I don't know what the boat was.</v>

399
00:25:30.120 --> 00:25:34.590
It was a ferry would take you to Cape Charles

400
00:25:34.590 --> 00:25:36.720
when you were going north,

401
00:25:36.720 --> 00:25:39.030
you had to catch the boat from Norfolk,

402
00:25:39.030 --> 00:25:42.750
the ferry from Norfolk and- Kiptopeke Ferry.

403
00:25:42.750 --> 00:25:45.073
That's what it was, was called.

404
00:25:47.282 --> 00:25:49.157
(phone disconnected beeps)

405
00:25:49.157 --> 00:25:51.064
Oh gosh, that's going to be-

406
00:25:51.064 --> 00:25:53.970
<v ->That's okay, that's okay.</v>

407
00:25:53.970 --> 00:25:55.220
<v ->It's going to be on there.</v>

408
00:25:56.318 --> 00:25:59.107
(phone disconnected beeps)

409
00:25:59.107 --> 00:26:00.628
It'll stop.
<v ->Okay.</v>

410
00:26:00.628 --> 00:26:04.211
(phone disconnected beeps)

411
00:26:06.610 --> 00:26:08.320
And I never experienced

412
00:26:10.770 --> 00:26:13.080
any segregation on the boat,

413
00:26:13.080 --> 00:26:15.880
I guess I was never

414
00:26:19.800 --> 00:26:21.570
had to go to the, you know, the restrooms

415
00:26:21.570 --> 00:26:22.759
or anything like that.

416
00:26:22.759 --> 00:26:26.342
(phone disconnected beeps)

417
00:26:37.500 --> 00:26:38.333
<v ->Did your grand,</v>

418
00:26:38.333 --> 00:26:41.698
your grandmother was alive when you first moved in?

419
00:26:41.698 --> 00:26:42.531
<v ->Yes.</v>

420
00:26:44.880 --> 00:26:48.193
<v ->Did she tell you any stories, like family stories?</v>

421
00:26:49.468 --> 00:26:51.930
<v ->Mm, yes.</v>

422
00:26:51.930 --> 00:26:54.420
They used to tell little things,

423
00:26:54.420 --> 00:26:57.237
but I don't remember it now.

424
00:26:57.237 --> 00:26:59.760
<v ->Did she tell you stories about slavery?</v>

425
00:26:59.760 --> 00:27:00.593
<v ->Oh, no.</v>

426
00:27:08.915 --> 00:27:11.377
<v ->What newspapers did you read?</v>

427
00:27:11.377 --> 00:27:16.377
<v ->"The Virginian-Pilot" and "The Journal and Guide,"</v>

428
00:27:19.110 --> 00:27:21.975
which was a Black newspaper.

429
00:27:25.507 --> 00:27:28.623
"The Pilot" wasn't Black. It was, it's White.

430
00:27:34.050 --> 00:27:37.320
<v ->And would the White paper include any like Black news</v>

431
00:27:37.320 --> 00:27:40.973
or things that were going on in the Black community?

432
00:27:40.973 --> 00:27:43.806
<v ->I'm sure so, but I don't remember.</v>

433
00:27:45.237 --> 00:27:46.830
<v ->But to find out about Black stuff,</v>

434
00:27:46.830 --> 00:27:49.389
you mostly read "The Journal and Guide"?

435
00:27:49.389 --> 00:27:50.972
<v ->"The Guide," yes.</v>

436
00:27:51.982 --> 00:27:54.565
I'm sure they, the White paper,

437
00:27:56.340 --> 00:27:58.683
printed Black news, probably.

438
00:28:02.010 --> 00:28:04.360
I guess all the bad things, I'm sure.

439
00:28:04.360 --> 00:28:05.193
(interviewer chuckles)

440
00:28:05.193 --> 00:28:06.026
<v ->Mm-hmm.</v>

441
00:28:15.750 --> 00:28:16.780
<v ->Oh, health.</v>

442
00:28:18.330 --> 00:28:21.060
Could you tell me a little bit about healthcare?

443
00:28:21.060 --> 00:28:21.893
<v ->Healthcare?</v>

444
00:28:21.893 --> 00:28:23.310
<v ->Yeah, like would you go to,</v>

445
00:28:23.310 --> 00:28:26.529
did you go to the hospital and have your children?

446
00:28:26.529 --> 00:28:27.946
<v ->Yes, I did, but</v>

447
00:28:30.403 --> 00:28:33.419
I went to an all Black hospital.

448
00:28:33.419 --> 00:28:34.252
<v ->Okay.</v>

449
00:28:39.218 --> 00:28:40.809
So most people when they had their children,

450
00:28:40.809 --> 00:28:42.930
they went to the hospital?

451
00:28:42.930 --> 00:28:44.640
<v ->Well, no, not most people.</v>

452
00:28:44.640 --> 00:28:48.840
I mean, a lot of people, you know, went to hospital,

453
00:28:48.840 --> 00:28:53.057
but I know a lot of people that stayed home had midwives.

454
00:28:53.057 --> 00:28:54.157
<v ->Midwives.</v>
<v ->Mm-hmm.</v>

455
00:28:58.440 --> 00:29:00.770
But I guess I was just fortunate, you know,

456
00:29:00.770 --> 00:29:03.093
to have gone to the hospital.

457
00:29:04.980 --> 00:29:07.180
<v ->So most people couldn't necessarily afford</v>

458
00:29:08.097 --> 00:29:09.660
to go to the hospital?

459
00:29:09.660 --> 00:29:11.760
<v ->Well, I think maybe during the time</v>

460
00:29:11.760 --> 00:29:13.773
that I was having my children,

461
00:29:15.690 --> 00:29:19.973
I believe that most folks-

462
00:29:21.330 --> 00:29:24.453
Well, at least most I knew, you know, they had jobs.

463
00:29:26.730 --> 00:29:31.110
So, and at that time it was much,

464
00:29:31.110 --> 00:29:34.859
much cheaper to have a child then than it is now.

465
00:29:34.859 --> 00:29:38.052
'Cause I remember my first one, I paid 27.50.

466
00:29:38.052 --> 00:29:40.800
(laughs)

467
00:29:40.800 --> 00:29:41.967
<v ->That's good.</v>

468
00:29:43.967 --> 00:29:45.389
You would like that, now?

469
00:29:45.389 --> 00:29:46.639
<v ->Yeah. Mm-hmm.</v>

470
00:29:48.090 --> 00:29:49.323
<v ->Did you ever travel?</v>

471
00:29:50.190 --> 00:29:55.170
<v ->Yes, we would travel mostly to Philadelphia.</v>

472
00:29:55.170 --> 00:29:56.730
I had an aunt and uncle

473
00:29:56.730 --> 00:29:59.190
and that's where my grandmother eventually went

474
00:29:59.190 --> 00:30:00.813
to Philadelphia to live.

475
00:30:03.109 --> 00:30:04.473
I had cousins up there, so.

476
00:30:10.200 --> 00:30:13.500
<v ->What do you remember about traveling? Did you enjoy it?</v>

477
00:30:13.500 --> 00:30:17.133
<v ->Yes, you know, you always enjoy being with family.</v>

478
00:30:19.182 --> 00:30:21.753
Of course we had eventually, you know,

479
00:30:22.620 --> 00:30:23.820
had friends up there.

480
00:30:23.820 --> 00:30:27.453
I still communicate with, you know, a friend, there.

481
00:30:30.390 --> 00:30:32.280
<v ->Was Philadelphia, a lot different than Norfolk</v>

482
00:30:32.280 --> 00:30:35.193
at the time or was it kind of the same?

483
00:30:38.622 --> 00:30:39.573
<v ->I think,</v>

484
00:30:40.592 --> 00:30:43.150
I'm thinking that there was some difference

485
00:30:44.820 --> 00:30:47.073
and perhaps I did not notice, you know,

486
00:30:49.380 --> 00:30:53.020
the differences, but

487
00:30:54.570 --> 00:30:55.683
I really don't know.

488
00:31:00.810 --> 00:31:02.280
You go and visit, you know,

489
00:31:02.280 --> 00:31:06.690
you get out and go around to different places,

490
00:31:06.690 --> 00:31:10.800
shopping and to the stores and all,

491
00:31:10.800 --> 00:31:14.580
but I never noticed that much.

492
00:31:14.580 --> 00:31:18.040
But other than riding the buses myself, I never really

493
00:31:24.630 --> 00:31:29.043
felt a lot of segregation.

494
00:31:32.220 --> 00:31:35.463
Maybe I didn't go to the places, you know, but you know.

495
00:31:36.630 --> 00:31:39.930
<v ->So you could kind of avoid like the insults.</v>

496
00:31:39.930 --> 00:31:43.110
<v ->Mm-hmm, well no, I never, you know,</v>

497
00:31:43.110 --> 00:31:44.673
experienced anything like that.

498
00:31:45.630 --> 00:31:49.167
And I don't think it was because I avoided to, you know,

499
00:31:49.167 --> 00:31:52.833
but I just never experienced anything like that.

500
00:31:53.820 --> 00:31:56.760
<v ->There was like a Black community</v>

501
00:31:56.760 --> 00:31:58.500
large enough that you didn't have to-

502
00:31:58.500 --> 00:32:00.243
<v ->Well, yes, that's true.</v>

503
00:32:03.420 --> 00:32:06.480
And then too, in the later years when I did start shopping,

504
00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:09.540
you know, on Granby Street and wherever,

505
00:32:09.540 --> 00:32:11.470
I still didn't experience any

506
00:32:14.310 --> 00:32:16.593
major segregations, you know.

507
00:32:20.430 --> 00:32:23.180
<v ->Do you think that was because Norfolk was more urban?</v>

508
00:32:24.540 --> 00:32:25.500
<v ->It might have been.</v>

509
00:32:25.500 --> 00:32:27.773
And then too, you know, there's a lot

510
00:32:27.773 --> 00:32:31.350
of servicemen in this area, you know,

511
00:32:31.350 --> 00:32:32.943
especially Navy men, you know.

512
00:32:39.690 --> 00:32:41.313
<v ->How would that have affected?</v>

513
00:32:45.120 --> 00:32:46.170
<v ->I don't know.</v>

514
00:32:46.170 --> 00:32:50.163
I imagine because I just have seen, you know-

515
00:32:51.990 --> 00:32:55.290
Now I've heard of, you know,

516
00:32:55.290 --> 00:32:58.380
segregation among the servicemen,

517
00:32:58.380 --> 00:33:02.280
but I used to see the Black and the Whites together,

518
00:33:02.280 --> 00:33:05.343
you know, in the early years, so.

519
00:33:07.680 --> 00:33:09.030
<v ->And that was kind of normal</v>

520
00:33:09.030 --> 00:33:11.493
because it was a mix of people in the area.

521
00:33:11.493 --> 00:33:14.553
<v ->Yes, and then too, they were, you can push that.</v>

522
00:33:15.810 --> 00:33:19.200
They were, I imagine because they were servicemen

523
00:33:19.200 --> 00:33:22.530
and I guess stationed together

524
00:33:22.530 --> 00:33:24.183
and had become friends, you know?

525
00:33:32.187 --> 00:33:33.020
<v ->Okay.</v>

526
00:33:34.702 --> 00:33:35.747
Where would you take your children

527
00:33:35.747 --> 00:33:38.250
'cause you lived in like an urban area.

528
00:33:38.250 --> 00:33:39.330
Were there parks where you-

529
00:33:39.330 --> 00:33:44.330
<v ->Yes, there was a city park</v>

530
00:33:45.030 --> 00:33:47.250
which was segregated

531
00:33:47.250 --> 00:33:51.820
and then there was a park in Huntersville

532
00:33:52.950 --> 00:33:57.950
that it was a nice park that the kids always used.

533
00:33:59.280 --> 00:34:00.209
<v ->And that was an all Black park?</v>

534
00:34:00.209 --> 00:34:01.376
<v ->Yes, it was.</v>

535
00:34:03.690 --> 00:34:06.030
<v ->How was the other park segregated?</v>

536
00:34:06.030 --> 00:34:10.950
<v ->Well, how?</v>

537
00:34:10.950 --> 00:34:12.393
They had, I guess they.

538
00:34:16.890 --> 00:34:18.840
<v ->Did they, they have dividers,</v>

539
00:34:18.840 --> 00:34:20.950
are there certain areas you weren't supposed to go?

540
00:34:20.950 --> 00:34:23.937
<v ->No, I don't, I never experienced anything like that.</v>

541
00:34:23.937 --> 00:34:24.770
<v ->Oh, okay.</v>

542
00:34:24.770 --> 00:34:26.100
<v ->Because they, the city park, you know,</v>

543
00:34:26.100 --> 00:34:29.220
you had the animals and all different things like that

544
00:34:29.220 --> 00:34:30.750
looked over.

545
00:34:30.750 --> 00:34:31.983
I could be, you know.

546
00:34:36.090 --> 00:34:39.170
<v ->Just seems strange they would try to segregate a park.</v>

547
00:34:42.720 --> 00:34:44.250
<v ->Maybe you just felt that way.</v>

548
00:34:44.250 --> 00:34:49.178
You know, knowing how, how the area was.

549
00:34:49.178 --> 00:34:51.570
<v ->Children weren't, White and Black children couldn't play.</v>

550
00:34:51.570 --> 00:34:54.000
<v ->Oh, well they didn't, you know,</v>

551
00:34:54.000 --> 00:34:57.540
I guess unless the schools carry, of course at that time,

552
00:34:57.540 --> 00:35:01.099
the say, you know, schools weren't integrated.

553
00:35:01.099 --> 00:35:02.583
<v ->Mm-hmm.</v>

554
00:35:03.750 --> 00:35:07.050
<v ->But I know the schools would carry the kids, you know,</v>

555
00:35:07.050 --> 00:35:08.193
out to city park.

556
00:35:10.922 --> 00:35:14.550
And of course my kids, you know, I took them to the beach.

557
00:35:14.550 --> 00:35:19.290
We had a couple of Black beaches in the area,

558
00:35:19.290 --> 00:35:22.293
City Beach and Seaview Beach.

559
00:35:24.295 --> 00:35:28.020
There was a Buckroe Beach over in Newport News

560
00:35:28.020 --> 00:35:29.735
or Hampton one, I don't know which,

561
00:35:29.735 --> 00:35:32.068
Newport News, I think it is.

562
00:35:37.816 --> 00:35:38.649
I don't know.

563
00:35:39.537 --> 00:35:42.150
You know, churches used to,

564
00:35:42.150 --> 00:35:45.960
especially in the summertime after vacation Bible school,

565
00:35:45.960 --> 00:35:49.680
they always had a big day at the beach.

566
00:35:49.680 --> 00:35:53.733
So that was something that kids always look forward to.

567
00:36:01.680 --> 00:36:03.243
<v ->So did you enjoy this time?</v>

568
00:36:04.140 --> 00:36:05.537
<v ->Yes, I did.</v>

569
00:36:08.383 --> 00:36:12.270
I guess we were poor folks,

570
00:36:12.270 --> 00:36:13.860
but we didn't know we were poor,

571
00:36:13.860 --> 00:36:18.787
you know, and I think the neighborhood was,

572
00:36:19.860 --> 00:36:23.913
was closer then, you know, than it is now.

573
00:36:28.200 --> 00:36:30.810
<v ->You had a lot of friends in your area?</v>

574
00:36:30.810 --> 00:36:34.590
<v ->Oh, well, yes, you know, nice neighbors.</v>

575
00:36:34.590 --> 00:36:39.590
And of course you could tell a neighbor's child

576
00:36:39.900 --> 00:36:43.260
to behave or a neighbor could tell your child to behave

577
00:36:43.260 --> 00:36:48.260
and you know, they would, he would see the difference.

578
00:36:54.483 --> 00:36:55.316
<v ->Okay.</v>

