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I think that family reunification is one of the most
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difficult moments as one, as, you know, potentially
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the most joyful, because the expectations are so huge
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and that's a moment that's been longed for, for so long.
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And yet I think there's a real fear on both sides that,
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you know, this is someone who you've loved
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but who might've changed irreparably.
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I think I, you know, I think some
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of the men themselves would, you know, would say that
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about themselves, that they may not be able
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to find who they were before to love again.
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So I think that moment is extremely difficult and
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you know, to be reunited with someone who
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with whom you were so intimate before, and to
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have all the different feelings of shame and mistrust
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and anger and paranoia and deep sadness and depression
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and anxiety and all of the, all of those things that you
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would have and feel like maybe that you don't want to
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show all of that, you know, that there would be a sort
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of pressure to show that now, now you're out.
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Everything is okay, but that's just, just beginning
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And with children is it?
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I think it's very difficult with children.
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Of course, you know relationships don't always survive
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Guantanamo, parental or sibling or marital.